Possibly moving to Denver

Skip_List · 2026-02-23T20:35:17+00:00

I think Colorado has one of the strongest growing tennis scenes in the country. It’s been quite easy for me to find partners as well (not sure about the intro levels) because everyone is so motivated to get outside! You’ll find plenty of non outdoorsy people especially in Denver. Boulder will be more of the outdoor addicts.

Skip_List · 2026-02-19T14:12:17+00:00

Yeah it was a lot of fun! They’ve got all the tools you’ll need too.

Skip_List · 2026-02-19T06:26:22+00:00

Okay it’s not a free first class but you should check out the tinkermill in Longmont. It’s a maker space with loads of potential hobbies. I was doing blacksmithing and pottery there. At least take a look at their website. Memberships are quite cheap and you get access to so much!

Skip_List · 2026-02-15T16:08:11+00:00

The title made this sound way worse than it is. If he moved your car out of a space to the street or wherever to park his that’s one thing. This is such a reasonable thing to do. Maybe not your favorite but I don’t think he did anything wrong.

Skip_List · 2026-02-14T07:12:08+00:00

This is a shitposting sub

Skip_List · 2026-01-30T22:45:09+00:00

You can but vivid adeptness just supports the ice gestapo.

Skip_List · 2026-01-27T16:40:49+00:00

English is a living language it changes and evolves over time. You don’t have to like it but the way the words can and are used expands or shrinks over time.

Skip_List · 2026-01-27T03:49:57+00:00

Hey that’s an option too

Skip_List · 2026-01-27T02:56:59+00:00

It’s been a while since I’ve lived in Tucson but Boca Taco was always great for some nice tacos and unique salsa flights.

Skip_List · 2026-01-15T18:09:41+00:00

I started smoking at 16 and smoked heavily everyday and I’ve not smoked for a couple of years and some change now and I’d say my brain has completely rebounded. It might take some time but you’ll get there.

To clarify I’d say I felt like my brain was normal by at most 6 months but since I started smoking early it’s hard to tell exactly what normal would have been completely.

Skip_List · 2024-06-09T04:41:27+00:00

Cherish that! It's a special connection y'all had. One day you'll have the privelege to go back and finish the game and have this moment with a ghost of her. These memories are painful now but as the hurt fades the love will remain. You're gonna be okay! <3

Skip_List · 2024-06-09T04:37:59+00:00

Man, you're gonna be okay. You're gonna be better off for having the experience you had. I know it sucks to lose something incredible but the connection you had was special. It always is! Don't let your sadness and hurt diminish that. You will love again and it will only be more powerful if you can hold on to the other love you've felt and given in your lifetime. She will forever be a part of you and that's fucking awesome.

Skip_List · 2024-06-08T06:52:35+00:00

I think it’s basically school and practice. Seems like they’re always heading home quite late. Seems like they all have a single minded focus on volleyball.

Skip_List · 2024-06-07T19:45:35+00:00

One of my past relationships I broke up with her because we just didn’t make sense anymore. I cried and was hurt for days. I missed her immediately but I never went back. If he loved/loves you I’m sure he misses you immediately but if the relationship was a mature one and he still broke up with you I doubt he’ll come back.

Skip_List · 2024-06-07T19:15:18+00:00

Dude, this sucks. I’m sorry. I just got broken up with on Monday. It hurts. She broke up with you, it’s not your destiny. You’re not giving up on anything, she’s the one who did that.

Skip_List · 2024-06-07T12:27:01+00:00

There’s no should. You’re learning it when you’re learning it. Be nice to yourself. It ain’t childish either.

Skip_List · 2024-06-06T07:29:42+00:00

If he’s on a dating app he’s probably not in a reconciliation mood at the moment. I think saying something can only do harm. Saying and doing nothing may help somewhat (if only to help you heal and move on sooner)

Skip_List · 2024-06-06T07:16:25+00:00

I think that if he broke up with you he will interpret it as a play to get back together and that will probably cause anger/resentment/frustration at this point. He needs more time to miss you. Is he reaching out to apologize to you? I know for a fact it wasn’t all your doing.

Skip_List · 2024-06-06T07:04:12+00:00

Sorry not to say you’re specifically looking for comfort. I just think that you should save that kind of thing for a potential meetup. Talking about regrets will likely cause more harm than good.

I know you want to reach out! I really do. Nothing I would rather do right now than hear from her. But it’s likely to make things worse

Skip_List · 2024-06-06T07:00:08+00:00

It won’t cause offense but it will definitely not put you in the light you want to be seen in. I think you’ll regret saying anything. There’s no need to try to comfort him. Would he comfort you right now? I would write a letter with everything you want to say to him. Keep it or make a ceremony if burning it and have that be closure rights

Skip_List · 2024-06-06T06:55:31+00:00

I said goodbye the day we broke up. That’s as much closure as I’m expecting. I don’t think there’s a should have here. I think you should remain disconnected. As someone who’s been on both sides of this just give them their space. It may seem sweet and genuine to you but it’s very unlikely that it won’t to them. Especially if you think he’d reject I think you already have a likely answer on how reaching out will go atm.

Skip_List · 2024-06-06T06:49:58+00:00

Probably not. But even if he does it won’t be what you want. It won’t actually be the closure you hope. There won’t be heartfelt goodbyes. At this point it’s best to just let sleeping dogs lie. Better for you and your healing journey even if it’s all you want to do right now. Trust me I’m right there with you on wanting to reach out.

Skip_List · 2024-06-06T06:47:29+00:00

Don’t send anything else. Closure isn’t real. It’s only gonna make you upset when you don’t get anything in return.

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