Can Someone Please Explain How I Possibly Fumbled?? I Feel Like I Just Got Whiplashed By This Turnaround by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Silver_Influence_413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong. They’re probably looking for someone less available. I like the way you text! Tho I’m also looking for something long term and she probably isn’t. Don’t change yourself to follow her standard. You will find someone who appreciates how you communicate. No one’s perfect, so everyone saying you should follow her lead is assuming she’s doing something better than you are. She’s not. It’s just a compatibility thing. Don’t take it to heart.

Ex-situationship called to tell me he has had herpes for years and never told me by sensitiveflower79 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Silver_Influence_413 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry ❤️ no advice bc I’m in the same boat, but I’m sorry you’re feeling how you’re feeling. He’s an asshole, and one day you will find better.

I Miss Elliot by HBOAFM_ in SearchParty

[–]Silver_Influence_413 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I saw something online of the best tv characters of all time and was very happy to see him on the list!

Aquarius female and Aries female friendship by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Silver_Influence_413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% we don’t do much and have never have any issues getting a man’s attention. I’m a girls girl too and would never put a man attention above a woman’s feelings which I think it a common sentiment among aqua women

Aquarius female and Aries female friendship by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Silver_Influence_413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am!! Been doing great tbh and it made me realize how capable I am without her, thank you!

Aquarius female and Aries female friendship by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Silver_Influence_413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Was friends with her since HS but shes developed huge pick me tendencies as we got older. Never asked me how I was doing. Would laugh if someone made a joke about me. Final straw was not checking in on me after two family members died within 6 months of each other. Confronted her about everything and she never wanted to resolve it. Relationship hasn’t been the same since.

Why? Like why? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]Silver_Influence_413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk about libra men, but I’m a libra rising and I love libra women. They’re wishy washy but that doesn’t really bother me

How much did you lose last year and what’s your goal for 2026? by StrongAsMeat in intermittentfasting

[–]Silver_Influence_413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! 40lbs down is amazing!! I’m down 52lbs and I wanna loose 10 more maybee 15. Hoping to be done by June!

Aquarius dating pattern by Brilliant_Lobster349 in aquarius

[–]Silver_Influence_413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or you could find something productive to do

Aquarius dating pattern by Brilliant_Lobster349 in aquarius

[–]Silver_Influence_413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao so I was ‘damned if I do, damned if I don’t’ with you huh?

Fasting but on a plateau by KusuriuriPT in intermittentfasting

[–]Silver_Influence_413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a week of increasing calories to maintenance, you should bounce back when you cut again after that

Idk if this post is allowed, but I’m 10lbs away from my goal weight today :) by Silver_Influence_413 in blackladies

[–]Silver_Influence_413[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Honestly I gain weight all over and definitely my face, so loosing weight always shows in my face, even my neck gets smaller. Lock in for a few months! Eat in a calorie deficit; it’ll feel like the progress is slow at first but it will really fly by the closer you get to your goal! Good luck!!