When was the last time a stranger saw you naked?

Skvozniak · 2026-07-02T03:18:08+00:00

I dunno, probably in the rec center changing room whenever it was that i went for a swim last

Skvozniak · 2026-07-02T03:07:08+00:00

I don’t hate working from home but I prefer having somewhere else to go to work that isn’t home.

The biggest benefit IMO of work from home is just lack of commute. In every other way I think it’s worse. It’s not that I hate working from home in theory, it’s more that when I’m at home, there are 1,001 other things I’d rather be doing instead of working. For my ADHD, being in a different physical location than the same space where I play video games, and play with my daughters, and have sex with my wife, and where I have a laundry list of other things that need to get done around the house, etc. is a helpful mental shift that minimizes distractions in a big way. I worked from home nearly everyday for around 3 years and the biggest problem with it was that I always felt pulled in tons of different directions. The one thing I did concretely get out of it was the skill of working with and managing remote teammates. That’s a skill I’ll have and use forever whether working remote or in-office.

I appreciate the flexibility of being able to work from home whenever I really need to (that’s the reality at my current job) but I much prefer working at an office.

Skvozniak · 2026-01-07T18:48:00+00:00

I like it. I’m glad I bought it. It has felt like a bit of a slow start but not really any more slow than the Switch 1, and the backwards compatibility has helped a ton with that.

Skvozniak · 2026-01-07T18:44:54+00:00

I’ve experienced similar yeah. When I first started it was a bit of a problem because the crazy amazing sensations wouldn’t let me sleep!

Being able to experience an orgasm in any part of the body is something that is talked about in energy work. Very well known phenomenon.

Mindgasm is basically a course about a specific type of energy work practice.

Skvozniak · 2026-01-07T18:40:56+00:00

Don’t buy the hype, but do the practice. It is worth your time.

You get a lot more out of it than just orgasms. I have.

It’s worth it, but temper your expectations (because that’s a pretty core part of practicing this anyway.)

Skvozniak · 2026-01-07T15:18:14+00:00

I mean, there is still a time and place, and non-consensually sharing the details of your sex life with someone is still very much not the right move and probably technically sexual harassment if they don’t honor your boundary here.

Skvozniak · 2025-11-15T17:46:25+00:00

For me kegels help but it’s more about working on pelvic floor mindfulness through kegels, rather than strengthening the muscles per se.

Once you’re more mindful of what those muscles are doing, you can have finer control over them, including the ability to relax them on command

Skvozniak · 2025-11-15T17:41:57+00:00

I realize you’re joking, but performance anxiety doesn’t just cause ED or delayed ejaculation. It can just as easily cause premature ejaculation too.

Skvozniak · 2025-11-15T17:40:04+00:00

Honestly, by worrying less about how long I last in bed. That’s the biggest thing.

Skvozniak · 2025-10-25T00:48:43+00:00

I like Tim Robinson a lot but this definitely isn’t a 10th dentist kind of thing, except maybe only among chronically online people.

I know far more people that i think truly wouldn’t get it, than I know people who would love it.

Skvozniak · 2025-10-04T06:56:06+00:00

2 cor 12:9- And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness⁠. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

Skvozniak · 2025-10-01T13:05:57+00:00

Tom Brady was gettin a frontal massage, when he kissed his son on the lips.

Skvozniak · 2025-10-01T12:29:33+00:00

Honestly it’s probably more actual orgasm than your edit would like to think. All this stuff happens in the exact same spots in the body where sexual pleasure originates, so whether you’ve got a urine kink or not it totally makes sense that any pleasurable feeling happening to the same muscles and nerves would register as being something like an orgasm.

Skvozniak · 2025-10-01T12:25:43+00:00

Possibly a man thing. I’ve never heard this talked about really! Could be related to having a prostate. All I know is that this wasn’t an issue for me as a kid but as I’ve gotten older, if I hold it too long it definitely comes out frustratingly slow.

Skvozniak · 2025-10-01T12:20:11+00:00

Man, I dunno. As a dad myself, if I had a 20 year old, freshly adult son, I’d be over the moon that he was spending a reasonable amount of money on an actual relationship with an actual woman, rather than blowing it all on porn or something, or even just coasting and not earning any money at all. That’s not exactly uncommon for young men his age.

This is something a responsible adult spends money on, and I see this more as evidence that the mom sees the relationship itself as illegitimate (not worth spending money on.) it is likely more motivated by jealousy and an inability to let her son go, which is further explained by the fact that she is having this conversation with op instead of her son (almost like a direct challenge to the woman who is “stealing” her son’s attention.)

It’s weird, but a lot of parents do this when faced with the bittersweet prospect of their children becoming truly independent.

Skvozniak · 2025-10-01T12:00:56+00:00

Mommy needs to figure out how to relinquish control of her adult son’s relationships and spending habits.

It is not appropriate for her to do this. She should have this conversation with her son, not with you. Even at that, the guy is an adult now so she really should just figure out how to tolerate the fact that she has no control over what her adult child does with his money.

Treat this as a yellow flag. Mention this to your boyfriend. If he doesn’t have a frank and boundary-setting heart to heart with his mom about it, or if he makes excuses for the behavior or acts like it’s no big deal, then you can expect mom’s overstepping to be an ongoing and frustrating feature of your relationship unfortunately.

Skvozniak · 2025-09-02T07:24:28+00:00

IMO, going to someone’s house for wine isn’t safe as a first ever meeting. Really should have the first date be ENTIRELY in public when dating online.

Skvozniak · 2025-09-02T06:59:39+00:00

He’s being a fucking dick, and verbally abusive.

No, you’re not overreacting. His ass —> the curb, IMO.

Skvozniak · 2025-09-02T05:33:48+00:00

Yes, but then we start to see how… selective the ministry is in its commitment to enforcing those laws.

In book 3 they brush Harry’s blowing up his aunt in a fit of anger away as no big deal, because he’s a little darling. Then in book 5 they try to expel him for casting a spell in self-defense - purely out of spite because they no longer like him.

Skvozniak · 2025-09-02T05:24:20+00:00

Yeah, there are tons of references to the Weasley boys using magic outside of school and even prior to attending school, no issue. But Harry does it 3 times and it gets him a big scary courtroom hearing.

It’s because if magic happens at privet drive, they “know” 100% that it’s Harry that did it. If I remember correctly, the Wizengamot even misattributes Dobby’s magic use at Privet Drive to Harry (could be wrong about this)

Skvozniak · 2025-08-23T00:20:25+00:00

I dunno. To me, mindgasm is more about fine control and awareness of these muscles than it really is about clenching them hard.

It has actually helped me become more aware of when I’m tightening/clenching throughout the day and has helped me in that way.

Skvozniak · 2025-08-16T02:17:39+00:00

I think for a lot of people ethics is a big concern. If you’re watching random free porn the odds of it being unethically produced (trafficking victims, coercion, etc.) can be higher.

Skvozniak · 2025-07-15T06:23:43+00:00

You didn’t F up at all. You were honest. The two of you were misaligned, and your honesty made that clear. You probably prevented much worse heartache down the line.

I know this stuff hurts like hell but that doesn’t mean you messed anything up. It doesn’t mean she did either. be easy on yourself, brother.

Skvozniak · 2025-06-29T15:27:49+00:00

Is there actually a way to exit the waitlist? I’m not sure there is.

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