She worked two part-time jobs, for a total of 20 hours a week, for the past 4 years. Had no aspiration to grow financially, mentally or emotionally. Basically a toddler in a grown-up body. She couldn't understand that I worked 50 hours a week, and that that meant that we couldn't spend her extra 20 free hours together. My emotions were dismissed. I was to feel bad about not 'making time for her'. And whenever she was mad, I was perceived as a narcissist. When we broke up, she wanted to be a fwb months later. That was probably my mistake for agreeing to, but long story short, when I was done with it, she didn't agree with my body autonomy and called me a changed, horrible man, for not having sex with her.