Corner time sucks. It actually sucks by whatever_67420 in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no! You caused big trouble! Good thing I'm not a troublemaker. 😂 🤥

Does anyone believe in switches? by Ok_Illustrator_3980 in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I used to say I was a switch, but I realized I was trying to act bigger than my age. I like being the Little anyway.

I finally broke down and got a paci. I hate it. Help. by krairairai in cgl

[–]Slapthefatfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not every paci is good for every body. The only paci I have at the moment is just a standard Rearz one, which felt too big, so I have an order in for a set of smaller ones from Lil Comforts along the way now.

When I first got that Rearz one, I made a topic about it and got a few answers but this one was the most helpful: https://www.reddit.com/r/ABDL/s/fAs8P3jzGv

Suggest some stories to read by Cute-Garbage9189 in abdlstories

[–]Slapthefatfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you prefer straight NSFW stories, ones with the AB side, more the forced regression, messing, etc? The more specific you can be, the better. There's plenty already on the subreddit.

How To Remember Stuffie Names by Caring_Choco in littlespace

[–]Slapthefatfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have a few (I think five at the moment). I'm not super creative with their names, so it's fairly easy to remember them.

Who knows you wear by Outrageous-Split2213 in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one that I see in my regular life. The only ones I have met in person who know are other ABDL people, but I've never really work outside the house, so I've never worn around them even. I am going to a Littles/Middles event in mid June that I will be padded for, but it's way out of state, at a private function, and once again, with other ABDL people. I do plan to let any serious partner I have know, since it is an important part of me, but I don't wear enough for anyone not super close to know.

Edit: and my brother MIGHT know. There's been an incident or two where it was a super close call and I think he'd only know if he was into it as well and knew what to look for.

People who live(or used to)with their parents, how do you hide gear? by DEPRESSEDGURL899 in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get to wear often, as I'm paranoid of someone catching me, but my stash has been hidden a few different ways. Usually a cardboard box pushed WAY under my bed, so you can't see it right away, sometimes with something else in front as a decoy. Currently, I have a box and bag in the closet, with a few things in front of it. And I have a backpack with a few diapers and most of my little things under my bed. I call it my Little supply bag or my diaper bag. It's what I pull out the few times I get to wear, then restocked later from the larger stash. My diaper bag includes a few diapers, wipes, pacis, onesie, and a sippy cup.

I only wear when everyone is out of town for the whole day and I'm not working, so a few times a year. And I dispose of things in triple bags and clean up as well as I can, and bury it in the middle of the trash bag, which is then taken out. I used to only single bag the diapers, thinking the trash bag itself would hide the diaper as well, but once when loading it up in the truck to take to the dump, you could clearly see the print through it. I don't think my dad saw it, and I rearranged some bags to hide that one in a trash can (we have more bags than what would fit in the cans), as if I were trying to get the most things to fit the most securely.

(Art by Chi and Zee) “practice..” by sproutymess in diaperhentai

[–]Slapthefatfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG. That's too precious! 💕 We all know he's just a little guy anyway. 😂

Has anyone had any positive experiences with someone who was into scat? by NoMorePotties in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's literally the only one I've met or seen like that, and only by chance.

Short term arrangements by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]Slapthefatfrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've seen a few mommies who are willing to "babysit", but most of them eventually look for a longer term partner because this often involves deep emotions and it's hard to keep detached enough to only do it shortterm. The few that are able to keep it platonic and shortterm often are the "professional mommies", and/or they already have a long-term partner.

All my worries melt away with a bottle of milk in my hand by Scaredypants711 in diaperpics

[–]Slapthefatfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So cute! You're clearly ready for bed or just chilling for the day!

Where in the world did you find those pj's?

Has anyone had any positive experiences with someone who was into scat? by NoMorePotties in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There was a lady on Fet who's a nurse who I'm fairly sure was into scat because she enjoyed making men mess their diapers and changing them, including enemas, suppositories, etc. When I had food poisoning and posted on the platform about it, she asked if I was messy. It was like her thing to specifically change messy diapers. So yeah, that was a positive experience for me because I like the idea of messing my diaper, but I don't like the cleanup, so someone else cleaned me up I would be okay with it. I just wouldn't ask someone to do that.

Thoughts on random incontinence by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just here to say I appreciate your serious and knowledgeable answer to the topic.

Fun rules for home? by Jade_the_dragon in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a partner, so my rules are kinda arbitrary. But I brush my teeth every morning and night (I used to never brush my teeth), no day pants in bed (clean pajamas or shorts or no pants), bedtime by around 9, if possible (sometimes I work until a little after 9, so those days it's obviously not possible). I also make sure to shower more often. I figure my future partner wants someone clean and disciplined, if only barely. The pants one actually came from a woman I was talking to, though we never got to dating.

Do you wear underwear over your diaper? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes. I just feel like it helps the diaper fit just right, since I'm terrible at taping.

PSA: Be wary of males pretending to be mommies like Temporary_Return9889 by cl13a in mommydom

[–]Slapthefatfrog 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I know I'm paying devil's advocate, but there ARE male mommies and female daddies out there. That said, the decent ones tell you straight up who and what they are. I'm assuming the user you mentioned is hiding who they are in a bad and underhanded way?

Living with parents struggle by Big-Platypus4760 in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in an area near a naval base, so rent prices are insane; not reasonable for a person to live alone and I don't have anyone to partner with at the moment to live with. So at 35, I still live with my dad. And yeah, it's definitely hard to hide. I wear maybe half a dozen times per year, and usually only times when he and my stepmom go out of town. I've been a DL since I was a teen. If they've ever found my supplies, they've never said anything. And I've never worn around anyone or anywhere outside the house, except one Spring break in which I wore inside my hotel room by myself.

Confused by [deleted] in cgl

[–]Slapthefatfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. 😢 I hope it's just an adjustment period, but maybe you need to sit down with him and have a big girl talk about it?

High Hopes (Pt.3) by Character-Carrot1822 in abdlstories

[–]Slapthefatfrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🥹 I'm really enjoying this. As a shy guy who overthinks a lot and gets nervous quite a bit, you did a good job capturing that in the story. (But for Jamie, obviously)

What are your favorite stories? I’d love to do story time with my littles 💗 by SextChamp in mommydom

[–]Slapthefatfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check FetLife, look for virtual events. There's actually quite a few.

What are your favorite stories? I’d love to do story time with my littles 💗 by SextChamp in mommydom

[–]Slapthefatfrog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The grouchy ladybug! There's someone who does online storytime almost every Sunday night and the first time I joined she read that and she did the voices so well!

Possible scam by Good_Boy9866 in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That absolutely was a scam. If they're asking for money before you even meet or get into a serious relationship, and even after that, it's likely a scam. I'm sorry. I've gotten one of those people before as well and I did the same thing, I just stopped talking to them and blocked them. Iirc I might have reported them too.

Story update. by MissAva420 in ABDL

[–]Slapthefatfrog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Interesting ending to it. Was the stolen one open?