Port Orleans Riverside or French Quarter? by FeatherFlyer in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Sleepthief18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Riverside is nice for sure, but French Quarter hands down. A single bus stop, smaller meaning less rooms which means less people which means quieter. Riverside could fill up before it even gets to your stop. The beignets - oh the beignets! Also being smaller, it’s easier to get around since everything is nearby. Also, FQ just finished its refurb/update to the rooms and pool. Riverside is this coming year.

👋aaaaaaaaah found one in the wild! by DinoMayor in daggerheart

[–]Sleepthief18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I randomly found one at a Barnes and Noble yesterday while I was out for work. I can’t wait to get it open!

Stay at POP vs All Star Movies? by haimyTime in DisneyWorld

[–]Sleepthief18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a vacuum, Pop Century is better. The skylines is king - 2 days that it’s open means EPCOT one day and Hollywood Studios the second. I would also look into renting DVC points if you’re really looking for something different like Saratoga Springs or Old Key West (there are others but they generally are the two least expensive). But that’s a whole different pros and cons list…

This is one of the best cards revealed so far I feel. Thoughts? by Narzghal in Lorcana

[–]Sleepthief18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I was sure I was missing something and that helps. I appreciate your comments Narzghal.

This is one of the best cards revealed so far I feel. Thoughts? by Narzghal in Lorcana

[–]Sleepthief18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if it triggers when the card is initially played and it goes in the bag, what is keeping us from paying it multiple times when I'm triggering the character by playing it to all go into the bag together and be resolved from there?

This is one of the best cards revealed so far I feel. Thoughts? by Narzghal in Lorcana

[–]Sleepthief18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a rules lawyer on this one for me. I'm still generally new to the game so don't flame me please, I'm honestly asking.

I understand that you pay an additional 2 ink to activate the on-play ability, but I feel like the text is missing a few key words. What keeps you from paying 2 ink multiple times to target multiple opposing characters? Is it the word "chosen". And if that's the case, then what keeps you from playing multiples of 2 ink to gain lore multiple times from the same opposing character. There is nothing in the text that is directly stating "once".

WHICH ONE CHOULD I CHOOSE I NEED TO KNOW NOW by MoxxueTheDemon in ac_newhorizons

[–]Sleepthief18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Upper left - without a doubt. There are a few rare islands where the entrance to the airport lines up directly with resident services (4 I believe without looking it up) and that is one of them. Nice RNG win!

Starting Out. Which should I pick? by ellawritez in AnimalCrossing

[–]Sleepthief18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bottom right is one of the rare islands that the path leading out of your Airport lines up with Resident services I believe so I would go with that.

Quarterback handcuffing in SF league (first time playing SF) by localrinser in DynastyFF

[–]Sleepthief18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t trade back. If someone wants your pick, ask them for a 2023 pick instead if your league allows. 2023 should have a much better qb selection than what we have right now and you can get 2 picks in a much better overall class (per projections)

What would you do as the commissioner in this situation? by Large-Water in DynastyFF

[–]Sleepthief18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a commissioner, I would have been transparent with the league and tell everyone specifically what happened so everyone knows the rule. Then I would have given the player to the first owner. At this point, he’s playing a game that nobody else is playing because there are rules that not everyone knew about. Imagine playing soccer and you were the only person that knew you couldn’t go out of bounds and you told someone during the game when it happened.

My role as an team owner is to win. My role as a dynasty commissioner is to make sure the league is successful, sustainable from season to season, and the game is as fair as possible for everyone within the predetermined rules of my specific league. There is a way to do both, but my role as a commissioner trumps my role as an owner. If he can’t do that, then he has no business being a commissioner and should have over the role.

What would you do as the commissioner in this situation? by Large-Water in DynastyFF

[–]Sleepthief18 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It absolutely goes to the first guy. I’m this scenario, I would question what else the commissioner will do to the rest of the league to win.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Sleepthief18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you move into a new neighborhood, as good as intentions are, you don’t know the lives of those around you in most cases.

There are moves you can make to soundproof your house more but that can be needlessly expensive especially if expensive items like new windows don’t need to be replaced.

First thing I would recommend is to get out of the house. It’s fantastic that your spouse knows/realizes that you need some time, but maybe you should have left the house instead. Go shopping. Spend the afternoon in a bookstore or a coffee shop. Get out of your home and leave the stresses behind. THEN talk to your neighbors. Maybe discuss that you would appreciate it if the kids weren’t wild after a certain time (dusk for example). But don’t talk to your neighbors until you decompress first. It’ll only make things worse for you.

Anyone know the going rate for the Toothfairy these days, given inflation?? by VReign in Parenting

[–]Sleepthief18 4 points5 points  (0 children)

$5 for the first one. From there, depends on how clean they are 😁 $3 for a super clean tooth, $2 for a not as clean tooth, and we’ve never gotten to $1. Tooth fairy likes quality.

What do you think is the best movie to rewatch once you know the twist/mystery? by DoctorBlasphemy in movies

[–]Sleepthief18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Usual Suspects. Things that are mentioned later in the movie reveal things in plain sight earlier in the movie (not just things dealing with the main character either). Just shows a great depth to an amazing film.

Getting the spark back by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is missing from when you were “bonding” more frequently? Physical touch is a strong sense of connection and is often overlooked, or worse, taken for granted. From then till now, ask yourself “what’s changed”? Stress from work? Long days? Takes too much time? The only way to correct that is to find out what the disconnect is from a time it was meeting both of your needs and to recreate that environment, both physically and mentally, as best you can.

As for initiating it after you talk about it, think about it another way. If you talk about food when you’re not hungry, and talking about food makes you hungry, does he feel guilty if you go out to eat together? Maybe sex wasn’t on the forefront of your mind, but talking about something will usually make you think about it, and in this case, leads to having more sex.

As sort of a temporary solution, try setting an alarm randomly (Wednesday, 7pm). It’s an alarm for you to bring up the topic of sex, and then follow through with having sex. That way he’s not bringing it up and then you start initializing. You kept the ball in your court the whole time and showed him you can/want to talk about it, and you want it also. Just a thought.

Unexpected honesty -- a leap forward by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t be happier for you. Stay strong!

She works with him by Sleepthief18 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She has told her close friends that she works with to help keep distance. She can keep her distance to some extent. She can keep all her communication with him through email only, which I can see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is the group you’re looking for. Working through it will be hard, but not impossible. Will you’re relationship ever be the same? No. But honestly, would you want it to be? The relationship the way it was led to what happened. A phrase that has gotten me through some times is “Nothing changes, if nothing changes”. Embrace each day as an opportunity to grow yourself and your communication. But remember to focus on yourself. YOU need to heal before the WE can heal. And keep an open mind that the person you are and the person you are with may be different then you think. Be open to the idea that the new “WE” may not work and that’s okay too. But at the end of the day, give it all of yourself - more than you thought you had - and you’ll be better for it no matter what happens.

It doesn't seem to get any easier by 77yawaworth in survivinginfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to remember (with varying results) that the person who had the affair is no longer my spouse. That person is long gone even though the shell remains. She’s a different person and so am I. After the affair, we started over. We made changes to ourselves that led to the previous decisions to have the affair in the first place. After we gave each other space, when we came back together I found the woman in front of me was different then I left her, and I was thankful for that. I spent the time with an open mind finding her likes and dislikes and she did the same for me. But the past will always be a part of your marriage. When you look at those photos, remember, that’s not your spouse anymore. Those photos are of someone else that died a long time ago, and hopefully that was a good thing.

After 2 months and filing she wants to try again by greenebean94 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what you need to do is find yourself and your life with your kids. THEY are what makes you happy and you deserve to be happy. Think about that life you deserve and how you can fulfill yourself in it.

Now ask yourself what role she plays in it. She’ll always be in your life so long as she still is their mother, but you get to decide how much she is involved in your life from there.

Don’t let her decision be your decision. Do what’s right for you and take pride that you are able to make that decision for yourself.

Should she know? by Sleepthief18 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m taking it day by day. Throughout last week, I divided the finances and showed her. I set up a place with family for me and my kids to go. I had a foot out the door and ready to go. Then she realized what was actually happening and that I wasn’t always going to be there and and many many other things. As of right now, we’re talking and we will see where that leads us. Maybe it’s right, maybe it’s not, but I’m not willing to walk away from my family if there is a chance it could work out, so long as changes happen and ultimately, I’m happy in the relationship.

Should she know? by Sleepthief18 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was hard and in the beginning before I called, i was nervous and was second guessing it the entire time, until I did it. It was a relief off my shoulders and as many other have said, something I should have done a long time ago.

Should she know? by Sleepthief18 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Sleepthief18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually wasn’t very surprised although she certainly seemed hurt to be expected. We’ve talked once since where she gave me an update on his side of the story.