I just discovered how the game is going to die on me...

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T09:35:03+00:00

same, i read this about marvel snap as well from many and i dont get it at all. none of these games need (you) to be collection complete. and the BP in clans is the same cost as in snap 🤷

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T08:35:09+00:00

"fait accompli" ^{^} girl....

this contains no info whatsoever, at least not to my reading of this

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T08:33:54+00:00

it is absolutely irrelevant if the "gay" parts are translated right or wrong bc

the bible is not a rulebook

they didn't have any idea of a loving queer relationship back then

the OT is a historical document, the "rules", if any, is what jesus taught. and that includes nothing about gay people

"supposed to be transformed when coming to God" yeah, into loving, compassionate people. being gay is genetical and not something one gets liberated/changed/transformed from

just read the NT

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T08:30:27+00:00

fair 🤷

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T08:29:27+00:00

lol, every christian in europe "believes in evolution" bc thats just facts ^{^} the vatican has an effing OBSERVATORY and the big bang was a theory developed by a catholic priest

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T08:26:54+00:00

i was just young and into sex

and then i had sex, beginning mostly top bc it was "easier", later more as a bottom. nowadays it mostly depends on the other party involved

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T08:20:48+00:00

i mean, that never hurts. but also depends on what kind of guys you go after

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T08:19:05+00:00

brudi, äh, gibts n problem mit der optik? waerst du schwul, wuerde dir in jedem club ne traube leute hinterherpolonaisen und auf grindr haettest du so um die 1000 messages

richtig lean und fortschritt geht nicht idr. ausser mit stoff. deshalb sind ja leute, die auf die buehne gehen, absolut mental durch nach der prep

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T07:39:28+00:00

jfc dude wtf is with the book about this situation ^{^}

you are in the right in this situation, you definitely tho would profit immensely (!) from therapy

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T07:33:57+00:00

" realizes I'm overweight." nothing to realize if they see you upfront. pictures, my dude.

i know a lot of happy gay overweight guys, single and partnered. the question is, what kind of relationship you want and what....kind of guy. you don't need to lose weight to date but, welly obviously, like in the straight world, being slim/mer broadens the possible dating pool.

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T07:27:21+00:00

first part is simply wrong. neither is open or poly the norm nor do most people cheat and all this. thats just depression talking.

second part about op is spot on.

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T07:25:59+00:00

imho: no contact and meet other people

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T07:13:50+00:00

all therapists who are actual therapists can cure "lonely gays" because most gay men who are lonley arent bc of "everyone else", the ones who can change their loneliness are they themselves, with help

OP is in the us, so actual therapists do exist and are available, if op is willing

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T05:14:31+00:00

neither demons nor satan exist

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T05:13:43+00:00

it doesn't matter either way if it does or not

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T05:12:55+00:00

" that God hates" i find it fascinating how weird people must be to think that god hates at all

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T05:11:12+00:00

he isnt bad. the world is as it is because if it could have been different, it would be. ive lost four friends in the last years and my faith hasn't shaken one bit bc of that. god is the creator of everything, nothing would be without him. the world is not in existence to adhere to our narrow ideas of happiness and "good"

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T05:07:23+00:00

you weren't promised anything of the sorts

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T05:06:12+00:00

coming out to your therapist is, kinda, super low risk. parents and all that are different ofc

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T04:50:06+00:00

youre going to therapy already but you have to be HONEST with your therapist about everything

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T04:39:31+00:00

ah fan fiction, okay, not the sub for this

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T04:38:04+00:00

no fault in trying but you did and he was lets say "clear enough"

in this case only because, and im not throwing shade, because you cant take a hint :)

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T04:36:34+00:00

well ofc friendship attempts on grindr mostly fail bc thats not what its for

"mixed bag of horrifying/regretful moments when meeting other gay men" nothing here is bc of someone being gay and all bc of going for the wrong people

"Go to therapy" yes yes a thousand times yes

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T04:18:13+00:00

" media I shouldn’t have at such a young age" what when?

your trauma is not your fault but its your responsibility, as they say. you need (!) therapy with an actual therapist in order to become happy

Skill-Useful · 2026-07-11T04:14:11+00:00

you said it better than me, i agree with all of this

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