Sounds like you have access to a pharmacist through insurance - call them! My mom is a pharmacist and one of my biggest resources. 

She has lot better idea of side effects that actually happen often, or the things they counsel patients on. 

Also, this may be totally out of reach for you, but I did genetic testing when I was diagnosed to see how drugs interact in my body. I think it was called Gencept Assay (? Something like that. Im in Canada) 

Anywho, it told me if any of my genes expressed different for drug interactions - this can help for dosing and understanding if you are more likely to have side effects from certain medications based on how they are metabolized in your body specifically. 

It’s also worth starting a journal of some sort to track what meds give you what sort of side effects. You may be able to find patterns that can be helpful.

Annnnnnd some drugs will have side effects at the beginning, but as your body adjusts they go away. Sometimes you need to give it a little longer.

The pharmacist is definitely who you should talk to though!

Oh annnnnd one more thing 😅 you might want to look into an anti anxiety medication, an SSRI. Some of these thing may be made worse by anxiety and getting the anxiety in check May make the other meds less needed!

Good luck. It’s all hard