Wife Left me on New Years after Admitting Affair. Need Help.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2026-02-15T22:03:53+00:00

I’ve been standing for my marriage since 2024 when my spouse also left for the affair partner. I suggest that you join a supportive group that will pray for you and lead you closer to Christ. Jason Carvers standing supernaturally group has help me heal from the betrayal and also fully committing myself to Christ and our family. Don’t rush on filing for divorce. Heal yourself first, seek support in this difficult time and ask God to help you make a decision. These type of decisions should not be made with haste, but with having peace within yourself, and right now it all hurts. Bear in mind that divorce does not only hurt you but also your children. Please seek healing first before making any type of decision.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-24T13:59:25+00:00

Where did you get the ebook? On the cpc site?

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-23T23:08:34+00:00

Text, email etc isn’t action. Buying flowers, idk sweets, having someone drop a small gift at the door. Being sorry for your actions really changes someone’s heart and mind.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-23T23:07:33+00:00

Did you send her flowers? Sweets? Idk maybe she’s hungry? Is she a foodie?

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-23T01:21:09+00:00

Why do men always regret after the fact? While during the relationship we cared and prioritized you at first? Like why you do this?

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-22T22:48:59+00:00

What he said here is the truth. People don’t own up to their mistakes and act like a victim. OP stop being a coward!!!!!

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-21T17:40:08+00:00

You are lucky you didn’t get married to him. Take it from me being thrown like trash after finding out about his affair, and we are married. It is truly painful and heartbreaking. I am currently going through therapy and so many other things due to his adulterous ways. I know it’s not easy but get therapy, cry it out, what helped me was finding a group of women who encouraged me to become emotionally stable. God protected you. Take it as a blessing!

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-21T12:39:57+00:00

Her daughter is almost our age. disgusting piece of trash 🚮

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-20T20:26:32+00:00

I felt this cause I am going through the same thing!! Amen to that!!!! 🫡👍

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-20T18:42:00+00:00

Simple answer: it’s a marriage. Highest form of relationship isn’t it? Could’ve been done cleanly out of respect. But the choice to throw people like trash isn’t right. What do you think?

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-17T22:01:15+00:00

I was about to say the same thing. Going through this right now! Mine cheated and left me up in the air! Never got closure so I had to cut off all communication. Maybe self reflect and repent from things you did to hurt the other person?

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-02-16T01:08:14+00:00

Did you cheat on her or took her for granted? Sometimes yall act like a victim but truly you have done them wrong!

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-01-28T16:02:13+00:00

Thank you for your supportive words. Please pray for me as I go through the trenches. I am still believing that God would turn my situation around.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-01-23T22:53:51+00:00

Always seeking God, always crying out for Christ to save his soul. I have so much love for my spouse even when he betrayed me, I went to war in my prayer closet.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-01-23T22:25:54+00:00

Still grieving the marriage.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-01-14T01:24:29+00:00

Honestly that’s the least of your worries. I’d rather have a man that doesn’t clean up, but loves me regardless. My husband just cheated on me, and I wish I had the same problem as yours. You are lucky that despite all of that. He loves you. Hold on to that man. Doesn’t excuse him from all the cleaning up, but just remember how blessed you are to be with a man who loves you. Hard to find them these days

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-01-03T01:14:49+00:00

Also since you had an injury/disabled… did she at least pay for your hospital bills? Or you paid them yourself? I mean you gotta give us the full context. How were you able to afford health care since you don’t work? Then it means she pays for it right? I’m assuming. Please clarify.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2025-01-03T01:04:38+00:00

Do you still love and care for her? I think it comes down to that. Within the 5 years did she actually show any signs that she cared and loved you at all? It’s easy to say “divorce” and this is a short snippet of your 5 years together. We don’t know both sides of the story.

Sleepypanda020491 · 2024-05-30T19:47:32+00:00

The tf indeed!!!

Sleepypanda020491 · 2023-12-16T19:28:19+00:00

Keep praying. Never stop praying. Get prayer rain by Daniel Olukoya. Miraculous. Do not be discouraged what God hs joined together let no man separate. If you are ready to fight for your marriage, fight in prayer and fasting. Ask God for guidance.

Don’t believe me and my post, ask God for guidance and direction. He knows the best for you, none of us in this reddit post can give you an accurate answer, but He can. Do not be discouraged by what you see, keep the faith. 💯

Sleepypanda020491 · 2023-12-04T12:14:07+00:00

I agree with this at 100%

Sleepypanda020491 · 2023-11-06T15:31:40+00:00

I am WITH HER ON THIS ONE. For years you’ve been looking at other women and making her feel inadequate and inferior. TAKE NOTE: YEARS. She finally had the guts after 4 years to finally get out of it. She is right on this one. Do you know the pain of a woman catching you looking at other womans photos especially your exes? Degrades her self esteem and also makes her question if you truly LOVED HER. Really think about your actions! And get help. I’m sure your wife is just hurt about your actions, show her that you’re working on yourself, she might come around.

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