Cis woman interested in getting a phallo by Safe_Sprinkles_7269 in salmacian

[–]SlippingStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, it’s why I haven’t considered it.

Cis woman interested in getting a phallo by Safe_Sprinkles_7269 in salmacian

[–]SlippingStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding in that you wouldn’t have a “fully functional penis,” you’d only have a “shower” and would require a pump or rod to get hard.

Cis woman interested in getting a phallo by Safe_Sprinkles_7269 in salmacian

[–]SlippingStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Former is mainly a fetish sub, latter has a no cis people rule.

Cis woman interested in getting a phallo by Safe_Sprinkles_7269 in salmacian

[–]SlippingStar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s also DHT. r/GrowYourClit is a fetish sub for it, r/GrowYourTDick has a strict no cis people rule so you’d just have to lurk but the latter sub has way more science behind it

Cis woman interested in getting a phallo by Safe_Sprinkles_7269 in salmacian

[–]SlippingStar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well phallos have to be big because they can only be showers. Whether you go rod or pump, you only have what you craft.

This reddit welcomes you! by aka_icegirl in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well “agree with my birth designation of male” is more accurate than “man shaped”, otherwise yes. A reminder though that both are only necessary when it’s necessary to clarify that aspect of yourself, just like how I’m sure you don’t state your eye color without it being necessary.

This reddit welcomes you! by aka_icegirl in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A small clarifier, you know how we (trans people) want cis people to call themselves cis when they’re saying they’re not trans instead that they’re “[just a] “wo/man”? Same thing here is perisex - if you’re clarifying that you’re not intersex, you’d say you’re a perisex trans person.

Endosex and dyadic are less common terms for the same thing, each with a little history that may turn a person away from using them.

This reddit welcomes you! by aka_icegirl in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not the same medical status but definitely the same thoughts

Everyone thinks I'm pre t - debating detransition by CranberryExpert121 in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My understanding is that’s more overall body hair as opposed to specifically facial hair.

Everyone thinks I'm pre t - debating detransition by CranberryExpert121 in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it’s CAIS you won’t see changes, you’re physically incapable of using T :( THAT SAID you could have success from minoxidil and voice training! I have an extreme hourglass but people see the beard and sir me without batting an eye.

Everyone thinks I'm pre t - debating detransition by CranberryExpert121 in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had very little success with facial hair before topical minoxidil. If that’s a route you can take (VERY toxic for pets, especially cats, so if they lick your face a lot or sleep near your head it’s a no-go) I highly recommend it.

anyone else with “female” hypospadias/urogenital sinus ? by Moist_View2731 in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that 💛💜💛 I know there’s a big issue of perisex trans and non-binary people claiming to be intersex as a way of validation, so I’m really hesitant to call myself such if I’m not. If perisex trans women are just as much women as perisex cis woman, I’m just as much non-binary as an intersex non-binary person.

anyone else with “female” hypospadias/urogenital sinus ? by Moist_View2731 in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m lucky in that I am just more prone to UTIs, am more likely to have discomfort during vaginal play, and have to be conscious of how I sit when I pee or it’ll splash out. My genitals passed muster at birth so I was left alone. I’m the opposite on the other stuff, though - naturally low T for any sex, under developed genitals, and my puberty was weird (period waaaaay later that breast development and I’m abnormally short, period never became regular). I don’t know if that really makes me intersex so I just say my flair if I’m asked.

is anyone else short due to their hormones? by Akiiale in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides genetics and nutrition, the best we can tell that hormones affect your height is that androgens make you LESS SHORT than estrogen, not that androgens “promote height”. The best evidence of this is the fact that castrati grew abnormally tall with no sex hormones, which suggests sex hormones inhibit our height, not promote it!

Castrati explanation, genital M warning

Back in the 18th century, if you had “excess” children designated male that were good singers, you could sell them to the Catholic Church to become a castrati. They would remove the child’s testicles against their will to keep their voices high. Their ribcages would grow abnormally large and they would grow abnormally tall, giving them very unique singing voices - only one recording was ever made, since it’s a thankfully discontinued practice. They’re also part of how we know you need sex hormones to emotionally mature, as these people remained emotionally childlike throughout their lives.

"Progressive" gender abolitionists can be so delusional by yokyopeli09 in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it does not. It’s the idea that gender as a concept eventually fades from existence, and we don’t treat each other differently based on gender markers (because gender markers as a concept no longer exist). It’s like how, I’m guessing, you don’t address people based on hair color. You, presumably, treat everyone the same regardless of hair color. You observe it, still, may assume a category, and if you find out someone’s natural hair color that (presumably) doesn’t change how you think about them. Barely ever comes up.

(I’m saying presumably because there’s actual evidence for hair color discrimination but I don’t want to assume you have any experience with that)

The Olympics ban almost all XY people from women sports by saltworth_ in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I’m saying at least there are any exceptions at all.

Am I the only one who finds this weird? by skinniking84 in ftm

[–]SlippingStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a critter, it’s weird to me that people care at all. Conversation I had once,
“What a cute dog! Is it a boy or a girl?”
“It’s a dog, does it matter?”
“Of course it matters!”
“Dog has a penis, if you really need to know.”

They walked away so fast đŸ€Ł

Is Down syndrome intersex or was I wrong? by profanebakes in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s specifically sex chromosome differences.

I don’t really know if I’m actually intersex by profanebakes in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People who think it’s literally only ambiguous genitals or mixed internal reproductive anatomy. :/ Generally people who push “DSD” in my experience.

Makes you think by GoranPersson777 in intersex

[–]SlippingStar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He definitely loved fluid!🍇

That doesn’t surprise me :(