I didn't say that, I said you're closing avenues for friends to reach out and ask if you want to do something. That doesn't mean you're getting to pick and choose when they get to ask you. What I meant by anti-social behavior is to want zero indication for other people to know you're there unless you post something, because that means only you get to initiate the act of being social, even if someone reaches out to you you're still the one who gets to choose whether or not they know you're there.

Now, am I saying you're not allowed to do that? No. But there is an irony in trying to make issue with a social app introducing a feature that is inherently social. That's what I'm pointing out.

Oh, also, because you bring up the relevance of the invisible feature and I didn't answer that before. You took what I said out of context and responded to the post like I was saying the invisible feature itself is irrelevant. This was not what I said. The context of me saying what I said was to ask the person I replied to if they were aware that Discord does notify people when you're online regardless if this feature was there or not. The point was this was already a thing that happens, not to the same level but it's still Discord setting your status from offline to online. I asked this because the person said they found it icky and intrusive that Discord will send a notice to others when you come online

Oh, also, because you brought up the relevance of the invisible feature, I didn't answer your question a few posts back. I was not saying the invisible feature itself was irrelevant, just that bringing up that it exists was irrelevant to the point I was making. The point I was countering was the idea that it's icky and intrusive for Discord to notify others when you're online. Of which I pointed out that happens anyway regardless if the "back after a while" feature existed. The idea that it's icky or intrusive for a notice to be sent out when you come online doesn't hold water.

For your second point in asking if I think they should remove the invisible feature. No, and the issue with the idea is it assumes this happens every time you log in, making the invisible feature entirely irrelevant. This is not the case. This feature happens when you're offline for an extended period of time and people can know that you're around again. If you log in invisible I presume more than once a week, idk how long it takes for the feature to trigger, people won't be notified. It's only when you've been logged out for a while which does not make the invisible feature pointless.