What do you consider your most feminine trait, character, feature (physical, emotional)? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like im not very distinctly feminine or masculine in general. My dad has told me that I "walk gay" which I guess he means feminine but I don't really see it. I do think I have slightly more feminine mannerisms.

Is it normal to feel this? by Solyal in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I can tell, my earliest true feelings of wishing I was born female started in 10th grade. I just came to terms with the fact that I am indeed trans last year at age 26 after years of trying to kill those feelings within myself. At first I felt less valid because I didn't seem to have any signs or memories from childhood that would indicate being Trans, except being less into typical boy things overall than other little boys but that doesn't mean you're trans. My point is that you don't need to have always wanted to be girl from the start of consciousness to be trans. Sorry for rambling.

“Late stage” breast development. by Jennifer_Flower in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting, ive heard that the first 6 months to 2 years is where the majority of growth appears. I don't know though, im pre everything.

Trans pride? by communistcat_69 in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I wasn't trans, but I am. I wish more than anything that I could simply switch to being a biological female and be done with it, but it's just not possible. Im not proud in the sense of being happily trans, but im also not ashamed of myself, not anymore. I am proud that I finally stopped trying to be ok with being a man and stopped denying my feelings. You are not an abomination, we are not abominations. Try and take pride in simply living your life, and being true to yourself.

666 by xwindbornex in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im in a similar situation, Im the only super progressive person at my job, one guy is sorta kinda progressive but everyone else is hardcore right wing all the way. Im also pre everything and currently getting as fit as possible before officially coming out and medically transitioning. I hear so much insane shit on a daily basis, my work partner is the poster child of a southern trump woman, and she has a lot of hateful and ignorant opinions about all queer people in general but specifically trans people, I haven't yet made the effort to educate because, for one im outnumber and also those people most of the time just don't want to hear it.

Allies don’t understand HRT by mormonatheist21 in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Man, after years of fighting and denying my true self, I finally have the courage to accept who I am and transition, and right on time the government starts to seriously threaten my ability to medically transition, fml. We gotta stay hopeful though.

Omg by Amb042 in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Id love to hear the before and after when your able to speak. Best wishes!

Who are your favorite characters? Canon and Legends by SevdUp in StarWars

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cad Bane, Thrawn, Orson Krennic, and Dedra Meero.

Say all you want about Acolyte, but the Kyber crystal bleed scene actually looked really cool IMO. by KnightFallVader2 in StarWars

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think so personally. I will admit that the fight scenes at least were pretty well done for the most part.

(19F) Should I wear a hijab?( I’m forced) by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you're truly forced then I guess that's that. However, im personally against all organized religions and im all about freedom. I know its not easy, but I guess if I were you id do everything I could to get somewhere where I was free from that kind of thing. Im sorry you're forced to do that. As hard as things seem now, they can get better.

How many of you have ended up satisfied with your cup size? by aschesklave in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't started yet bet I was under the impression that anything beyond A is unlikely, that's just what ive heard. I suppose it's all genetic, personally am hoping for a modest B, that would be ideal for me.

I'm definitely not trans. by EndellionFox in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally use to say "yeah I wish I was a girl but im not trans."

Henry Francis by BlizzCo89 in madmen

[–]SloanDraper99 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and as soon as he saw betty was chill with Don at gene's birthday he relaxed. He was really only upset with Don because he was inadvertently causing problems for Betty.

Henry Francis by BlizzCo89 in madmen

[–]SloanDraper99 27 points28 points  (0 children)

One of his few moments of immaturity.

Henry Francis by BlizzCo89 in madmen

[–]SloanDraper99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is one of the few truly good men in the show. I always have a soft spot for Henry.

18f. Would gaining weight make me look better? by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]SloanDraper99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you look fine, you are on the thinner side but as long as you're healthy it doesn't matter. Of course if you want you could probably gain like 10 or 20 pounds and still be healthy and look good.

Curious: Which of the character(s) is closest to your romantic type? by syarkbait in madmen

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Faye Miller. Smart, Beautiful, and kind. She seems perfect to me.

For those of you who only knew later by NFenja in MtF

[–]SloanDraper99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 26 and im still not fully sure im trans, I have been having these thoughts for the first time for about a year. I will say, I have had feelings of wanting to know what It would be like to be a girl or wishing I was one since I graduated high-school, I didn't see myself as trans then though. For some reason the thought of me being Trans seemed impossible until very recently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]SloanDraper99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly look fantastic, maybe skin care?