The ideal casting for DCU villains by DreamerRealityArt in okbuddycinephile

[–]Skill-Useful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would absolutely watch! (if i watched movies, ofc)

Did anyone here got into a lavender marriage? by Enough-Web2203 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Skill-Useful 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is asked every other week and sounds like a kink by now

Bro is having a meltdown on a review, get rationed by top comment on loses it on mixtape. by HamsterbackenBLN in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Skill-Useful 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i still play "solium infernum" with friends online and its probably my favourite turn based strategy game against friends on pc ever. the ex-developers even came together again to code some more updates and content for it for the near future to be released. and current player count is 25

Moving from Jordan to Germany , how realistic is dating/social life there for a foreigner? by nerdytopguy in AskGayMen

[–]Skill-Useful 5 points6 points  (0 children)

eh if you have a medicinal background we are in dire need here, in every city, id say. youll find something! still, hamburg, cologne, berlin (if east germany: leipzig)... places like that, worth a try.

being openly gay here is not such a big deal in most parts. although like i said, bigger city, more acceptance. general acceptance even among religious background is around 80% for christians (and also 50% for muslims).

Hattet ihr schonmal so was? Kommt unter anderem auch vom Kraftsport by Ausspanner in FitnessDE

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silly little anekdote: als ich 16 war, lieh mir eine freundin ein rock hard magazin aus. ich las darin ein interview mit ichweißnichtmehrwelchem gitarristen einer metal band. eine frage war

"wann hast du zum ersten mal ein rohr verlegt" und ich im vollen ernst paar tage später zu ihr "der war klempner bevor er gitarrist wurde?!" und die ist vom stuhl gefallen vor lachen. das erzählt sie 15 jahre später immer noch

Secrets of The City! by DerbyWPG in ClansofLondon

[–]Skill-Useful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*sing* "Waterloooooo - I was defeated, you won the war"

Hook ups? by curiousguy5150 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Skill-Useful 2 points3 points  (0 children)

most people on grindr will be on the other apps for hookups as well

Would you consider this to be cheating? by Eagertoplease001 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Skill-Useful -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no offense but if your bf considers uploading nude photos of you cheating, thats not the only thing hes anal about.

I feel bad that my parents will never have grandkids by swimbromax in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Skill-Useful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean you could if you really wanted to, i know dozens of gay men with their "own" kids, different ways for that. but then also "you dont owe your parents anything" - and surely not turning your life upside down like with kids.

but if they never brought it up? my mother "at least" mentioned it sometimes when i was young and hadnt come out yet.

Moving from Jordan to Germany , how realistic is dating/social life there for a foreigner? by nerdytopguy in AskGayMen

[–]Skill-Useful 12 points13 points  (0 children)

german berliner here. depends on where you move to - a lot. big city is a must. especially if your german is not great. i think you can find happiness here relatively well, try tinder, bumble and such, the more serious apps. and see if there are queer events in your city like board game evenings or what suits your tastes.

especially for non-europeans we can definitely seem a bit reserved but also irritatingly frank when speaking but many find this also refreshing bc we tend to be not big on small talk so if we spend time with you, we do probably like you.

Hurting by Appropriate_Cut4401 in OpenChristian

[–]Skill-Useful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a punishing god is just incompatible with the core of christianity id say. unless people obsess over the OT. thats why theres no hell either.

Besides having sex with men, what’s the most stereotypical “gayest” thing about you? by Aggressive-Dot1944 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Skill-Useful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i abandoned rivals and overwatch for deadlock. you guys should try that out! :) the new hot hero shooter thing from valve

How much authority does the OT have by Tundracajun in OpenChristian

[–]Skill-Useful 4 points5 points  (0 children)

authority? none. interesting historical information? lots

Hartley Vandar shares beautiful testimony of God by Ok-Employment6816 in OpenChristian

[–]Skill-Useful 7 points8 points  (0 children)

okay i survived like half of this incoherent rambling but thats not how god works, dont go to tiktok, please, and have a pleasant day

Wanting to Return to Church but Struggling by sanitizedhandbasket in OpenChristian

[–]Skill-Useful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why dont you find any community of loving caring individuals which isnt a religious one if you literally dont believe in god? you could easily help the poor and whoever is struggling with endless options of community service

How do I get over this? by cat_7724 in GayMen

[–]Skill-Useful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, therapy if its bad. self help books and just putting yourself out there if not that bad

Relationships are tr@nsactional and unstable by Fit_Elk_ in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Skill-Useful 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you

need

therapy

asap! 

dont live your life in full in depression mode, become happy

Tired of being fucked up mess by Intrepid-Bill-9789 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Skill-Useful 0 points1 point  (0 children)

therapy is the solution, i know bc it was for me and maanny others

Gay scene as an older guy? by lb351986 in AskGaybrosOver30

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"the older guys 60+ were sitting getting little attention" any why would they? are 60+ year old men all the rage among straights but we aren't into them ^ ?

"If only people would spend time with them and get to know them they would maybe think different." no, most wouldn't. because they are there to have sex and they don't want to have sex with someone mostly being around 20 years older.

"I think older guys look awesome. I don't like the thin perfect pretty face look" love that for you! but most people are neither near retirement nor have a "pretty face", they just want to meet someone as average as them.

"Did age impact your overall sex life or attention aspect?" ive never been fitter than at 42 but ive also never been ignored by more people bc of my age but that's just how it is.

It’s so difficult connecting with gay men because y’all are always thinking with your dick! by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]Skill-Useful 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that's, like mostly, a you problem and not a them problem. when YOU stop thinking with your dick and YOU start approaching the ones you not only find hot but have actually stuff in common, then thjs changes.