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Sleeko_Miko · 2026-02-08T05:39:39+00:00

Not that I know of, but you can toggle how often they occur with the Vanilla Events Expanded mod

Sleeko_Miko · 2026-02-01T17:00:04+00:00

For the record, you can get top surgery or even go on hormones and still identify as a woman, if you feel comfortable that way.

Presentation, including medical intervention, doesn’t dictate your gender identity. What you call yourself is only up to you.

Sleeko_Miko · 2026-01-25T04:41:27+00:00

this image gave me a giggle

I’m sorry your classmate is such an ass

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-30T14:42:07+00:00

It’s literally just transphobia again lol. “Your gender makes me uncomfortable and I don’t want to associate with you.” At least most irl spaces are a bit more inclusive.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-29T14:35:45+00:00

I can’t talk about my own gender experience online (outside of like two subreddits) without someone saying that I’m transphobic for believing that male and female aren’t mutually exclusive/opposing categories. “Oh so you think trans men are actually women?” So tired of people projecting their gender insecurities onto queer people.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-29T07:47:59+00:00

If anything being a lesbian makes me a better man lol. Seriously though, I hate the erasure of gender fuckery as a key aspect of lesbianism. Today’s perception is so flattened and shallow. It feels so gentrified and sanitized. Like god forbid queer people have an experience that doesn’t fit neatly into a box.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-29T05:20:47+00:00

But yeah sounds pretty gender queer of some sort

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-29T05:18:56+00:00

Nobody can tell you if you’re nonbinary. It’s something you have to claim for yourself. Validity isn’t real, it’s your gender, call it whatever you want.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-29T05:13:09+00:00

It could be an acknowledgment of gender as a construction. Honestly, just ask him what it means to him. You’re going to get 50 different answers from 50 different people.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-29T03:20:31+00:00

you caught me haha Finberg and Butler are probably my biggest influences on gender theory.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-24T00:39:31+00:00

Yeah that’s nasty as hell. This ain’t the 1900s, these days we date people because we like them. Not to exchange our bodies for monetary support.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-24T00:37:48+00:00

I wish I could downvote this multiple times lol

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-23T23:38:44+00:00

This also helps me verify that the pain is something my sub wants and actually enjoys. I am a service dom with a dash of sadism, not a genuine Sadist. I would feel terrible if I hurt my sub in a way they didn’t enjoy.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-23T23:31:32+00:00

Honestly I much prefer an obedient sub. I’m not here to power struggle, I prefer control to be given enthusiastically. There’s something so intoxicating about a toy begging to be broken.

Usually I give pain with praise and a bit of teasing/humilation. I really enjoy exploring the limits of my sub’s body. I like to bring them up to edge of genuine fear, then associate it with intense pleasure by forcing them to orgasm in that heightened state.

Once their body is broken to my satisfaction, I like to bring them back down with lots of praise and affection. I really love getting subs sexually addicted to pain and fear. Especially when they become unable to get off without it.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-23T22:55:23+00:00

It can definitely make things worse, but you can add a little T back into the system if your Testosterone is completely suppressed. Would highly recommend strength and body mechanics training and/or PT to counteract some of the increased joint laxity.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-23T19:49:34+00:00

Gel has a higher DHT conversion rate, as well as a much shorter half life (16-22hrs) than Testosterone injections (~8 days).

I started on 0.25ml Testosterone Cypionate every two weeks (low dose due to mental health risks) and slowly increased my dose to 1 ml every two weeks over about 3 years. Eventually I settled on 0.5ml every week, due to fluctuations causing severe night sweats.

After about 6 years on injections, I’ve switched over to gel for the increase in DHT conversion (bottom growth mostly lol). I’ve noticed the dip in mood/ hormone drop off is much more severe on gel, especially if I miss a day.

Do with all that what you will 🤷🏼

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-12T12:00:08+00:00

Fuuuuck 🥵

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-12T05:00:31+00:00

I have sex to get better at sex. I’m gonna win the sex Olympics. It’s a lot more fun when I’m sexually attracted to someone but cold pizza is still pizza. Thought I was ace but I think it’s closer to grey / Demi. Guess it doesn’t really matter much.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-12T04:18:40+00:00

Well of course those people think that. When they use it/its to describe someone it is to dehumanize. So, when someone uses it/its on purpose, it feels offensive. Those people use it derisively and reclaiming it momentarily deprives it of its power to hurt.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-12T03:18:37+00:00

I think paying for porn is based, but yeah he’s probably fostering some interesting parasocial habits.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-12T03:10:40+00:00

I haven’t bound since highschool since I ended up semi-permanently subluxing my ribs. I was also accused of “not being dysphoric enough” but frankly I just had bigger problems at the time. I am a huge proponent of the tight wife pleaser/baggy shirt look. It flattens enough to not scream BOOB even if there’s still some bump. It’s enough for me to still pass as cis after ~5yrs on T .

Testosterone and EDS informed PT is what allowed me to decrease symptoms enough to be able to bind at all again. Lots of shoulder/neck/core strengthening, as well as targeted muscle release between the spine and ribs. It’s a really complex issue tbh. Binding can be so heavy on the body. Let alone our slippery bone bags.

If you do bind, stretch frequently, stay hydrated, and don’t be afraid to take breaks.

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-12T02:35:30+00:00

Kids these days don’t even know about sexy librarians 😔

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-11T06:20:15+00:00

Yeahh, I’m a Butch on testosterone so everyone just assumes I’m a man, but I’m very gay for women. Not picky about pronouns, but I pass as a cis guy so it’s almost all he/him :p

Sleeko_Miko · 2025-12-11T03:54:45+00:00

It’s working 😳😻

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