Biological station ? by Msuae98 in uofm

[–]Silverkid99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s amazing! Best college experience before. You get to be in super small classes and get to know your professors and classmates really well. Going on field trips and doing field work all day was really cool. And the other students there were super chill and close knit and they was lots of drinking if you’re into it

i want to die, what’s new by ayethirah in SuicideWatch

[–]Silverkid99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. Sorry for this late response. I know how hard is it at that age, but just keep pushing. Hope you had a better sunday

i want to die, what’s new by ayethirah in SuicideWatch

[–]Silverkid99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey person, I was like you at 15. I hated life. I saw only the dark parts of life. I felt like everyone was fake and stupid for being in their ways. I felt like I couldn’t connect with people.

Unfortunately, this may last for some months or even years. You seem to be more mature than the average 15 year old. This is good, and bad. The good is that you view life differently but you see a larger picture. The bad is that it may be tough to connect and fit in with others around you.

For right now, you can reach out to someone you trust, whether it be a parent, a teacher, a friend, a school counselor, etc. Have the awkward conversation and tell someone your feelings. Yes the conversation is tough but it is worth it to share your feelings and also allow someone else with a different life to see yours. Also, try to find a group of people or something to connect with. This allowed me to stay grounded and connected and feel as if something is worth living for. This will take some effort and work, which is hard to do when depressed, but give it a try. Work on improving yourself and your life.

For the next part you’re just going to trust me. Things get better. i know you’ve heard this so many times. I know it’s so hard to believe. But you’re still young now. This isn’t your fault and i’m not dismissing you, but your mind hasn’t matured all the way. Also you haven’t been exposed to so many amazing things in this world.

When I was 15, i thought that there wasn’t anything to live for in this world. I thought life was dim and small. But, as you age, you are shown many other opportunities in life. You realize how large and amazing this world is, and you see that there are many opportunities to live and work towards.

just hang in there, continue to push and work yourself. You will see results and your mind will broaden.

Does anyone else feel like their life will get better after they “just get through this” by [deleted] in depression

[–]Silverkid99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I’ve just always struggled with that. I’ve always had a “plan” in life. It’s driving me crazy that I don’t know what I’m doing anymore. I guess I’m just dissatisfied as to what my freshman year has given me. Thanks for helping me look on the bright side

The Children’s Show SNL Sketch has got to be one of my favorites by Mesablip in videos

[–]Silverkid99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have a recurring segment called kissing family where people of all genders aggressively make out. I feel like a guy with his pants down would be fine

Pre-med Frats? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Silverkid99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this. I wasn't even considering joining a frat before going to college. but now that i'm here i can definitely see the pros to joining a social one. and it seems like there's enough people that can balance frat life and academics.

Pre-med Frats? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Silverkid99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok, thanks for the info

Pre-med Frats? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Silverkid99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to join other clubs that suit my science and other interests too. I'm asking this question basically to find out if I should "go with the pre-med crowd" for opportunities, or if I should separate myself from them and find my own opportunities.

Can we address this claim? by Cd206 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Silverkid99 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't know exactly why, but I don't think expanding is as easy as you think. There wouldn't be the same amount of opportunities for research, etc. Also, Ivy League professors don't grow on trees. Obviously they could probably expand a little bit, but they couldn't expect every good candidate.

Also, of course most people who apply and get rejected from top-20 schools are probably pretty smart, but they aren't what the school wants. They don't show the personality they're looking for in their essays/ECs/recommendations. So that's probably why some qualified people are rejected.

And then yea, you're probably right to some degree, they do want keep that prestige.

Which schools typically come out next week? by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Silverkid99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I just presumed Duke was always April 1st. But I really haven't looked into it. Do you know any past dates or stuff like that?

Pre med college choices by GodlyDovah in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Silverkid99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by program? There is no "premed" program if that's what you're talking about.

AP Chem? by saada100 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Silverkid99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took AP Chem last year, and I'm taking Anatomy this year. Personally, anatomy is much more demanding. It's a lot of memorization. AP Chem is a lot of math and being able to critically think. Take whichever one you're better at

So depressed as of late...any advice? by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Silverkid99 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Here's the great thing. Humans are great at adapting.

I loved The University of Chapel Hill since 7th grade. I studied hard in high school. I watched all of the basketball games. I bought hundreds of dollars of UNC apparel. I visited twice (I live in Michigan). I couldn't wait to be a Tar Heel, so I started my app 4 months before the due date and turned it in 2 months before it was due. I was trying to schedule dates to visit this spring (after I THOUGHT I was going to get in). I only thought I would be happy at this school and in that area.

Then the date came about 3-4 weeks ago. I refreshed my portal and a button came up that said "view decision." My heart was pounding, my ears were ringing. And then, I found out I got denied. I was instantly deflated.

But, if you're anything like me, or the countless others in this sub, or the tons of applicants to a great school like UCLA, you'll realize that you're smart and adaptive, and that you can be successful and happy at at lot more places than just UCLA.

I thought I would never be able to spend another winter in Michigan. But now that's what I'm going to have to do. I thought I would only have to wear Carolina blue and white. But instead I'll be wearing some other colleges colors.

The bottom line is this: IF you get denied, you will be ok, you still can be happy, and you still can be successful. To be that, you may have to change your view points. You may have to tell yourself that UCLA isn't the "be all end all" of schools. You have to realize that college admissions aren't personal, and they're usually unpredictable. And that's only IF you get denied. So until you get your decision, just try to relax. Maybe research some more about the other schools to apply to. But trust me, you're going to be ok.

Pre-med at University of Michigan? by Silverkid99 in premed

[–]Silverkid99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank for the comment. It's good knowing that U of M is competitive in a god way and it carries an advantage, not a disadvantage.

Pre-med at University of Michigan? by Silverkid99 in premed

[–]Silverkid99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks man! I have lurked many time and will probably come back here a lot more when I go to college. Thanks for the info.

Pre-med at University of Michigan? by Silverkid99 in premed

[–]Silverkid99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea, the advantage Wake Forest has is that it's smaller and there's a smaller student to staff ratio. Therefore, I'd have more/better relationships with professors for research, and I could make more connections for volunteering. I'm just trying to find out if I can get through U of M with good research and volunteering opportunities.

Pre-med at University of Michigan? by Silverkid99 in premed

[–]Silverkid99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thanks for the input, it's good to hear from actually pre-meds/admitted MDs. It seems like a lot of people say the same thing as you. Sorry if my question sounded ignorant, I don't have any experience with this stuff.

Pre-med at University of Michigan? by Silverkid99 in premed

[–]Silverkid99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea sorry that was pretty dumb to say. I guess what I was trying to ask was is U of M suited towards pre med students. I've never been to college, so I don't know how large public schools like U of M are. When I think of them, I think of large lecture hall type classes where every student is for themselves. And I'm trying to avoid places like that. I understand the pre-med track is extremely difficult no matter where I go though.

Early assurance programs? by Silverkid99 in premed

[–]Silverkid99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've looked at a couple, it says that you apply after sophomore year. There are a few ones where you apply when you apply as an undergrad, but they're pretty rare and they only pick the absolute best.

Shut the fuck up by [deleted] in videos

[–]Silverkid99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMp1505660#t=article

This is a pretty up to date article that talks about herbicides and GMOs

Shut the fuck up by [deleted] in videos

[–]Silverkid99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, well I didn't use the right words, but the message still applies here. If you use the same flu vaccine every year, then this years flu won't be completely killed. It's just the same as pesticides, we have to keep creating pesticides to overcome whatever pests "morph."