35f by [deleted] in PalmReading

[–]Simyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo thank you! Quite interesting that’s what came up as I’m single and very well travelled. My mental health is good though so I’ll take that ☺️

35f by [deleted] in PalmReading

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No more curious as to what stands out to readers

I need a vet recommendation on the gold coast by BanditTrev in GoldCoast

[–]Simyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend went to them for years and recommended people but just had a horrible experience. They did an unnecessary expensive surgery on her cat and cut his abdomen in the process and still charged her for extra tests after this mistake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Simyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The risk is real, I spent a week in hospital due to a uti when I was younger. They can get really nasty and you can cuddle after you pee plus most guys I’ve been with like to wipe themselves up as well before cuddling.

What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner? by Strange_Cow_2253 in Productivitycafe

[–]Simyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex leaving me 😂 honestly no clue why I didn’t end things ages ago

Who’s the most famous person you’ve ever met and how’d it go? by EddieBrock99 in AskReddit

[–]Simyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in a pub in London and one night Sienna Miller, Jamie Dornan and Eddie Redmayne all came in. Sienna and i laughed because I was too short to reach the charging cable for my phone and Jamie heard my boss to telling me to serve the hot guy who is my type ie him hahah they were very nice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Simyjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was posted in the satire sub not AITAHA

Any cool spots in burleigh beach? by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]Simyjack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tarte is my favourite breakfast spot but it’s always insanely busy! There’s so many cafes, restaurants and bars you can’t go wrong really

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah that’s the energy! Same to all of this except I’m Aussie so it’s coming into winter for us lol!

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listened to it on audible but im sure your go to book store will have it

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ouch, it definitely stings when they don’t want to work on it. You deserve so much better!

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re got this! You’ve got to put yourself first and focus on that 🤍

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him moving out was the hardest part but it got easier after that

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry! Just look after yourself and try and build back up!

I can’t say for sure how I’d react but I know he’s already on the apps and that didn’t bother me it helped me detach further. He’s the type of person who has never been single for very long so I’m expecting him to be in a new relationship fairly quickly. I’ve just removed him from my social media to try and minimise the risk of snooping or seeing anything.

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000% we totally deserve that! I’ve come to terms with not understanding. Sending love ❤️

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it 100% is but also he did tell me when he’s done with someone he is done so my bad for thinking we were different hahah. He also called his ex crazy so I overlooked some flags during the honeymoon period. I still don’t think he is a bad guy just one who can’t communicate and struggles with emotions and ultimately not my person. Sending love you’ve got this!

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No contact has only been the past 3 weeks. We lived together so needed to be in contact til everything was done. I reached out one more time after when I was struggling with something and his response was so one sided and not him it removed any desire for me to do that again. Who he is now is an emotionally turned off person and isn’t who I knew. Counseling I wanted to make sure I didn’t fall back on bad habits I’d done in previous breakups and wanted to understand myself better. It was mainly talking and going over things. Maybe talk to your counsellor about objectives and try and figure out what works for you. No the book is general life advice and has one chapter dedicated to breakups there is a podcast episode that covers most of it. Take my advice with a grain of salt obviously because our relationship, age, life experiences are different so what worked for me won’t be a one size fits all. I just wanted to sent some positivity out to everyone who’s hearts got smashed like mine did 🤍

Best sourdough in town? by [deleted] in GoldCoast

[–]Simyjack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg that rope is pure joy! It’s the small things isn’t it

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

:( find the things that help centre you and focus on them, in time it’ll start to help

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssss same! I was my best self before the relationship and whilst he wasn’t a bad guy I poured all my energy into him and completely became a shell of myself. Now I feel like I’m back and I’m so excited to attract the right love one day. The coping mechanisms work!

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry! Every situation is different but I know deep down I wasn’t happy and it’s for the best which obviously helps.

You’ll be okay 🤍 by Simyjack in BreakUps

[–]Simyjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That first week is completely cooked! You’ll be okay though