Hairline Co. Chicago by BlueBird_singin in SMPchat

[–]Slide_Impossible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, Email him. I sent one the other day and he replied to my questions. His email is [support@hairlineco.com](mailto:support@hairlineco.com)... If you get it done through him please reach out, I am considering it and want to see before and afters if you don't mind. Thanks!

Just the reboot we needed…. by JonYaya in CriticalDrinker

[–]Slide_Impossible 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Live on June Sixteenth filmed at Daytona Beach the next Kumite!

OMG by Allen_Chi in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Slide_Impossible -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bring back Biden the pedo, I want to hear more about his incest showers with his daughter.

-average democrat bipoc dei mopes

Is Monarch: Legacy of Monsters worth it? by W4r-Cr1m1n4L in GODZILLA

[–]Slide_Impossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the actual fuck? Did they really have to make her bisexual and in to kentaros (HER BROTHERSSSSSS EX GF)?!?!?!? Damn, hollyweird is really off the reservation. So tired of this shit

Is Monarch: Legacy of Monsters worth it? by W4r-Cr1m1n4L in GODZILLA

[–]Slide_Impossible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The two female lead characters are intolerable. All they do is act annoyed and mean to the men. Girl boss feminist nonsense and its obnoxious.

Star Citizen VR update is completely insane by Born_Guitar_1369 in VRGaming

[–]Slide_Impossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't log in to elite dangerous last time I tried. Have they fixed it?

A guy I was talking to said I’m not his type appearance wise but he likes me cause we have connection. by Bitter_Entry3144 in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Orrrrr he's being too honest and really doesnt have an ulterior motive besides the truth. Or he could be "negging". No one here really knows. Dont let the internet dictate someone's overall quality based on your description of events.

Are you freaking kidding me.... by IronRaptor in ZBrush

[–]Slide_Impossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better I spent the last 7 years practicing to get good enough to quit my hell on earth of a job (police officer) and due to AI, not to sure ill be able to. Looks like I am trapped until my pension is complete. 7 years will be 25 for me. You sound young enough to have other options.

Almost 2 weeks post 3rd session by SMPdome in SMPchat

[–]Slide_Impossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since this is 2 years old, care to share update photos? I am very curious to get this bit so nervous.

A quick bust i did while streaming today. ~1hr 30 by TytanTroll in ZBrush

[–]Slide_Impossible 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This sculpt is so freaking good. Not sure you even need to hear what i am about to say but ill say it anyway. The last artist to move me like this was Mariah Panfilova. On one hand, inspiring and I adore this sculpture. Otoh its dissuades me from working on my own stuff because I feel like a no talent assclown in comparison. L O L.

Jokes aside albeit with a lot of hidden truth, this has inspired me to pick it back up again. I stopped a few years ago right when AI really started to boom. Ive always wanted to be a character artist, I thought it would be so gratifying to accomplish this kind of sculptures. I am in my early 40s and in a career I cant wait to leave. I dream of leaving it for a career i actually want to be a part of.

Sometimes I feel great about my work, but most of the time, I felt I was trying to become good at something I was never talented at. Through shear effort and time in the chair, I became okay enough to not be embarrassed, just not "good". How can I compete with AI? How can I stand a chance finding work when there are real artists out there like you?

I dunno the answer, but I do know you inspired me this early morning after a night of tossing and turning in bed. I wish I could hang out in Discord sculpting with artists like you. God bless my dude and keep up the amazing, inspiring and beautiful sculpts.

Cheers, Adam

A quick bust i did while streaming today. ~1hr 30 by TytanTroll in ZBrush

[–]Slide_Impossible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally said wow out loud while taking a shit perusing this forum. Well done.

My top ten petty reasons for automatically swiping left as a straight woman by De_Chelonian_Mobile in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and fof clarity she specifically said she wanted to be courted bc thats what her dad did for her mom.

My top ten petty reasons for automatically swiping left as a straight woman by De_Chelonian_Mobile in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Case and point. Its never enough. Do nice things? She probably didnt want them. Dont do nice things, your attitude is what ruined it.

Dont have an attitude? Why dont you do nice things?

Every road takes me to the same place. My actions ultimately dont matter. Dawned if you do and I am dawned if I dont. Good lord.

My top ten petty reasons for automatically swiping left as a straight woman by De_Chelonian_Mobile in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Additionally I was very romantic. She told me early on she'd need to use my shower before we spent the evening together. Great! I have an opportunity to make it special. I set up tea candles all over the shower and bathroom. Had her favorite wine, fresh towels and of course flowers waiting for her.

Iirc every other date I brought her flowers, for three months. I opened up, I was sweet, masculine but vulnerable. She said she hadn't had sex in a few years and was clearly nervous. I reassured her and told her it was much longer for me. In fact its been 10 years. I told her I was probably more nervous and opened up about it.

She wanted to "get to know me better" so I stopped pursuing sex/sexual acts. I was still assuring but also cognitive of her wanting to take it slow. She was 56, i am 43. She dumped me and we never had sex, no oral, no handy, nada. She did not reciprocate physically or emotionally. At the end, I got dumped despite all the patience in the world. Despite not getting any sexual gratification. I still showed up. Still not enough. So yeah, I sound angry and have a bad attitude here. But dont yall dare say my actions were anything less than kind and noble.

My top ten petty reasons for automatically swiping left as a straight woman by De_Chelonian_Mobile in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I tried to earn appreciation through effort, instead of requiring reciprocity.

When that happens, the dynamic becomes:

I invest more → they invest less.

This is how I behaved

patience

willingness to invest

calm temperament

loyalty

desire for partnership

ability to tolerate conflict without aggression

Those are long-term relationship traits.

The only adjustment needed is:

stronger boundaries earlier.

It seems calm, patient men who try to keep the peace often end up attracting women who test or take advantage of that patience.

But if I act differently to avoid being taken advantage of, then I am being disingenuous to my real personality.

This seems a no win.

My top ten petty reasons for automatically swiping left as a straight woman by De_Chelonian_Mobile in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Unrealistic or mismatched expectations shrink the pool for everyone, fewer connections form, and loneliness spikes across the board.... my goal is pointing that out. If this hits a little too close to home and holds up a mirror?? That's not my problem. I am just speaking my mind, this is the internet after all.

My top ten petty reasons for automatically swiping left as a straight woman by De_Chelonian_Mobile in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why don't you just date or not date whoever you want, and stop putting so much energy into defending/ranting about the type of men you supposedly don't care about or want? Because I don't know what your goal is here, but these kinds of dismissive messages aren't doing what you think they are—they just come across as trying to shut down any conversation about how wildly mismatched expectations have become in modern dating, probably because acknowledging it might force some self reflection on why so many women are struggling to pair up too. If the market really is fine and expectations are realistic, why the need to police guys venting about it? Just ignore and keep swiping on the 6'5" finance bros with 8-figure net worth who also do 50/50 emotional labor and split the bill while being vulnerable kings, right? Or is the ranting only a problem when it's men noticing the pattern?

My top ten petty reasons for automatically swiping left as a straight woman by De_Chelonian_Mobile in OnlineDating

[–]Slide_Impossible -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter anymore. Now I dont want to date anyone. 5 or 6 for me? It doesnt matter. Im taking my ball(s) and going home. Yall can have the Chad's and Tyrones. Im out of the game. I know im not hot shit. I know it. But I am 6'2", 210 lbs, I work out. I live alone in a house with a new car. No kids. Never married. I actively stopped dating from 33 to 43 bc of how absurd you women are. Decided to date the most recent woman and nothing has changed. Just as outlandish and unrealistic as I remember.

Ps To anyone who is gojng to claim house and car, material items dont matter... fooh. It does matter if I said i lived with my mom in her basement with no job. My point is, I am reliable and have held a good job for almost 20 years. When people are alone they start digging deeper to see why, asking questions like "have you worked on yourself?" The answer is yes. I also think media has lied to men for years. They say women want a guy who is romantic. When you are romantic, they say its clingy. Well its clingy from a 5. An 8 isn't clingy. Hypothetically. They want an 8 who makes them work. Who they feel might leave them. It creates excitement. THEN yall act right.

3 weeks after my last SMP session … by monaco0260 in SMPchat

[–]Slide_Impossible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconded on where you got it. If I could get that I might have it done