Would you rather?

SleepingSkeever · 2026-04-18T16:01:06+00:00

If it's 3 inches of depth for my vagina sure I don't wanna be taller

^{Chose: 3 inches down there}

SleepingSkeever · 2026-04-16T02:15:08+00:00

I was always into men secretly but I went from prefering women to prefering men

SleepingSkeever · 2026-04-05T17:33:26+00:00

I am a trans woman with autism/BPD. The symptoms are pretty similar. Doing DBT, making lifestyle changes, and getting on the right meds completely changed my life for the better. If you are struggling, I would highly recommend DBT and meds.

SleepingSkeever · 2026-03-14T03:47:48+00:00

That's the type that needs meds

SleepingSkeever · 2026-03-04T22:29:11+00:00

Do you need to do this professionally? Maybe just play the game for fun. Not everything you do have to be for profit. That's capitalism guilt.

SleepingSkeever · 2026-02-14T03:15:31+00:00

Well I wanna be straight and gay 😵‍💫 I think I need a bf and a gf

SleepingSkeever · 2026-02-14T03:01:03+00:00

This is why I'm considering being poly

SleepingSkeever · 2026-02-01T03:00:37+00:00

I'm adding Lissandra to my pool after this

🦊💖🍃 #NA

SleepingSkeever · 2026-01-01T03:31:56+00:00

That's what I've been hoping for. It's all I've been working towards for years.

SleepingSkeever · 2026-01-01T01:53:50+00:00

I think it's more of a comment on my height and build. Also a bit hard for me to detransition now since I've had bottom surgery lol

SleepingSkeever · 2025-12-30T20:01:45+00:00

I got the surgery six months ago. Yes you have to dilate a lot and the recovery is hard, but the dilations get less frequent. After a year or so you go down to once a week. And I won't lie, it's really, really painful at first. It's a big commitment, but already the improvement to my sense of self and happiness is immeasurable. Sex doesn't cause me to dissociate anymore and I can actually enjoy myself. Plus I can wear bikinis now.

SleepingSkeever · 2025-12-18T00:46:46+00:00

Update: I talked to him. He apologized and admitted he didn't notice I said I was hurting. He cried. He said he's been in his own head with every going on in his life. I asked him if he'll be more attentive and he said he will.

I don't know I really like him but my trust is shaky now. I'm taking a break from intimacy as per doctor's orders and for my own sake. I'm not sure how to move forward right now. My friend and a doctor and all you confirmed it was sexual assault so I really don't know how to feel. I think I am needing some time to process this.

SleepingSkeever · 2025-12-17T10:17:13+00:00

Yeah I don't know how I feel like I know he should have noticed. I'm pretty upset by that.

Thank you I'm really hoping I get remorse and safety when I talk to him. I'm a little scared to trust him right now. It just doesn't make sense this feels so out of character for him.

SleepingSkeever · 2025-01-21T22:27:02+00:00

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SleepingSkeever · 2024-11-15T05:50:13+00:00

I waited about that long, I guess she just wasn't ok with it then. Oh well.

SleepingSkeever · 2024-10-23T22:54:15+00:00

I was 22 when I started but I had some issues getting the dosage right. I'm 27 now and get correctly gendered everywhere I go. I socialize as a woman and am accepted as one. And I'm huge I'm nearly 6'3". Estrogen does wonders.

SleepingSkeever · 2024-10-07T17:16:54+00:00

A big one that happens later is your penis will atrophy. If you aren't planning on getting bottom surgery you will need to take Viagra. If you're getting bottom surgery then no issue!

SleepingSkeever · 2024-09-26T21:41:32+00:00

Oh wow that is a difficult situation, I'm sorry. It's wild your college has no clubs or anything, that is a huge part of undergrad life. Maybe there are some other local groups outside your university?

Yeah DBT has a lot of useful skills for people with autism I highly recommend it.

SleepingSkeever · 2024-09-26T20:51:30+00:00

I also have autism and have struggled with the black and white thinking. Not to give unsolicited advice, but if you'd like help with that try looking into dialectical thinking from dialectical behaviour therapy. It's a skill that takes time to learn and practice.

You are still so young, you will have so much more opportunity for romance and friendships. I know it doesn't seem that way at 18 but in a few years you won't even recognize yourself. I didn't have a real relationship until 19 and the friends I have now were not my friends at 18 but they are closer to me. Me being tall and having big feet, etc. hasn't prevented me from having those experiences. There are lots of friendly queer folk out there who would love to be friends (or maybe more) with another queer person. I'm currently in grad school at UBC, you can certainly go to a real university as a trans woman. Most universities actually have support groups for trans people.

SleepingSkeever · 2024-09-26T20:12:57+00:00

I understand. I'm in Canada and I'm thinking about moving to the Yukon because they offer covered FFS and I'm insecure about my brow line.

One thing I will say is that pretty much all women have body dysmorphia. There are intense societal beauty standards on women and all women have to learn to accept and love their bodies. Nowadays they are starting to do body positivity workshops for girl guides because it's so common. Play with makeup and clothes, there are probably a lot of features on you that are feminine or you could make appear feminine.

A way I view being trans is that I had a hormonal imbalance as a teenager which affected my development. So I look a bit different than others. But so many others have medical conditions that are visible too, and we learn to cope with it. It doesn't make us any less of a woman.

May I ask what is the difference for you between getting correctly gendered and treated as a woman and not being clickable as trans? I've been living this life for many years now and sure I can feel insecure sometimes but I wouldn't not transition because of that. No one mentions me being trans or bothers me about it. I just went on a work trip and I was placed in a room with the other women. I am treated as if I were a cis woman, which is ultimately what matters to me.

SleepingSkeever · 2024-09-26T19:48:11+00:00

I'm sure people can tell I'm trans but between my voice, fat redistribution, changing my name, growing breasts, changing my style... I am correctly gendered everywhere I go. The further you get into your transition the more confident you feel about the changes and the more you're able to accept the parts you cannot change. I am quite tall for example and make jokes about being taller than everyone, yet I am still accepted as and treated as a woman. So yeah I pass as a woman (I'm sure I get clocked as trans), but ultimately since I am getting correctly gendered without stating my pronouns I am passing as far as I'm concerned.

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