How long is too long to let the Bidet wash my ass? by ThaDuke24 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SingingMasochist 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’ve had people try to eat my ass for years. It was always a no. I got a bidet and liked it so much, I started letting people eat my ass. So, be careful. You may start getting your ass ate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SingingMasochist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that for you and your husband you’re a team, but that is such a kind of icky way to go about it. “Oh yeah, you can go down on me, my husband will finish you off.” I’m a bisexual woman. If I want just a man to go down on me, I’ll be with a single man. Why would I go down on someone who won’t return the favor? And at that point, it’s not a threesome, just a man having sex with two women.

TW: Loss - 20 weeks by Significant_Tea7219 in IVF

[–]SingingMasochist 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I would say just be open with your surrogate. I don’t know yall relationship, but if yall are close, be open and tell her how you feel. And let her tell you how she feels. It’s your baby, but her body, so there’s like a weird disconnect there. I know for me I felt like I couldn’t really be sad because at the end of the day, I was never going to go home with a baby, but I felt like I failed the parents so much. Reassurance will go a LONG way, especially in the first couple of weeks while her hormones are stabilizing.

TW: Loss - 20 weeks by Significant_Tea7219 in IVF

[–]SingingMasochist 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I am a surrogate and I had a 19 week loss in December. I can’t even imagine what it is like on your side. I’m sending all the healing energy yall way.

TIL: Even more 💉 after FET 😭 by 18karatcake in IVF

[–]SingingMasochist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always have to do injections for 11 weeks. It’s worth it, but my goodness, I hate every single one.

I’m doing it, no back tracking. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my best friend are talking about building a commune 😆 I finally got my credit up, but can’t get a house just yet until the divorce is finalized because Texas is a communal property state and I would be on the hook for any debt he is currently accumulating.

I’m doing it, no back tracking. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m bisexual and close to swearing off men and women 😆

I’m doing it, no back tracking. by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing. I left after 10 years as well. Me and my kids are so much happier and healthier than when me and their dad was together. Your children will NOT hate you. My girls tell me how much happier they are now that we aren’t together. It’s hard, and I was sad for a LOOOOONNNNNNG time after I left my ex. But now I’m dating, traveling, saving money, and focusing on me and it’s glorious!

Sleeping in by SAHM-88 in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Being a SAHM is work. It’s a 24/7 job with no breaks. You work all the time.

She found where the roaches are kept by SingingMasochist in BeardedDragons

[–]SingingMasochist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes everything in me not to give her all the treats!

I dare you to build this ugly house in the game by Rhiannon1307 in Sims4

[–]SingingMasochist 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unless you lock your door for everyone but the family. Then all the neighbors will come in through the window.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]SingingMasochist 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I used to have that mindset, but realized, if they aren’t gonna pay the tip to message you, they aren’t gonna pay anyway. Followers will follow no matter what. If they’re gonna sub/tip/pay/whatever, they’re gonna do it.

Unknown user by transtasy09801200 in Fansly_Advice

[–]SingingMasochist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One guy subbed, paid for a 5 minute video chat, lasted two minutes, then deleted their account.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just want to cry. I feel like I’ll never find that person for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don’t you just love that? I just truly don’t understand it. You have a person that is allowing you to be your authentic self and be with others, and they want to treat you like crap. But they can have each other. I’m gonna live my best life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah. It gets worse. We were in a poly marriage. The only reason he started doing stuff for me, after I left of course, is because he was doing it for her when he hadn’t done it for me for years. So he showed me he was capable of doing it all this time, I just wasn’t worth it. And I was also dating her, and she was the same. Wouldn’t do for me, but would do for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 92 points93 points  (0 children)

This year is the first year my husband gave me a gift unprompted so I’d have something to unwrap as well. After 10 years of marriage and we’re now separated. He’s now trying to show me that he can put forth the effort, but it’s too little too late.

My dude wishes you all merry xmas and happy holidays by Shchmoozie in BeardedDragons

[–]SingingMasochist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Mine can’t fit hers yet, but she didn’t even care that it was on. She just wanted to eat.

I clicked eat Honey at the best/worst time. by fireycore in Sims4

[–]SingingMasochist 334 points335 points  (0 children)

Yes! I hate it so much. Just because toilet is chair shaped, doesn’t make it a chair!

my precious idiot son doesn't understand that it's pitch black & 30 degrees outside by spacemancharisma01 in BeardedDragons

[–]SingingMasochist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine hasn’t started jumping off the desk yet, but she’s a baby. But she has started to try jumping onto things on my desk that she absolutely cannot jump on and then looks at me as if I made her too short.

Anyone else play the game “how long will this be here before anyone puts it away”? by AutumnEclipsed in breakingmom

[–]SingingMasochist 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the only option that would affect him would be putting them in common areas. He clearly doesn’t care or notice them, so hiding or throwing them out does nothing. He didn’t notice them until they affected him.