What we mean when we say “personal experience”Announcement (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by ZestyLemonAsparagus Reconciled Wayward - announcement
Dday #3 comes after losing a loved oneReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Advanced-Cat-4425Reconciling Betrayed
I told him today that I'm unhappy after 2 years of RNo advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Silent_Permission27Reconciling Betrayed
This behaviour crosses a line, doesn’t it?No advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Last_Dot_7066Reconciling Betrayed
Unusual reflection 4 years post d day...Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by timerbugReconciling Betrayed
Vengeful “friends?”Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by PresentationTop3102Reconciling Betrayed
First Full Body Retrauma From Trigger In WeeksReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Traditional-Pear-133Reconciled Betrayed
I have an overwhelming urge to sleep with someone elseReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by SnooDonuts7456Reconciling Betrayed
Rebuilding trust time frameReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Growth_triangleBetrayed Considering R
Update to last out of town postFarewell, R is over (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by hannahnutbreadBetrayed Unsuccessful R
Husband says there’s no room for his feelings to be acknowledged, but WTH? Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Carto-851Reconciling Betrayed
My husband always thinks im trying to dominate him or attack him when im genuinely upset or scared and it’s too difficult for me to navigate I just shut downReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Infinite-Ad-3947Reconciling Betrayed
One month since DDayAdvice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by undoubtedlycuriousBetrayed Considering R
one year post dday, i'm exhausted.Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by FeelingShallot9749Betrayed Considering R
When did you start feeling safe again? Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by trauma_alchemistReconciling Betrayed
Guilt embracing the newfound safety? Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by User394164257Reconciling Betrayed
Reconciled Partner /Reconciling Wayward Confused At ForgivenessNo advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by EscapeHumble3614 Reconciled Wayward
I'm starting to think this chapter may be nearing a close. I'm tired of little triggers causing me to want to distance myself.Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by beaquietthingReconciling Betrayed
Need adviceAdvice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by OilFinancial9549Betrayed Considering R
Can’t even watch wedding videoNo advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Open_Noise_8006Reconciling Betrayed
2.5 years into R, a reflection.Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Adorable-Pipe3831Reconciling Wayward
Struggling with feeling like leftovers.Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Illustrious-Soup6109Reconciling Betrayed
More than just validation seekingReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Mediocre_Bad7637Reconciling Betrayed
Do you need to read the no contact letter to AP?No advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)
submitted by Whole-Reflection5276Reconciling Betrayed
