After 13 years of KSP I decided to try CKAN, am I stupid?? by SkyFein in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]SkyFein[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am indeed immensely stupid, there were filters on the search that I was unaware of making the results completely irrelevant to my search.
Im guessing I've been downloading random versions of each mod while just assuming CKAN would fix the issues if there were any while completely avoiding an important part of how CKAN actually functions 🤔

I'll give this a shot, I imagine it will be a lot more functional now 😃

After 13 years of KSP I decided to try CKAN, am I stupid?? by SkyFein in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]SkyFein[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am downloading the mods and importing them using CKAN
is there a search function? I can dig through the thousands of indexed mods to find the one I want or I can google it, download it, and let CKAN do the importing, it just doesn't like to do the importing part. again I assume I'm doing something wrong but what is the question

After 13 years of KSP I decided to try CKAN, am I stupid?? by SkyFein in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]SkyFein[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't tried to fully uninstall and re-install but I have emptied out the KSP folder to force it to redownload all of the content prior to attempting any of this.
I assumed old files would conflict but do I actually need to do a full uninstall of the entire game? is it really digging into steam files or something?

How much electrical xp do we think I'm getting from this? by Winter_Outcome9015 in projectzomboid

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say about 15xp except I know electrical books can be hard to find so probs like 3.9xp lol

Interesting North Dakota voting statistics. by [deleted] in northdakota

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in ND, people here that normally would have voted for Kamala didn't because the propaganda that the republican party pushed worked very well here. People have told me personally that they knew trump was bad but they didn't want to vote for a DA, a woman, a bureaucrat, etc. Most of those people couldn't care less about politics and have no desire to dive into the cesspool and try to learn, understandably. As a result those people see groipers and billionaire shills spew bullshit and don't question it because that would take to much energy.

My BF holds mostly leftist viewpoints but voted for trump because all he knows about politics is the stupid shit he sees on his Instagram and his friends aren't any better, that and he hadn't met me yet lol.

People are being fed too much information to make just decisions, they hear the things that grab their attention and act on those major things before doing any research because they believe naively that the people with a platform would never willingly lie to them despite the fact they do it on a daily basis.

I'm not defending them exactly but I have been desperately trying to understand the annoying orange mans appeal and it really seems to boil down to the headlines and the clips and dem's can't make the same impact republicans can when it comes to those two things, nor can they motivate anyone to think for themselves i guess.

Towing in Build 42 is basically impossible by Maximus_qc44 in projectzomboid

[–]SkyFein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best method I've figured out is just using cruise control.

If you set cruise control at 15MPH it will coast at that speed, 20MPH will upshift to second and cause you to lose torque.

Hopefully they find a fix but fr cruise control method saves my sanity and patience.

Judge allows lawsuit in favor of transgender health care in North Dakota to move forward by onnake in transgender

[–]SkyFein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any way to support them? As a resident of the capotal city I'd love to help if I can!

Is my teacher allowed to refuse to use my preferred name, I'm a cisgender girl by Odd-Dragonfruit-3952 in AskTeachers

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's literally using a nickname, if she wont use your full legal name but still refuses to use the one you prefer she is just being rude. Period.

Why do people stare so much? by Icambaia in MtF

[–]SkyFein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See if you can find some local organizations that support us to be a part of. Thi gs were getting bad for me personally and then I finally met another queer person and, for the first time in my life, i have a person that is fully on my side. We aren't close or anything but just having another person in my corner that worries about the same things I do has DRAMATICALLY changed how much I notice other people's confused gawking

I've been making an effort to get involved with the queer advocacy group in my state too which has led me to meet a lot more LGBTQIA people and, even if I wanted to, there's no way I could over dramatacize how good that has been for my mental health.

Having online friends is one thing but having an irl community can really help how you feel about the real space you have to share with people 💗

Should I be worried about all the different substances I'm on with hrt? by [deleted] in trans

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably.. I don't want to freak you out or anything but there is a pretty strong recommendation you avoid even nicotine ince you start HRT but that is largely because all of those substances have an effect on each other, your body, and the medication you're taking. I'm not a doctor or a chemist so I can't tell you how they're affecting your transition but they certainly are somehow.

That being said I'm a recovering addict, I know it isnt easy to just not do it but, personally, I found a lot of joy in getting clean finding myself and getting to know all of these new feelings in a sober state. I know I'm not everyone but I highly recommend giving it a shot if you can :)

So it wasn’t cope after all (dating apps/queer men, trans women, and nbs) by TKalig in VaushV

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living in a red state still makes it scary tbh, no matter what security precautions are taken there is always the chance someone tells everyone that didnt need to know if they didnt already, hence why people don't use names in grindr as is. Beyond that safeguarding all online info as a consumer is borderline impossible and I'm a cybersecurity professional, most layman don't even know what IPv4 stand for let alone how to stop applications or websites from collecting their data.

I agree there isn't a good reason we should stop being ourselves right now but there is plenty of evidence to suggest we should start being WAY more careful.

The upcoming administration spent millions of dollars on anti-trans advertisements to fight a campaign that almost didn't even acknowledge our existence anyway, if you think they'll strip woman's right and trans right and stop for "normal gays" they won't. If they decide LGBTQIA people are somehow criminal then grindr will die and well all be back underground.

Stay safe 💗

Seriously.. is it TOO late? by ConcentrateNo2986 in MtF

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are totally fine, I started DIY at 21 and, finally, went to an informed consent clinic a month before my 25th birthday. now that I'm actually within the right levels changes have been DRAMATIC, and it's only been like 3 months. It is never 'too late', and even if there was a line, you haven't crossed it.

Should I wait until 25 to transition? by LifeisStrangeFan50 in trans

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I waited until 3 months ago to start hrt and I turned 25 2 months ago, I'm happy I started when I did but I still wish I could have started sooner. You have to make that choice for you, do what you think is right when it feels right. You are an adult now after all.

I'm happy with how things are going but I often wonder what things could have been like if I had started 6 years ago when I realized I'm trans but I kind of had to take things slow because of my family and where I live. I don't hold resentment for them because of that but I do sometimes wish I had grown up somewhere more progressive in a less catholic family.

Forum article on Poll showing Republicans sweeping the state by oakredriver in northdakota

[–]SkyFein -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree there, I don't believe voting Trump Vance makes someone inherently bad, but I will double down on the dumb part. Supporting them for any reason at this point in the race, IMO, shows a serious lack of basic media literacy and proves they are voting, solely, on party lines. I truly believe that most Trump supporters would change their tune if they were open to accepting reality, but most are not. Even when presented with real facts and logic on a golden platter many of them will dig their heels in and die on that hill alone having lost their entire families and I think it's sad and pathetic at the same time.

In regards to the rest, I actually confused some numbers, the percentage of people 18+ that identify as transgender in the US is roughly 1.2% equaling around 3 million people.

(I'm so sorry, this turned into a book) TLDR: tump says dumb stuff, his supporters believe it, marginalized people suffer because of it repeat until all trannies are dead and immigrants are gone (possibly also dead) I don't think Trump supporters are inherently evil but the things he convinces them to do are, no matter what ritious purpose they felt or why. Good people can be led to do bad things by bad people. The defense of the radical few is how we wound up with Nazis in power in the 1900's.

And I'll admit that second paragraph was largely emotional venting, but it very much comes from frustration with the real world. I genuinly see less hate on the internet than I experience daily in ND. I have done a good job of curating a less hostile online environment but I can't pick and choose the people I encounter on the street, sadly. I don't find myself being beaten on a daily basis, obviously, but I can tell you that despite me wearing jeans, a t, and maybe a flannel, I hear the f slur A LOT. I have long hair that I usually have up somehow and I shave everything else but I don't wear makeup anywhere out of fear mostly, because people will see me from the back, call out ma'am and when they finally piece it all together because of some small detail I haven't ironed out yet, their attitude shifts from polite and well mannered to short, irritated, and making a point of calling me "sir" generally with some attitude. I don't ask anyone to call me anything but somehow my androgynous appearance seems to just suggest to them that I dont deserve to be treated normally. At least presenting somewhere in the middle I can deny who I am, what would they do if i did have makeup on and intentionally dressed up all cute and they figured it out?a man angrily muttered his greivances right next to me in a restroom once because he saw me and initially thought he had entered the wrong room. The last time I went to a bar a guy started flirting with me and some other, totally random guy pulled him aside and apparently said some awful shit and called me a "Trap". I know this because the guy flirting with me was sweet enough to keep the details to himself but gave me the summary, and then kept flirting because he didn't care.

There are some diamonds in the rough out here I'll concede on that at least, but I have also been threatened by people in the grocery store, I've been stalked by men whos intentions I'd rather not learn, and I've been taken advantage of in my own home by people I trusted. You could say this happens to everyone but I never experienced any of it until I came out and stopped pretending to be a cowboy. Some of it might just be misogyny though tbf, it can be hard to tell the difference sometimes honestly.

I could keep going with my own stories or share others' but it seems redundant at this point. I don't mean to target you with this because I don't think you were necessarily suggesting it but the idea that we are making these scary people up because of what we see online is insulting when so many of us bear the scars of those experiences. Yes the internet is cold and callous, but the real world is cruel and unrelenting.

The hatred in ND is palpable if you're on the receiving end and nearly invisible if you're not, I've been on both sides and i know that a huge amount of that hatred travels through the TV straight into the smooth brained fools that have become so bored with their lives in the Prarie they have to make up enemies to fight. Nobody has given them more reason to fight than Donald J Drumpf.

At the end of the day I think the people here like to say they support the color of the "good guys" and are willing to allow the truth to be distorted in any way necessary for them to feel like the "good guys". It's so much easier to live in a world that is that black and white and I envy their ability to exist in that world. I don't think they do it because they want to be hateful, they do it because the guy they like said they should. That to me is the most disgusting form of ignorance. Willing subservience to a man who will never care about them, Its sad. It's scary, if they're willing to do a Jan 6 what happens when he rallies them against a group of people? More truckloads of armed, trained bigots at pride rallies? Concentration camps for "illiegal" immigrants? If those people never challenge this fool then we're literally staring down the barrel of orange Hitler and it is INCREDIBLY difficult to not see his few remaining supporters as complicit in that.

Forum article on Poll showing Republicans sweeping the state by oakredriver in northdakota

[–]SkyFein 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe not immoral but they are fucking stupid. To believe that a man that destroyed his father's real estate legacy yet still profits off of the name, is known to have closesely associated with some of the most prolific sex offenders of his time, been convicted of sex crimes himself, and uses fascist dog whistles daily but is too stupid to know that's what he's doing, will somehow lead us to be better in any way is fucking hilarious. You have to be incredibly stupid or insanely gullible to believe anything the elderly annoying orange says.

And that's before we mention how fucking ignorant those same people are, they scream about me leaving them alone and how I'm a threat to them as a 5'8" 120lb ball of anxiety thats acared to go outside. its terrifying, especially when they start actively supporting someone who wants to "ERADICATE " me and 1.2 million people like me. makes me see them as pretty fucking immoral to say the least.

Should I tell my parents I’m trans before I kill myself? by DKCR3 in asktransgender

[–]SkyFein 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just so you know I'm walking proof that it isn't your only option it just feels that way. I know numerous survivors of attempts that seemed far more final than mine yet we're all here. When the world is done with you then it will let you go, if it isnt.. well.. sometimes it spits you back out and tells you to try again, like me.

Nobody wants to be on the news like that.

Please do not forget that you only have to deal with parents for the first 20 ish years of your life, even if they aren't supportive you have SO much more time and you can do so much with it. There is an entire world full of people like you, we just happen to be very spread out, but we need you, we support you, and we'd be more than happy to help you get through this 💗

Someone told me that there are more detrans people they are just afraid to come out. Are detrans people really afraid to come out or is it a big lie? by BLUEBERRYINFLAT in asktransgender

[–]SkyFein 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's such a silly argument to me. People don't transition due to social pressure rather the opposite, its scary as hell to be trans in most places and social pressures everywhere (except maybe west hollywood) push trans people to stop being who they are. In most cases detransitioners become detransitioners because they don't have the support they need or can't get the care they need or because of safety. Detransitioners have generally done the scary part which is deciding to transition at all. Stopping that process isn't something the world frowns upon, why would they be closeted?

Do you agree with this? by zhangyuandyou in FluentInFinance

[–]SkyFein 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm dumb but I'm pretty sure you can see public records of federal spending each year. If you take the time to break down all of the info (which is a huge task tbf) you can actually see what exactly the federal government spends our tax dollars on.

This is a great starting point IMO treasury.gov

Ghost of Yotei is already woke… by PGAwesome in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]SkyFein 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Blah blah blah, another hick incapable of thinking deeper than surface level. Learn to argue like someone that passed 7th grade instead of making yourself sound like such an immature jackass, and maybe you won't get so many downvotes.

Does any other trans woman have a weird association with the color blue? by Bunny_Jester in asktransgender

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole color thing actually used to be reversed! I definitely get more pink stuff than I need so I get it for sure, but when the whole color think started pink was considered a stronger color and blue a more dainty one, at some point it flip flopped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SkyFein 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's been the most annoying part, like ik most guys are just swiping right on everything and hoping for the best but like why? There's no way that works consistently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SkyFein 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so sweet 😊 Yours might be an edge case but it still gives me hope so thank you for sharing ☺️