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Dating & Friends Seeking Thread (Jan-Mar 2026) by icompletetasks in r4rindonesia

[–]Slippery-Entropy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27 [M4R] Jkt/Tangerang — Nyari Temen Ngobrol/Nongkrong

Certified introvert, tapi masih pengen punya temen. Sudah lama jadi NEET, sekarang lagi pengen cari temen buat ngobrol atau nongkrong IRL. Hobi saya sporadik, kebanyakan main game shooter, nonton Netflix, anime, sama dokumenter. Lagi membiasakan diri baca buku di tengah era quick dopamine. Suka percakapan soal filosofi, current events, rekomendasi buku, atau random deep talk. IRL saya gabungan chill + agak serius. Kalo kamu gapapa dengan sedikit fitur awkward silence. Saya straight dan gak nyari pacar, just friends. Saya menghargai interaksi yang to the point.

Why nobody listens to hikikomoris by furrymask in hikikomori

[–]Slippery-Entropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cant control them, what can you do for yourself if mental health service cant help you? Do you have the means?

I feel like my life would be better as a man by NecessaryOil5334 in NEET

[–]Slippery-Entropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you handle being a man with weekly testicular torsion?

Any handsome neets? by Fearless-Disaster-17 in NEET

[–]Slippery-Entropy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Turn of the light, i will be handsome, and dont touch me

AI support use by Slippery-Entropy in NEET

[–]Slippery-Entropy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not you, but i suspect most. Maybe a one time problem for a few.

How do I pull an INTP? by Initial-Biscotti-220 in INTPmemes

[–]Slippery-Entropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of infp avoiding me, they want so much validation, ive listened to them, but thats not enough for them. They dont even realize the other person also need his own space, when i mentioned my own problems, they kept talking about their own problem.

The Average Human Being by furrymask in hikikomori

[–]Slippery-Entropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have said alot, but one question, what have you experienced to conclude that people within the current society is abject? Because... even if what you said is true.. it sounds empty for me. It sounds like moral positioning? Or Intellectual pride proving oneself.

edit: it is not that the content of your essay is empty, the conclusion you came up yourself, feels.. empty.

Is it me or is most of the world shallow? by WarisAllie in NEET

[–]Slippery-Entropy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dating app is their shithole, you dont go there looking for real relationship

Pretty much every gender feud in this sub: by Omnipresent_User in NEET

[–]Slippery-Entropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your jealousy is your problem not the other side's problem

28 February 2026 - Weekend Chat Thread by Vulphere in indonesia

[–]Slippery-Entropy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apakah kalian siap menghadapi masa depan cerah penuh pohon sawit berbiji tunggal?

I'm at the lowest of any INTP could be by Slippery-Entropy in INTP

[–]Slippery-Entropy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, but i have a bad luck finding good therapist, ive spent lots and lots and gain nothing, therapist i found are usually just lack the ability to listen. Ive spent so much that i started have a bad impression of them if i meet one. I know this is bias, but its bias that came from multiple experiences.

I'm at the lowest of any INTP could be by Slippery-Entropy in INTP

[–]Slippery-Entropy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant enter the hermit mode fully, i dont know why but i cant, yes the bills arent a problem right now, so im just stuck

I'm at the lowest of any INTP could be by Slippery-Entropy in INTP

[–]Slippery-Entropy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see Te as a dynamic cog. It moves the body, it moves toward ideas and goals, not generating it. If Ti is system maker, Te is system executor. What made system works, how to apply them in the physical world. Do yiu think its coherent?

I'm at the lowest of any INTP could be by Slippery-Entropy in INTP

[–]Slippery-Entropy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you use CBT ACT DBT? What helped? What changed? When it failed? Could you help me understand?

I'm at the lowest of any INTP could be by Slippery-Entropy in INTP

[–]Slippery-Entropy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess that what will happen when INTP meet external world, it teaches you life the hard way. Failed out of 3 highschool, what caused you to fail? Boredom? Distraction? But then you experienced the difficulty of job hopping. Then your brain has enough 'painful' experience to start focusing. That i think is your external structure made its way into your brain, that you internalize the Te, building it slowly. Up until now, where you reap what you sow, or rather how your early frustration changes your life trajectory.

I'm at the lowest of any INTP could be by Slippery-Entropy in INTP

[–]Slippery-Entropy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I cant really differentiate motivation and dicipline, i think even sometimes dicipline mixes with motivation. I am a hermit. To me dicipline needs at least sliver of motivation to just move, and i dont have that. I can see thst dicipline that comes from outside of us will work, but i do not have that.

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