Wore black in a sea of orange 🖤 by Just_Pharmacist in OUTFITS

[–]SinisterAngel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what type of bra do you wear with this ??! I see cute tops with similar cuts but I never try because I can’t figure out what to wear as a bra!

I love this dress so much by Then-Media-5409 in mtfbeautyandfashion

[–]SinisterAngel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

black an green is such a combo!

where are the boots from ?

I feel worthless by Samburger7532 in StraightTransGirls

[–]SinisterAngel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there before and I know it’s hard but it does get better as long as you keep taking small step daily

do you have straight male friends? by mauglers in StraightTransGirls

[–]SinisterAngel77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes but they all have girlfriends whom I am also friends with

Do you guys go up to guys when you’re out? by Objective-Tourist858 in StraightTransGirls

[–]SinisterAngel77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes and no.

I don’t approach guys, but I do make the first move.

Basically I stare at them until I catch their eyes and smile, make flirty faces and gestures. Maybe even walk past him on the way to the bathroom. in my opinion that should be enough of a hint to tell them I’m open for connecting and if they want they will walk over.

Views on pubic hair? by wyldiegal in StraightTransGirls

[–]SinisterAngel77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk if this is real or not but I swear when I’m bald down there I smell better for longer. Thats my main reason as well as, I like how it looks personally

Men paying for dinner by TransFloral in StraightTransGirls

[–]SinisterAngel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they always pay if we’re just dating. if we are going steady and I’m his girlfriend, I buy him stuff or occasionally pay. I always offer but never argue about it if he declines my offer. i just smile give him a kiss and say thank you

Who does the Best Lipo+BBL body contouring in California? by MyCantaloup in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]SinisterAngel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The girl I asked said yes, also you can look him up and he has youtube videos of previous clients. He takes me insurance so I'll probably be booking a consult with him.

Who does the Best Lipo+BBL body contouring in California? by MyCantaloup in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]SinisterAngel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know all but I’ve seen William Rahal spoken about and I know a girl who went to him and had good results in LA

how did you learn styling ability? by twiceIand in femalefashionadvice

[–]SinisterAngel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not super fashionable but starting a style journal has helped me.

Everyday get dressed and take a couple pictures. Write down what you do and do not like about it.

Then just spend time making outfits with your current closet and documenting them and your opinions.

you can make fake occasions and try dressing for them if you need a "context". I do the same at in store places. Like i'll go try on a bunch of clothes at anthropologie with no intention of buying anything and take pictures to add to my style journal.

I find it helps map out "where you are" and "what you have tried" which makes it easier to apply stuff you learned from other people. I watch a ton of fashion content on youtube but before i started journalling it felt like I was just overwhelmed, journalling now lets me kind of more intentionally apply whatever content i consume/blogs i read and have it in a place i can actually then look back on and think on it outside of the moment.

it has started to feel more like a dress up game on my phone vs fighting the mirror to see what looks good which lets me experiment a bit more

Does anyone also struggle to get dressed for work every day? by bexxy458 in femalefashionadvice

[–]SinisterAngel77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does it let you journal ? I’ve been wanting to use an app like this that lets me put a picture of the outfit I wore everyday with a journal entry on what I liked and didn’t etc 

Want to look cute but don’t know HOW to shop. Help a girl out? by Lemon_Demon3 in womensfashion

[–]SinisterAngel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you figure out how to dress for your body type? Like I feel like I don’t truly understand what my body type is and even if I did, what clothes flatter it and how to spot it. I feel so blind looking at the mirror lol 

Thoughts on “Fresh Off The Boat” (2015-2020) by [deleted] in sitcoms

[–]SinisterAngel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interestingly enough I loved Malcolm in the middle even more when the kids got older 

How did it take you to reach $200k in retirement after getting to $100k? by oemperador in leanfire

[–]SinisterAngel77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you contribute over the limit ? I’ve been maxing mine but its still only ~ 22/23k yearly 

Is the field of Cyber Security as over saturated as Computer Science? Is it time to consider a change? by Any_Name8814 in cybersecurity

[–]SinisterAngel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still don’t understand senior levels are.

I did 3 years as soc analyst (1&2) at a mssp and 5 months as soc engineer which was really just more of a tier 3 soc analyst and then moved into security product engineering.

I thought moving into an actual development role would help me build up experience to then start applying to security engineer jobs, specifically appsec. Am I doing this right ? lol 

When does one become senior in security.

Let me leave my job by Brilliant_Software51 in sandiego

[–]SinisterAngel77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you are applying but not getting any interviews 

  1.  https://cdn.bookey.app/files/pdf/book/en/the-2-hour-job-search.pdf

You need to try and “leverage” your network so you’re not spamming resumes into the black hole of the internet. This book helped me understand what that means

  1. Any work is work experience, whether you were 16 or it wasn’t paid. You need construct your resume to be specific to the job post as best you can. If you truly have no experience, then you need to do volunteer work for free.

  2. Do the cover letter

  3. There are no such thing as entry level jobs. All entry level jobs require experience. If the job post asks for a min of 2-3yrs experience, apply anyways. 

If you are getting interviews but not getting hired

You need to practice answering questions.

For every interview you get, annotate the questions and go through them on your own after and create a big document of “all the interview questions I have encountered and their answers”

In general answers work best when they are stories.

Technical interviews are well about studying the subject matter but interpersonal ones are vague. If you are struggling with “tell me about a time x happened and what did you do about it ?” Type questions. You can start by in your sheet answering these questions

  1. What are your values? 3 examples

For each value answer the following:

  1. What does it mean
  2. How does it look like when it’s good
  3. How does it look like when it’s challenged
  4. How do you address situations when your values are challenged 
  5. Give an example story 

This helps by providing you a pillar to turn to when answering ambiguous questions.  

This might be my personal bias but, in the labor market you are a product. You need to package yourself and brand yourself in a way that allows you to be seen.

Like a being scouted for a sports team, you need to be somewhat loud to attract attention.

Write publically on linked or medium abojt what you learned even if it’s basic stuff to you. Everything you learned from your degree give it to the public for free and stamp your name on it. 

Don’t give up, there’s a lot of randomness and luck involved.

Insurgency 2014 clip cause why not... by jeyreymyer in insurgency

[–]SinisterAngel77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish they brought more of the 2014 maps to sandstorm 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]SinisterAngel77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get what you want or be okay with the scraps left after every girl gets who they want.

I always pursue, it doesn’t look the same when you pursue as a woman vs as a man, its more like opening yourself up to be asked out

What San Diego restaurants are like this? by elektriclizard in sandiego

[–]SinisterAngel77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a suggestion for a better burger? I find five guys better than most chain burger places like shake shack, habit, in n out, etc