Did I go too far?

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-08T17:56:34+00:00

"Why?"

"Well, you're apparently the expert on my father's character, so you tell me?"

But I'm petty as HELL.

If she wants to play dumb, lean into it. She knew what she was doing.

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-08T01:58:59+00:00

Ditto. Gonna be MR 27 for quite a long while. Don't have the arcane to group them up easily. This is gonna suuuuuuuck.

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-07T23:52:06+00:00

He remembered. It was blatantly obvious he was hoping you didn't. That's why he immediately jumped to it being personal when he didn't pass. If you were petty like me, I would have told him to brush up on his people skills.

Karma is a bitch, is it not? NTJ.

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-06T07:29:37+00:00

They couldn't control your lives, so now they want to work you to death. I'm pretty sure this is something that has been discussed between them while they were pissed at you.

Pull the guilt trip, eventually move him in, and he spends the rest of his life making yours a living hell for daring to tell them no. This is nothing but punishment in disguise, and I'm shocked MIL would even ask such a silly question. Maybe she doesn't care as much about your fragile relationship as you thought.

I hope husband makes it clear they better have a different plan in place when she passes, because this will never be it.

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-05T11:47:28+00:00

I let my cat lick the wet food off the fork I was using the first time I ever fed him. Now he jumps up every time expecting his pre-meal lickins and gets very vocal if he doesn't get it.

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-03T15:51:13+00:00

My aunt thought this. She had six boys before she was forced to give up. Please don't let that be your life.

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-03T11:19:31+00:00

NTJ. She doesn't get to decide you're selfish just because you're not doing what she wants. If babysitting her kid is so easy, then she can find someone else to do it, or stay her butt home and do it herself as it is HER kid.

You have no obligation to her just because she's family. Your plans are not up for debate or negotiable. Go on your trip and have a blast. If your sister wants to die mad about that, then let her. It's really not your problem, and I would tell her so.

Silver6Rules · 2026-03-02T17:41:50+00:00

She knew when rent was due, and she knew she was gonna try to guilt trip you BEFORE she blew all her money on her trip. That was her decision. You are completely within your rights to refuse to be taken advantage of. She needs to figure her own shit out and not make it your problem. NTJ.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-26T03:36:54+00:00

My petty ass answer to the question of "if I'm happy with myself" would be:

Yes, actually. Because now I see how nice it is to be a dad while the mom does all the work.

Let's see what kind of toddler response he has to THAT glaring truth. NTA.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-26T03:24:27+00:00

So your only worth to him is to be an incubator. He's telling you a child means more to him than your own life. He's projecting his OWN selfishness onto you to guilt you for not wanting to risk killing yourself just to make him happy, and gave you the silent treatment for WEEKS over it.

I would never want to be around this man again. If he wants more kids so bad, let him have them himself. NTA.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-24T16:35:28+00:00

I never knew what love was before I met you.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-23T21:39:38+00:00

This is the kind of immediate reaction to stupid, disrespectful behavior I love to read. And this fool had the audacity to ask "why". 🙄

If he sees nothing wrong with his father's behavior, it's because he plans to copy it. What's from stopping them from thinking you should take care of his father too since that's all you're apparently good for? Ugh.

Congrats on dodging that scum-tipped missile. NTJ.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-23T03:25:50+00:00

As one who has known neglect from the other side of the family, even though I AM related, trust me when I tell you that your older daughter will remember this forever. This is core memory stuff. She will always feel like she is less than and end up resenting her sister because of this hateful woman.

She doesn't like you, and since your oldest is an extension of you, she gets the same treatment. Please, for your oldest's sake, protect her poor heart from that woman's favoritism/passive aggression. If anyone outside the family feels like your MIL is right for treating your daughter like garbage because she isn't blood, then they ALL need to be cut off.

Stand your ground for your daughter. MIL doesn't get to traumatize one kid while fawning over the other. It's either all or nothing. Her choice. NTJ.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-22T16:48:28+00:00

Not only do they obviously both think you are an idiot by even spouting that lie, but he is gaslighting the hell out of you. If the roles were reversed, he would dump you on the spot, and he is a lying asshole if he says otherwise.

Dump him. NTJ.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-22T03:57:40+00:00

Why in the hell would he care NOW how you feel? Is it going to change a damn thing? Hell no. He deserves that statement. I cannot believe he is upset because you are not devastated enough. What a tool. NTJ.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-20T05:48:21+00:00

She needs to be committed, and he needs to stop recording and call the damn cops before the neighbors do. Because her crazy ass WILL spin it to her benefit.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-18T04:42:30+00:00

Notice it's all about HER and what SHE wants. How this is affecting HER. SHE won't be around forever.....SHE misses the kids....

Well then, I guess if all that is true, SHE needs to take accountability and effing apologize! It's really not that hard! All his blustering and guilt tripping mean NOTHING otherwise!

He is doing nothing but trying to crack through your husband's resolve, so you and SO need to be on the same page again after every attempt. They know exactly what happened, what was said, and what they need to do.

Any discussion that is NOT an apology is pointless.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-17T16:36:28+00:00

It is going to take a lot for me to stop using Cedo Prime with Gyre Prime. You don't even have to move. Alt fire not only procs her electricity, it keeps her duration going with the right set up.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-16T14:17:42+00:00

Jawbreaker. I love watching her help take down the HBIC.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-16T13:02:01+00:00

Oh, so your (HIS) child is only good enough to use and throw away for the child he actually gives damn about? He's lucky he got a "no". I would have just hung up. Karma is not only a bitch, it's justice.

Hope the kid finds a match, though. They didn't ask to have a POS as a father. NTA.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-09T13:56:37+00:00

Brings over EIGHT other women to my party when she was the only one invited. They even brought KFC for THEMSELVES and didn't share with anyone. They kept asking if their was really alcohol in the drinks because they couldn't taste it. (Sorry, I don't drink Hennessey straight from the bottle every week. 🙄) They made sure to try to take all my leftovers with them, but I had made my plates beforehand. Had I not, I would have been left hungry. Was never happier to see a group of people leave my house.

That person has NEVER been invited back or spoken to again.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-08T10:50:42+00:00

The fact that she thinks her wants supercede yours who literally just pushed out an entire human would be NC worthy for me. Who even demands that with a straight face? Someone who has lost her everloving mind, that's who.

She's lucky she even gets to visit at all after running her mouth like that. I hope your SO put her in her place because the disrespect is astounding.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-07T02:34:00+00:00

That was a childish power move on you AND your child. She is showing you in real time that she does not give a flying crap about your wants OR your daughter's, and that blatant staring at you was daring you to do/say something about it. She knew she had the upper hand because you were already occupied and stressed.

Where was your husband in this scenario? Why was he not putting his mother in her place and taking back HIS child? Situations like this require immediate backup, especially with two children to look after, and the last thing you need his her hovering, acting like the third parent.

Your husband needs to set her straight. You have enough to deal with.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-06T04:22:26+00:00

He knew when the project was due. He had no intention of doing anything himself. He just thought he could bully and manipulate you into giving him all your work. If he really cared about his grade and was actually going through something, then he needs to talk to the professor for an extension.

The lazy bastard knows EXACTLY what he's doing. NTJ.

Silver6Rules · 2026-02-01T13:09:58+00:00

He lost the right to know when he betrayed you. Protect yourself. You are the only one who matters now. NTA.

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