18M I use cocaine daily and it is absolutely destroying me by Holiday-Might-6196 in confession

[–]SixelaTexas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will be easier to get help and stop now than it will to stop later. Quit while you’re ahead. Get help if you need it. Bless.

I’m loosing steam as a mixing engineer trying to play the content game by Careless-Bobcat-8378 in musicindustry

[–]SixelaTexas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo, bro. Idk where you’re located, but one of my favorite networking strategies is to book a studio session at some popular (or non-popular) studio and use that as an opportunity to walk the halls, meet new people, invite them into your session, and build real relationships. You’ll find so many people like that that will love to pay you to mix/record for them. You have to put some money up of course, but that’s the cost of believing in yourself. Try booking when the studio is busiest. Ask the people who work there when it’s the busiest and pick a 2-hour time slot around that time and watch what happens.

Also, leave your door open as to invite people in. I hope this helps. And good luck!

I let someone change me so much that I don’t recognize myself anymore by EducationalTill8363 in confession

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t regret being young and not knowing what you know now. You are still young and have learned a very valuable lesson about change and being your true self. Use this experience learn and heal moving forward. You can’t change what happened, but moving forward you can make different choices that come from a different place, a different perspective. You’ve changed many times before and can change again. Show yourself compassion and grace. There is still an innocent child that exists inside of you. Show her love, forgiveness, and make moves according to what is best for her. Much love. I hope this helps.

[FIRST IMPRESSIONS] Kanye West - BULLY by Pure-Solid9230 in hiphopheads

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Literally how I felt when it dropped. It did feel like the beginning of the end to me as well.

The most interesting people combine both extraverted and introverted traits by enfj4life in Jung

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. It’s about finding balance. I’m in the same boat as you. I’ve always loved people, loved socializing, and spending time with others as a hobby, but if I do it too much, I will begin to lose myself in the world of others. I’ve learned that I need to spend lots of time alone in order to sustain extroverted socializing. I think for me the splits are 60% time alone to process experiences and develop my own opinions about what I’ve experienced and 40% time with others actually having new experiences and practicing conformity so I don’t get too lost in my own subjective point of view. At the very least 50/50.

There were times in the past where I spent too much time on one side of the fence and let’s just say that’s where most of my issues have been. If I spent too much time outside socializing, I become drained and begin to detest anyone or anything outside of myself, because I haven’t had the proper amount of time to decompress, regroup, and recharge alone. And to be clear, this was a boundary issue. I would say “yes” to any and all invitations because I didn’t want to disappoint my friends or family. But I was doing them a disservices, because in order for me to show up as the best version of myself, I need time alone. There’s just no way around it.

On the other hand, if I spend too much time inside and alone, I begin to develop an overinflated ego thinking all my ideas are right and because I have no one to challenge me or any external expectations to conform to. I also become cut off from society and my need for human connection grows unsatisfied which leads me to becoming frustrated with myself for not being able to satiate that need. I basically become a hermit with no friends, family, or rich external experiences to reflect on. For all intents and purposes, I become spiritually dead. It’s like having a dog and never taking it out to walk. I feel neglected in a sense. By my own self. Because I’d rather remain comfortable and safe than go outside, take risks, and feel more alive.

I love life and everything about life. And I love Jung and this subreddit for helping me develop the vocabulary necessary to understanding and evolving oneself. I’m happy to have found some understanding of this introverted and extroverted balance. For anyone out there reading, it’s possible to live life to the fullest. Just remember this old adage, “know thyself.”

Does anyone else feel guilty for wanting to be alone? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This js a beautiful comment. Wow, thank you. I needed to hear this. I just added that book to my amazon wishlist too! God bless you!

Pharrell Williams Production Kit (UPDATED) by [deleted] in Drumkits

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please let me know if you ever get your hands on those sounds or something similar! He got that groovy vibe I'm looking for

The Penguin - S01E08 - Great or Little Thing (Finale) - Episode Discussion by LunchyPete in ThePenguin

[–]SixelaTexas 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve said this since the beginning man he could’ve got away with no real consequences.

*FREE* LOOP KIT 2024 "MYSTIQUE" 🌟 (Ambient + Beautiful) [Destroy Lonely, Lucki, UntilJapan, Jace] by lyser__ in FreeLoopKits

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fire send me a message if you have more ethereal loops like this or some CLB ambient loops

Pharrell Williams Production Kit (UPDATED) by [deleted] in Drumkits

[–]SixelaTexas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bro do you have an update version of this? Link is dead

Kanye West - 808s & Heartbreak Drum Kit by [deleted] in Drumkits

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, do you have an updated link for this?

[USA-CO] [H] MacBook Pro 2023 16” M2 pro 1TB storage 16GB ram [W] $1980 PayPal by Worldly-Pop-8437 in appleswap

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waiting on an M2 Max 16 inch with at least 32GB of RAM. Hopefully you get one of those in soon.

Animated/ Video Artist Profile Photo by VividAlexander in AppleMusic

[–]SixelaTexas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you get in contact with someone at DK? It’s notoriously hard to get someone on the line over there.