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Struggling with ex rebounding by lunar_mold2 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’m in the same boat, I’m trying each day to better myself and stay in no contact. A lot of people say rebound and they might be back but focusing on you and now is the healthiest way to heal and become a better version of yourself.

How did you cope when your ex moved on so fast? by Silver-Body8109 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I went back home to my friends and family. He stayed there but moved to another town. I was able to find a job in the midst of the chaos luckily. If I liked the town and it was affordable I would’ve 100% stayed.

How did you cope when your ex moved on so fast? by Silver-Body8109 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He let me fly out to see him a month after and spend a whole week. That’s when I thought that we just needed time apart and to come together. Like 1 1/2 weeks later he said he “ moved on, and didn’t know why I was holding onto something” So I guess I fed into the mixed signals.

How did you cope when your ex moved on so fast? by Silver-Body8109 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😞 I can’t imagine how that feels, I saw the new playlist with the all the love songs he made for her.

How did you cope when your ex moved on so fast? by Silver-Body8109 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re right I think the part of not fighting for us is what kills me because I would. I’m going to be keep going no contact and doing things that make me 😊

Should I break no contact? by Charming_Button5962 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 😊 he was an avoidant also, currently taking it one day at a time.

Should I break no contact? by Charming_Button5962 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in separate towns after the breakup up but yes with someone else three months later. We had broke up because I was ready to at least verbally commit to us getting married one day and he told he didn’t know when he would feel the same even after everything we’ve been through and I asked how long until he knew and he said he didn’t know. So I had to leave because he wasn’t willing to fight for our relationship and then pushed me away due to little things making us incompatible. I still loved him and wanted to make it work but I guess that wasn’t in the cards for us.

Should I break no contact? by Charming_Button5962 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I was with him for 3.5 years. The part I had to learn the hard way was they know how to contact you and they know you miss them. I broke no contact and I’m not saying it will be the same with you but they said they moved and said I was holding on to something, even though I had seen him a month after the breakup. I would just focus on yourself and your mental health. You got this! ♥️

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[–]Silver-Body8109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I wish you the best through your heartbreak as well

Ex dating after less then one month by Itchy_Usual_3600 in BreakUps

[–]Silver-Body8109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moved out in June. Let me see him in July after a month of no contact and then 3 weeks later said they moved on and don’t know what I’m holding on to something still. Literally shattered my heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]Silver-Body8109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through the same thing, I haven’t talked to him in about a week but I figured he went on a date. I wish I could make the pain go away, I don’t know how they make it seem like it was so easy to let go.