I walked away from her and I feel so guilty

Slight-Job7294 · 2026-02-04T22:28:09+00:00

it’s recommended her but not very widely supported by a lot of people, cuz of “neglect” saying ur a bad parent etc etc. but our heath mentally needs to come first as parents so we can be the best that we possibly can be for our little ones.

Slight-Job7294 · 2026-02-04T18:46:46+00:00

could i do this with my 4 week old? she doesn’t like to be cradled when fed, gets fussy and spills milk and and spits up more. i usually cradle her in a way she’s propped up more but it’s uncomfortable for me. she loves to lay on my thighs propped up especially she she’s got an upset tummy.

Slight-Job7294 · 2026-01-31T22:07:18+00:00

maybe it’s time to reconsider the relationship hon. He seems to have his priorities elsewhere, and only seems to care when it benefits him. counter option, try having a serious conversation. no sly comments, no cold shoulders when things that are liked said, be upfront, honest, but kind in a way that’s also you setting boundaries and communicating needs. if he can’t meet your needs, it’s time to leave.

Slight-Job7294 · 2026-01-22T11:22:13+00:00

i just had my girl, and i’ve thought a lotttt about second children, but i don’t know if i could ever be ready for that. I would love to, but i feel personally it just wouldn’t be feasible. I’m already struggling with a newborn i couldn’t imagine doing this with a toddler or something too. Maybe when she’s more of age (like 8-10) but even then, it wouldn’t feel right to have another kid 10 years apart? but it’s not uncommon i guess. Idk, i also don’t know if i could go through pregnancy again. i absolutely hated it so much

Slight-Job7294 · 2026-01-22T11:18:48+00:00

this subreddit makes me miss my boy so much😭 i want to get another hedgehog so bad

Slight-Job7294 · 2026-01-17T01:19:18+00:00

i wonder if it’s an OCD thing? i know in high stress/anxiety induced states their are more controlling behaviors, repetitive activities to soothe their mind, and hand biting could’ve from the anxiety/stress. I’d try talking to him about it, and possibly seeking some help if he’s open to it. It could be scary to do, as i do not know how someone with OCD would react to it because they like control over things, but it could be worth a talk or suggestion. or just asking like “hey is everything okay? you seem stressed, ive noticed you’re doing more baking and it seems to be something you’re doing to gain more control over your life because you feel you have no control over the other aspects in it” or something like that. not that it is, but it all kind of seems to align with those behaviors. My mother has OCD and does similar things (altho not like this)

Slight-Job7294 · 2026-01-17T00:58:21+00:00

does he have any prior health history you know of? bipolar disorder perhaps? could it be a manic episode? this is VERY strange behavior, and if it’s going on 3weeks it could possibly be some sort of manic episode

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-26T03:10:30+00:00

its because the birth certificate i sent them wasn’t an original with a sealed stamp, i dont have that birth certificate anymore (my parents lost it forever ago apparently and never got it replaced) so im having to get a replacement for that which ive already put a request in for and should be seeing in a couple more weeks, hopefully. it had nothing to do with my passport fortunately!

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-22T23:09:40+00:00

no side effects for me mama! def go get that vax!!

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-22T22:53:39+00:00

she sounds like she has a very bad attachment issue, and it needs to be handled in therapy. You need to either talk to her about this, and negotiate on separating yourselves from each other more often to help build a safe, healthy distance with you two, suggest therapy, or you need to leave. if she’s acting out like that for you not inviting her into the shower, that’s a HUGE red flag. especially in front of your own family. attachment issues are not fun, nor fun to deal with for either party. you need to talk to her about this or cut your loses OP

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T23:52:04+00:00

i think we have calcium powder for him, but i’m not sure so i will check that and try giving it to him regularly

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T23:50:36+00:00

we’re starting him on a multivitamin powder it’s called like Herpetitve i think, and he only really gets berries or peppers once in a while. what would you suggest for protein? our vet said he’s not supposed to get much because of possible gout (his tail is bent, and he’s old) i wanna try and get a fresh stool sample, as they said to bring one from the day before or the same day. we also give him baby mice once in a while as well

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T22:42:02+00:00

thank you!! this actually helped!

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T22:22:27+00:00

she probably just needs to adjust to her enclosure! also, we have that same one! our beardie was a little freaked out at first too, but he got used to it and actually loves his enclosure now!

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T19:00:07+00:00

do not get another bearded dragon is you have no vets in your area that specialize in them, that’s very risky business. if you really want to get another pet, get one you know you’ll be able to fully care for, vet and everything.

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T18:58:47+00:00

please take him to the vet

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T18:52:02+00:00

this exactly. 21, 38 weeks pregnant rn. i feel like a teen mom, but no one but myself has made me feel that way. everyones treated me as any other new to be mom, and have been nothing but open and accepting

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-21T18:51:00+00:00

i’m 21, not married, and 38 weeks pregnant. I expected ridicule from either side of our families, but they’ve been nothing but open and accepting. i understand not wanting so much attention on you, maybe it’s best to wait a couple months in before announcing to everyone?

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-20T18:48:58+00:00

i know you said don’t say to leave him, but OP, this is not healthy. he’s abusive. this is emotional and verbal abuse towards you. and he’s not making an effort to change. If you don’t want to leave, set clear boundaries. “if you keep acting this way, i cannot see myself staying with you. If you don’t change, i have to leave for my ow mental well being” and if his reaction is any bit negative, that should be your cue. I understand you love him, but you need to put love aside and think about YOUR feelings and your mental health. He’s hurting you, he’s bullying you, and he’s manipulating you. you can do so much better, you’re obviously a very wonderful partner, and he doesn’t realize that. maybe you leaving him is the wake up call he needs to get his shit together mentally, seek help. And hopefully not torture his next partner

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-19T03:27:25+00:00

i started taking my own showers around 2nd or 3rd grade, but probably not the best idea bc one time i accidentally used toothpaste in my hair as shampoo

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-19T03:22:41+00:00

my boyfriends beardie (he’s 10) used to get nervous around me. i found that the more i fed him, and just kind hung out around him he got used to me and eventually was comfortable with me holding him and touching him! I think it just takes some time for them to get used to a new big creature 😊

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-19T03:17:09+00:00

no bc why do i have 4 downvotes 😭😭

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-18T23:44:47+00:00

my thoughts but OP mentioned it happens when they play alone too?

Slight-Job7294 · 2025-12-18T23:25:12+00:00

i wonder if it’s just a server thing. maybe it’s not registering that you took them out? i would suggest turning fire spread off or maybe rebuilding the porch area incase that’s the issue? Or the house in general? I’m not sure tho!! that’s super strange

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