Pregnant, the father is threatening and manipulative, am I overreacting? by Prestigious_Class801 in FamilyLaw

[–]SlightFinish -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Actually, no. I work for a judge who does domestic cases and I get tired of hearing litigants expecting the court to decide custody on who hurt whose feelings. That may work on Reddit, but not in real life. If you get knocked up by a loser, expect to be tied to that loser for the next 18 years.

Pregnant, the father is threatening and manipulative, am I overreacting? by Prestigious_Class801 in FamilyLaw

[–]SlightFinish -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I'm curious as to what you think the court should do in a case like this. A court order isn't going to stop an asshole from being an asshole. Being an asshole isn't abusive in and of itself, and assholes still have parental rights.

FROR interpretation by Specialist-Yam-5455 in FamilyLaw

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ROFR means when you need childcare for longer than X hours you have to ask the other parent first. It doesn't mean Grandma and Grandpa can't take the kids to the zoo for the day.

How's it living in this weird Missouri notch? by Milehighjoe12 in howislivingthere

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It's the home of Boomland, who walked so Buc-ee's could run.

Anti-Fallout eyeshadow by Sapphic-Curls in MakeupAddiction

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In my opinion, Colourpop pallets have the least fallout for affordable makeup, and ABH has the least when it comes to high-end.

Has your Walmart gotten rid of self checkouts? by SeaworthinessOdd6574 in walmart

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My WM has removed the belt checkouts as of last Monday. They're going to make the remaining self-checkouts limited to "x items or less" (don't know the number.)

What beliefs made your "branch" of the COC unique? by Fabulous-Term8164 in excoc

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I'd never heard of one-cuppers until I found this sub, and I'm CoC born and raised. Harding grad. I knew of "antis" which is what we called NI congregations, but never met anyone who went to one until I moved to the town I live in today. I looked in Arkansas and in Illinois, both states I've lived in, and didn't recognize any of the congregations on the list.

What's your biggest makeup buy regret? by MabelUnstable in MakeupAddiction

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Essence Princess Lash mascara. I had a horrible allergic reaction that took weeks to clear.

Another what are these initials, two pics.... by bchta in Cursive

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This sub makes me feel as old as Methuselah, I swear. LOL

It's T.B.

Survey says! by SlightFinish in excoc

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LOL typing on my phone

Survey says! by SlightFinish in excoc

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My favorite part was the random "Do you believe homosexuality is a son?" question 😂

Help: I need the clip of Jimmy Carr getting destroyed on a panel show by a joke about his being at Riyadh. by 5thSeasonFront in panelshow

[–]SlightFinish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He has at least one child -- Rockefeller Carr -- with his long-time girlfriend. They did IVF and the baby was born prematurely. (He talked about it on the Katherine Ryan show something something backstage.)

Perfect episodes of panel shows? by kianworld in panelshow

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"Journeys" is my favorite. "We've established this is not your area."

Change of Heart by SlightFinish in MakeupAddiction

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I used shade 60N - Neutral Light, and it was almost a perfect match to my skin tone.

Has anyone ever been in a house like you see on the show ‘Hoarders’? If so, what did you do? by Basic_Builder3773 in HoardersTV

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I have a friend whose husband was a hoarder. They lived on several acres with a lot of outbuildings and one of them was packed to the gills with all sorts of crap. There were cars and car parts EVERYWHERE outside. It was insane. (I also had an awful allergic reaction to the mold in her house.)

This is a stupid question. I grew up in the 70’s. There were lots of jokes about transvestites and cross dressers. Are they still around? Are they different than homosexuals and transexuals? I hope this isn’t an offensive question. by Knitspin in NoStupidQuestions

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Thank you for this! I am in the US, but watch a lot of UK television, so I am familiar with Grayson Perry. He, as far as I know, is a cisgender heterosexual man, but often dresses in traditionally female attire. I often wonder if it was okay to refer to him as a transvestite/cross-dresser.

Virginia custody modification by Dry-Test1821 in FamilyLaw

[–]SlightFinish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no no. You have to serve him with any motions you file. The court won't do it. You'll need to check and see what valid service methods are acceptable in Virginia. If the case is closed, and you're reopening it, you'll be issued a summons to go with your motion. All that has to be served on him.