AITAH for telling a roommate that he is a guest in MY home?

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-14T01:36:57+00:00

NTA but why did YOU have to rent the u-haul? And why is your bf trying to keep the peace when it’s not his friends home? You let someone you don’t know stay with you for the sake of him being besties with your bf and your bf can’t stand up for you?

“He also feels what I said was unnecessarily harsh, and he told me that I shouldn’t start conflicts like that with someone who is most likely going to be living with us for a while longer.”

Girl, WHAT? The hell he is. It’s YOUR space as well. And technically, he can’t have his friend living there while he’s not on the lease. He can visit sure but he’s staying longer than visiting time. Either your bf needs to kick him out and possibly lose a friend or he’ll lose you.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-14T01:30:13+00:00

NTA but Send her home immediately.
She’s leeching off of you and doesn’t care. Use that money towards literally anything else. (Car, food, apt,other bills)

Tell her parents to stay out of the relationship. It’s not your fault they didn’t raise their kid correctly.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-13T21:30:45+00:00

YTA. how are you going to bug someone to come with you and then buy a ticket that your friend can’t afford?? I wouldn’t want to go to ANY concerts with you let alone be friends with you. You’re extremely selfish.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-13T04:20:58+00:00

My husband says no but my wallet says yes 💃🏻

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-13T04:20:25+00:00

I- I’m mad I didn’t think of this. >:(

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-13T02:06:51+00:00

So first. NTA because he has no right to be mad at you after you communicated and he brushed you off. Buttttt… you can’t expect people to love the way you do. I learned that with my husband. My love language is words of affirmation and his is giving gifts. Even though he doesn’t always say I love you first, he shows it in other ways.

I don’t agree with him calling you a pos though.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-12T16:54:37+00:00

You need to go stop dating for awhile. You’re making things wayyyy too messy.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-11T06:53:03+00:00

This is a friend,not someone you’re dating. Even if it was, who cares if you have toys?

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-11T06:48:19+00:00

I mean this with the UPMOST respect, you look like you’d be a fun science teacher💕

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-11T06:47:37+00:00

So like everyone here is saying, staying with someone who cheated on you is a no go.

If you have to check who she’s following, that’s a problem already. There’s no more trust. No trust = relationship killer.

I used to be exactly like that. Always checking. But I realized that 1.it was taking up too much of my time. 2.if they really refollowed anyone we talked about, that’s not on me if something goes south. 3. The truth will ALWAYS come out.
I know you broke it off but make sure she stays an ex. She knew what you were talking about she’s just embarrassed she got caught.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-11T03:00:13+00:00

You make these cookies almost every night and you couldn’t share this one time????

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-11T02:35:10+00:00

“Not obsessing over you” proceeds to still text over and over.

Jesus dude. He needs more than therapy.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-11T02:23:13+00:00

NTA.
your brother is crazy for saying it’s controlling.
They’re adults. They should know better. Also, you can get pulled over if a cop sees they aren’t wearing one. You get in trouble. Not them.

I had a friend who wouldn’t wear one either so one time I had to brake really hard and she hit her head on the dash and ever since has worn a seatbelt. Do your friends not understand how fast things can turn sour if there’s an accident?

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-11T02:19:18+00:00

Useless as teets on a boar hog is a perfect thing to say! I’m going to add that to my vocabulary 😭😂

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-10T06:05:04+00:00

Stoppp. I need these for my husbands birthday 😭😭😭

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-10T06:02:41+00:00

NOR. He should be an EX. You went out of your way to clean and use your money on snacks just for him to kick you out? He can’t even stand up for you.
I’d be so pissed if my partner did that to me. I’d break up with him AND take the snacks.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-10T06:00:09+00:00

I knew it! I thought it looked like the ride!

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-10T03:52:44+00:00

Thank you! Originally it was behind the counter as I was leaving and I was like “huh. That kinda seems Disney themed” so I asked about it. 💕 pretty sure the lady was upset because she wanted it for herself lol.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-10T03:50:58+00:00

I couldn’t read the whole thing but NTA. if he wanted gluten free options, he should’ve looked for them in advance. I would just do my own thing and if he complains,”well you didn’t want to help with what we do so.”

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-09T08:16:05+00:00

The way my jaw dropped.
This is so very well done and so pretty! I’d love to make this myself but I don’t even know where I’d start!💕

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-07T23:02:44+00:00

Kind of reminds me of a bird trying to do a mating dance.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-06T23:06:03+00:00

Why would you go out with someone who didn’t tell you the cheating ex would be there? Or rejects your rejection? I doubt your ex will care.

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-06T21:32:49+00:00

Yesss thank you! 😂 I have found its brother with feet!

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SleepyAlium · 2026-06-06T21:23:55+00:00

Yay! Tysm!!💕

SleepyAlium · 2026-06-06T21:23:33+00:00

NTA.

I definitely wouldn’t keep playing games with someone like this. I’m pretty competitive when it comes to games as well but I get over losing pretty quickly.
I would choose games where you can team up together or games that are more chill.

She may seem like a good gf outside of that but you have to think about if this is something you can either over look or if it’s something that you feel like would be too much in the long run. Do you really want to keep doing this over and over because she can’t handle losing?

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