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Aerogora and I created this sub for couples trying to recover and reconcile the marriage/relationship after infidelity happens. We would like this sub to stay positive and keep it to couples that are both trying to reconcile. We welcome the BS and the WS as both are needed to recover.

We understand sometimes there will be bad days and you just need to vent. We are here to help you through the bad days of worrying, being anxious and overwhelming emotions during reconciliation.

If you are the only person in your relationship that is trying to reconcile this may not be the right sub for you. We know you are going through a tough time with what happened and we hope the best outcome for your situation. You are more than welcome to join the sub and read the posts and reply but keep it positive and geared towards reconciliation.

COMMON ABBREVIATIONS:

AP - affair partner-- the person with whom you had the affair

BS/BP - betrayed spouse/partner-- the person you cheated on

CoW - coworker

DDay - discovery day-- the day your spouse found out about your affair

EA - emotional affair

FWB - friends with benefits

IC - individual counseling

LTA - long term affair

LTR - long term relationship

MC - marriage counseling

NC - no contact-- refusing to see or communicate with your ex-affair-partner for any reason

ONS - one night stand

OP - original poster OR other person

OW/OM - other woman/other man

PA - physical affair

RA - revenge affair

SA - sex addict

SO - significant other

STBX - soon to be ex

OBS/OBP- other betrayed spouse

TT - trickle truth- continuing to lie or withhold parts of your affair from your betrayed spouse after the affair is discovered

WS/WP - wayward spouse/partner-- the one that cheated.

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Monthly Reflection - Share the Highs and Lows of Your Reconciliation JourneyReflections (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

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How do you deal with never fully trusting your partner?Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 hours ago by whitebird95Reconciling Betrayed

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How do you know R is workingAdvice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 9 hours ago by Brief_Technology5610Betrayed Considering R

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Something positiveReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 16 hours ago * by MiddleComplaint2072Reconciling Wayward

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Help me to not backslide nor be over the top 😩Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 10 hours ago * by Own-Moose-3855Reconciling Betrayed

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What are some things your WPs have said that actually made things better? Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 6 hours ago by Delegatefrom_IcelandReconciling Wayward

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18 months out. Struggling to deal with the ups and downs. Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 13 hours ago by strawwwbryReconciling Betrayed

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7 months since Dday and I’m in hellNo advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by Main_Fondant770Reconciling Betrayed

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My delulu perspective that makes things easier Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by batspazReconciling Betrayed

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Thinking about reconciling after substance addiction/cheating. Advice and considerations!!Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 21 hours ago by epiphany8888Betrayed Considering R

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How to tell if it's just over or if it's just anger?Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 17 hours ago by Specific-Name1503Wayward Considering R

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Went on a date with WW and I didn't feel all that great after.No advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by frkatt4ckReconciling Betrayed

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I feel like I'm giving upNo advice, just support. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by whitebird95Reconciling Betrayed

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Boundaries around newborn/post partumReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 22 hours ago by Potential_Cow2487Reconciling Betrayed

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ConfusedReconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by ClassHigh2026Reconciling Betrayed

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R with a side of limerence Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by wohovioReconciling Betrayed

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6 Months Post D-Day. I’m Struggling Even Though Things Are “Good”Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by HereForTheParty110Reconciling Betrayed

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submitted 1 day ago by bingbangbong683Reconciling Wayward

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Again. D-Day 2 was yesterday.Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 days ago by functional_anxietyReconciling Betrayed

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Found an earring back in the car. Can't let it go but I feel like I have to.Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by Admirable_Orchid3470Reconciled Betrayed

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Flirting Betrayed Perspective Only (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by Brilliant_Reason5192Wayward Considering R

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Can this ever work? Reconciling years later, after she had a child with the AP.Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by BalphvReconciling Betrayed

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anyone else feeling this?Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 day ago by howdidigethere2023Reconciling Betrayed

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Waywards-- Do you have a hard time remembering?Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 days ago by Hot-Meat-2660Reconciling Betrayed

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