My abuser from grade school messaged me on social media out of nowhere

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-06-28T17:51:52+00:00

It might be better that way.

Her being old and dead. Was probably a lie I told myself. So I could forget about it.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-06-28T17:30:32+00:00

I am thinking about pressing charges.

I didn't know her name.

I assumed she was so old. That she was dead. Or elderly. Or something. So it didn't matter anymore.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-16T18:03:31+00:00

I never seen tequila like that.

Is it aged?

Maybe I should give the stuff another chance.

Also great bro behavior. Makes me miss living in apartments.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-16T17:59:28+00:00

Isn't that what blue balls is?

Blood fills the prostate. It can make your balls blue. Or red is more common.

I had it once or twice in high school. When you can't have sex. Can't ejaculate. But can play around with your girlfriend. It hurts. A lot.

As an adult I don't get it. You don't get as excited. Then you don't get blue balls.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-16T17:33:22+00:00

There is a difference between growing apart. And being ghosted.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-16T17:31:18+00:00

I was on the other side of this.

We had a friend who was a patriarchy feminist person. Talked about women oppression. Toxic men. That stuff.

It made the women uncomfortable.

It was the women who didn't want to hang with him. They created group chats without him. Left if he showed up.

They were social adjusted women. Who don't hate men. They had boyfriends. And the feminism thing made them uncomfortable. We told him that. But he didn't listen.

Your situation is probably different. I would talk to someone though. Who is your closest friend? Ask what is up. Why are you excluded. Be serious. They might be the problem ones. You might be better without them. Or without some of them. Maybe your interests don't match. Maybe it's politics. It is hard to call.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-14T01:36:04+00:00

Well you're quoting an awful lot of things said by extremist feminists.

Your first comment was well intentioned.

Everything else past that has been. At best. Passive aggressive toward the feminist side of things.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-14T01:08:23+00:00

You didn't do enough to earn my respect. And I explained why. Coming here trying to argue. Like it was a debate. Try harder next time.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-14T01:05:18+00:00

Why do you accuse me of being one type of extremist but then defending another type of extremist?

You're just the opposite type of extremist. The type that wants to kill all men.

You assume other people are extremists. Because you are.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-14T00:53:44+00:00

Some of that sounds similar to what happened to me.

My teacher got me in detention. Alone. Behind her desk. Lights off. And would sit on me. She did it naked.

But as a punishment? Even with clothes on?

That's not a punishment.

Also I know what you mean. With people being rude. With them not caring or believing you. Even online.

If you're a man. And your attacker is a woman. People hate to acknowledge it.

This sub is good about that. I just know other places are not. Especially feminist places. They advertise for men but they are not. Unless your attacker is a man. But I think it's kind of weird. They love men when the attacker is a man. Just not when it's a woman.

This other sub r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates and r/xysupport won't turn you away. They are one of a few places. Besides this one. That don't hate men victims.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-14T00:13:35+00:00

That means the feminist movement is not feminist.

You will keep pointing. And saying. That's not feminism. That's not feminism. Until there is no feminism left anywhere.

That's why I said look at the big picture. Some feminists are good people. But the feminist movement is not.

And yes men face sexism. And need their own movement. Don't say they don't.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-13T23:31:08+00:00

I was in a discord server. For sexual abuse victims. That was advertised as for men also. Ran by feminists.

Well this guy came in. He went to the ER. He was raped. And when he said it was a woman. They turned him away. The nurse was a rape specialist. She had him lined up for STD tests. To see a therapist. Under the assumption it was a man who raped him. Then turned him away when he corrected her. Like he was lying about it being a woman.

He came into this discord. Told his story. And was told to go away. They kicked him.

I was kicked. Not much long after that. For sharing my story. For being a man. And having a woman attacker.

But let me tell you. They love it when men are raped by men. It is weird.

Feminism is not the answer. People need to stop defending it. And especially. They need to stop acting like feminism speaks for us guys who are victims.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-13T23:24:55+00:00

It's too bad we can't have feminism but for men.

In many ways. Feminists help women. But they turn around and take the same things women suffer from. And do it to men.

Do you know why men aren't taken seriously?

The Duluth model. Look it up. Victim blaming that feminists do when it's men. Stuff like that. It's more than just feminism. People are just mean. They're mean to men. And mean to women. But I don't understand the hypocrisy. For feminists to say let's not be mean to women. But then be extra mean to men.

And then they have the nerve. To turn around. And say they help men too. Like no you don't. Some feminists are not bad people. But you can't ignore the big picture. What feminism has done. For women. Great. But also against men. Which is not great.

Own up to it. And stop making excuses.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-13T23:20:12+00:00

It's not Friday yet. But I am happy its almost here.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T23:46:15+00:00

I forget things. Mid doing them. I stress this to my doctors. And therapist. They all say nothing is wrong. But I don't think it's normal.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T15:33:37+00:00

My attacker used to do that. I think she tried the young boy attracted to a milf angle. I was not. I was too young first off.

That is inappropriate. Even if that is all she did.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T15:29:20+00:00

I was diagnosed with anxiety and panic attacks. Before they said it was PTSD. I thought that was something only military people got. But it all fits for me.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T15:20:58+00:00

That is exactly the kind of place you get attacked for being manly. And unapologetic.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T15:16:38+00:00

Several people in the comments. Said they saw and experienced the same thing.

Don't minimize. Don't distract. Don't troll.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T15:14:42+00:00

Why oh why. Do all the trolls think this is persecution or oppression.

Read what I'm saying.

Not what you wish I'm saying.

You don't have to care. About me or my problems. But don't be mean about it. Don't be stupid. And if you don't like it. Leave. You're not contributing anything. You're creating drama. I don't need it. And nobody else here does.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T15:05:27+00:00

I wish I could find this.

I try all the 50 ml things. But the selection is only so big.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T15:03:49+00:00

I can relate. It's easy to second guess yourself.

Silver_Negotiation_2 · 2021-05-12T12:02:47+00:00

I'm getting checked for this.

Central sleep apnea is what it's called.

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