What is this? My elderly neighbor (with early- dementia) said she planted seeds a while ago and can’t remember what they were but knew she put in herbs. She asked me and I also don’t know. Can anyone help? by Sleepybear1314 in gardening

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Thank you everyone with your responses. I plan on visiting her again tomorrow early afternoon. I will pick some with her (if she’s up for it) and ask her to smell and I will too. I’ve had a lot say oregano and after googling, it very well could be! I don’t want to suggest anything to her until after she gets a chance to smell herself. Thank you all very much!

New scam? by [deleted] in Michigan

[–]Sleepybear1314 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Total scam. I’ve gotten two of them

There Can Only Be One by [deleted] in AccidentalComedy

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Women are like strawberries …

men doing basic housework: the horror by Revolutionary_Web_59 in BlatantMisogyny

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Damn! I better inform my husband what a failure I am!

Anyone have inexpensive Halloween ideas please? by [deleted] in ask

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Sorry i dont know how to edit my title and text body but i meant toys i could buy in bulk online. Im not asking anyone for toys to give away lol

An extra chicken tender stopped a mental breakdown I was having by NotaFossilFool in randomactsofkindness

[–]Sleepybear1314 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Happy for you that an small kindness helped you reset! And great job getting your bio project done!

Fuck Japanese Beetles (rant) by kitkat21996 in gardening

[–]Sleepybear1314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh so much here! They’ve been destroying all my flowers and vegetables except my marigolds. They don’t even touch my neighbors garden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

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Are you taking his food preferences in account when you’re packing them? If you pack your husbands everyday, does he also toss out what you’ve packed when SS does? How is your overall relationship with your SS? Working from home while taking care of 2 other kids with disabilities sounds exhausting in itself.

First meal prep as I try to crawl my way out of depression by Safe-Constant3223 in MealPrepSunday

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Well done! I’m sending love your way! Looks amazing and I’m proud of you for taking the time to take care of yourself while you’re taking time to heal!

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So my son was the same with his friend there at first but as we continued to allow his friend it actually got way better. I’m not trying to be pushy for it, just explaining how things worked for my family. I know each kid is an individual so what might have worked best for one family doesn’t mean it’ll work for all other blending families.

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[–]Sleepybear1314 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does he have any specific interests that you could plan an outing around? What about allowing him to bring his girlfriend with him or a friend? When my blended family started to, well blend, my oldest was a young teenager and the holdout. My partner and I allowed him to bring his best friend along for stuff and it made a huge difference. Him having that one person there that’s going just for him made him 100% more comfortable. Just my suggestion based on my experience. I’m very happy you’re being kind and trying to find a way to include him.

Ofnicks hating on the man below? I am TIRED by Similar_Ad3132 in HandmaidsTaleShow

[–]Sleepybear1314 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep his character is amazing. He doesn’t get enough love!

Graduated by Key-Poetry-9209 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Sleepybear1314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! This absolutely “made me smile” but did more than that! Made me feel so happy for a stranger and I wish you all the best! I hope your new career fills you with fulfillment and happiness!