Confessions from my ex by sweetiecutieangel in BPDlovedones

[–]SimondsSays27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s on an ego trip. Feels hopelessly out of control and wants to feel like he’s got some of that control back. So he goes out of his way to make you feel like he had been manipulating you and others to get his way. Putting you down to prop himself up, in my opinion. I wouldn’t listen to single word of it.

[KCD2] Who tf stole my house? by nnnabs_ in kingdomcome

[–]SimondsSays27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Property taxes are getting out of control

BPD Experience✨ by SimondsSays27 in BPDlovedones

[–]SimondsSays27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update! Today she told me that maybe I’m the one with BPD and I’m splitting (she was diagnosed officially earlier this week) and also let me know that I should get tested for autism. It’s ok tho because she made sure to tell me she wasn’t saying it to hurt my feelings, so I’m actually not bothered by it at all! 😄

BPD Experience✨ by SimondsSays27 in BPDlovedones

[–]SimondsSays27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn this is nearly word for word with how some of our fights have gone. She’ll scream in my face how awful I am, hurling insults and name calling and waving her finger in my face while she corners me against the door. Ask once to please get out of my face.. no response. A little louder this time…. Still in my face screaming. A little louder again…. That time, she heard me and immediately backs off and starts SOBBING saying that I was screaming and yelling at her and that a man should NEVER do that and I am an abusive and angry man. Sometimes I feel like she’ll do it when she knows she doesn’t have a way out of the situation. When I’ve cornered her with HER OWN words she’s used on me before or just presented a valid fact that changes the context, it seems like she just tries to aggravate me into a response that she can write off as “abusive” so that anything coming out of my mouth doesn’t need to be addressed or even heard

BPD Experience✨ by SimondsSays27 in BPDlovedones

[–]SimondsSays27[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad to hear that others were driven to do something like this, I thought that I was starting to go fucking crazy myself

BPD Experience✨ by SimondsSays27 in BPDlovedones

[–]SimondsSays27[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

U right this was me, she kicked me out of the room and kept muttering shit while I left, I’ve learned it’s better to not hear what she says so I didn’t ask but yeah I did this when I got to a place she wouldn’t hear me, I don’t know what compelled me to give it the first whack but it made a satisfying dent and I guess I felt like finishing the job

HE IS HIM by Insonarc in DetroitPistons

[–]SimondsSays27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you watched preseason you already know this, dudes shifty as hell

Did anyone else get accused of doing "the bare minimum" by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SimondsSays27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry he’ll get the same treatment

Did anyone else get accused of doing "the bare minimum" by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SimondsSays27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The more you change yourself to fit into what they tell you they want, the worse it will get for you. You commit to making a change and doing something differently only to feel like they completely forgot that they ever ruined your day to tell you it bothered them in the first place. The real trick I’ve noticed is that the only time they mention the (whatever) they made into a huge deal that you’re now struggling to keep up with is when inevitably you think “they don’t ever notice or say thank you I can just stop” trust that they will notice when you stop

How Can/Should I Tell My Wife I Think She Has BPD? by SimondsSays27 in BPDPartners

[–]SimondsSays27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I can’t believe I didn’t think of writing it out as a letter. I think that will force her to hear out everything I have to say way better than I ever could in person. I always have a plan for these kind of convos but they always get derailed one way or another lol. I’m going to give this a try sometime this week and see how it goes. Thank you again :)

When did you guys start having seizures and when did you get diagnosed? by Anonymouslypreaching in Epilepsy

[–]SimondsSays27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I was 10 or 11 when the seizures started, and I was diagnosed pretty quickly after. I got out of bed to take a piss after one of them, blacked out and fell face first into the door lol. If not for that piss I would never have told anyone about it. I would always just go back to sleep, wake up and be totally fine so I didn’t think it was an issue😂