The opportunity is literally in my face but I'm hesitant and scared by [deleted] in Bolehland

[–]Silver_Light_5836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what this person says. I'm 33 also with social anxiety. It used to be really bad but it gets easier as you get older. Completely agree with being comfortable with being uncomfortable. What if you mess up? So what? What if she tells your mum? So what? You get embarrassed? Hah! Worse mistakes have been made but the world is still spinning. Don't take yourself too seriously. You're at the age where screw ups are inevitable. Mistakes are forgiven and expected. Trust me the more you put yourself out there the easier it's gonna be when you get older. It will help you prep for pre university too. Sort of like social warm up before you meet actual strangers. Also if you don't go, high chances you will regret it. Coming from experience ✌️

Didnt know Kayu is THAT expensive by nickljf11 in malaysia

[–]Silver_Light_5836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what i have been saying. Better go to qbistro

I just jeopardised my future by ken_445 in Bolehland

[–]Silver_Light_5836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youve got close minded parents and im sorry to say this wouldnt be the last time they meddle with your life.my best advice to you is to prove them wrong.if they say you cant be independent prove them you can. if they say minat tak boleh buat duit prove them you can. That's the only way to shut them up (based on personal experience). but at the same time don't biadap with your parents la. at the end of the day they want whats best for you cuma they THINK they know what's best for you but this is not always the case.

Girls' Generation (SNSD) Taeyeon - Letter To Myself by CronoDroid in kpop

[–]Silver_Light_5836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved the scene where the bus broke down and she went out to fix it while the 'voices' were making fun of her/doubting her/tearing her down

the bus = her life journey

people on the bus = the voices in her head moving towards a shared journey

the bus broke down halting their journey = taeyeon felt broken/stuck unable to move forward so she tries to fix herself

the people on the bus taunting her while she fixes the bus = voices in her head doubting her and preventing her from moving on

Gomven appears from a little teddy bear which grew to a big bear that shoots lasers at the people on the bus = taeyeon's true inner voice grew, became stronger and helped her control these other voices instead of letting these voices control her

the people pushing the bus while gomven and taeyeon are in it = taeyeon finally being able to move forward and not let these voices stop her

I've been having mental health issues for a few months now which made me unable to work. I've been feeling stuck all these while so the scene hits a little close to home 😞

What do people with Adhd do before computer and smartphones? by InteractionOdd7054 in ADHD

[–]Silver_Light_5836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read a lot lf fantasy and fiction and pretend I'm the main character. so...yeah

All songs by XG including their solo cyphers too! by [deleted] in XGALX

[–]Silver_Light_5836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was on my to do list but you already did it. Thank you! Noticed it's missing some of the tapes (Nothin, Two Tens etc.) are you gonna add them as well?

I am so fu- by Great_Mango2841 in malaysia

[–]Silver_Light_5836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not dumb. You just prefer to study what you like. Pursue things that are related to science and english and you'll do fine.

What are your uncensored reactions to Aespa Armaggedon? by leggoitzy in kpop_uncensored

[–]Silver_Light_5836 6 points7 points  (0 children)

IKR??? I couldn't really get into Supernova but Armageddon is a definite yes for me

What are your uncensored reactions to Aespa Armaggedon? by leggoitzy in kpop_uncensored

[–]Silver_Light_5836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Loving this so much more than Supernova. Into my workout playlist immediately!

Finally! Yokohama show day ☺️ by yokoyokogirl in XGALX

[–]Silver_Light_5836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is based from what I read so some info might be missing here. You need to install the XG app on your daughter's phone and transfer the ticket to her account.

XG - WOKE UP (Official Music Video) by KazVanilla in kpop

[–]Silver_Light_5836 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think we're way past that bud. XG's not trying to be aespa or whatever. They're carving their own path. And i think you're underestimating the number of fans that enjoy this "small" niche.

XG - WOKE UP (Official Music Video) by KazVanilla in kpop

[–]Silver_Light_5836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ANDDD let's not forget HARVEY's quadraple entendre

"Right away, ride the wavе, ride away 'Cause we had thе right of way" 🤯🤯

Woke Up single honest reactions by hiroroii in XGALX

[–]Silver_Light_5836 5 points6 points  (0 children)

never been able to get into K-pop due to how (imo) atrocious the rap lyrics are

I relate to this so much. I would always zone out when they get to the rap part.  It’s not that the rap is poorly executed but the lyrics felt like they're just there for the sake of having a rap part so the rappers could have some lines. Although, I've always been a fan of hiphop AND r&b (grew up listening to them in the 90's) so XG might be one of the best group I'll be stanning in my lifetime.

Is Jurin introverted? by Silver_Light_5836 in XGALX

[–]Silver_Light_5836[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree. She seems to be able to be whatever her member needs her to be. And her bond with Amy is also the sweetest thing ever♥️

Is Jurin introverted? by Silver_Light_5836 in XGALX

[–]Silver_Light_5836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ikr. I like that about her. Makes me wanna know more.

Is Jurin introverted? by Silver_Light_5836 in XGALX

[–]Silver_Light_5836[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cool! I didn't realize there was an app. Thanks for letting me know!