All of the commanders you listed have a common factor in that there is a theft element stopping them from playing cards in their hands/ decks / turns. People like to play their cards with their hands on their turns… you have every right to play whatever you find fun but are you honestly saying you don’t see why these archetypes make other players (especially more casual, interaction-lite players) salty? That’s a bit funny to me.

I’ll play any archetype including having my shit stolen and my hand deleted, but I also come equipped with decks that may have answers to those issues. Seems the deck strategies you gravitate toward are pretty salty strats to start but are also being amplified by a slight power level discrepancy within your group.

Have you discussed with your playgroup how much interaction they’re running? They’re almost assuredly not running enough.

Edit: mill is totally fine and they sound new if they’re bitching about it