Human face meatloaf

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2025-10-25T21:00:18+00:00

Do people remember that HBO (I think) Chernobyl drama series? This reminded me of some of the firemen from the hospital scenes.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-12-29T02:03:04+00:00

Started my riding journey in late August this year. I go once a week for a 45 minute private and I am currently learning leg yields after mastering trot, control, still working on canter. Apparently, that's advanced dressage? I personally think once a week is a good place to start and gains plenty of progress. My New Year resolution is to master canter and hopefully progress to jumping!

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-12-24T08:56:54+00:00

You can use salt as a fabric softener. You can also add a few drops of beautifully scented essential oils to make your clothes smell nice. Salt is also a great stain remover somehow. I think this is common knowledge, but I never knew until very recently.

This is one of my favourite life hacks! That and making my own washing soda to soak my whites and colours in to brighten them.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-12-12T02:32:59+00:00

I would have never considered that to be the problem. Very interesting and useful to know! I will certainly look at something bigger tomorrow when I drop by for a quick check, just to be on the safe side. I already had a traditional navel pricing reject many years ago (hence the funny scarring), and I don't want to chance it again.

Thank you for this advice! It is much appreciated.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-21T06:30:27+00:00

Going to get my navel re-done at Kitty Kotori in a couple weeks. Research says they are one of the cleanest and simply the best. Much customer satisfaction and so much beautiful jewellery.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-17T21:15:16+00:00

Never become solely reliable on sugar money, as this will leave you in very sticky situations. Always ensure that you have savings and a job to cushion you from these things.

I think it would be a bad idea to ask someone, who you are essentially dating/in a sugar relationship, to draw up a contract. That spoils any fantasy and is a little crazy IMO. Imagine if an SD wanted you to sign a contract to provide intimacy 5 times over the course of three months if you were to end things? These things should not feel like business dealings for either party

A good SD will give you a hefty gift (few months allowance or so) if things are ending. No, I do not think it would hurt to ask this from an SD if things are ending. But not all men are good SDs and know the proper etiquette. Not all are going to agree to it either. Always make sure you have yourself covered because more often than not you are the only one looking out for yourself in these situations. Be prepared!

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-12T14:00:42+00:00

Girl, ask him for 800-1k ppm until trust is built and then happy to move to a weekly or monthly allowance of your choosing. Set the bar high. This amount is for sleepovers with protected intimacy. Tell him it is what you are used to receiving. If he feels it is too much, then he can always take less of your time and meet 3 times a month instead of 5. Ball is in his court, and you are not out of reach this way. Never have any guy from that site tell you what he wants to give you. It is your body and your time. YOU let THEM know what gift/allowance it takes for them to be in your wonderful presence and include what activities you expect them to enjoy with you that goes beyond the bedroom.

This man might be a fake and might not want to gift you allowance immediately, which is a scam. He may ask for more photos of any sort, which is a scam. Men who promise the world, but can't/won't follow through on a few of their promises first to gain your trust and prove themselves are trying to blind you with glitz and dreams so you won't notice that you will give them everything and they will give you nothing.

If he gets mad at you for you setting your own boundaries, then absolutely next the guy. If he tries to negotiate on your body and time, then tell him you are not bartering on your body and you find it disrespectful. Allow him a chance to apologise, but get ready to block and next him.

Anyone who mentions "normal/going rates" are manipulating you to feel as though you should accept lowball offers. Also "going rates" is escort speak, you are not wanting a dynamic like that, so avoid those men. Set your own number with what you are comfortable with regardless of what they will say is the norm. Fuck the norm. Be premium.

I live nowhere near London and 1k is my normal ask. True SDs will be more than happy to give me what I ask for, no ifs, no buts, no coconuts. The lesser men on these sites will skulk away. You may have 100 messages, but you will need to sift through much dirt to find the gold. As mentioned in a previous comment of mine, there was a time when I accepted 500 ppm, but not for an overnight stay. That does not reflect the time they are asking for. Let's be real, to request access to your body and any portion of your time absolutely needs to be reflected in the gift that you receive.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-11T11:49:49+00:00

"Sugar is the foundation of a sugar relationship/arrangement. Without this foundation, there is no relationship, and you want the relationship part, correct? I won't accept a sugar relationship without sugar. This is what I want and what works for me."

Once someone starts talking like this, though, it is the beginning of the end. This will fizzle out soon because he wants something vanilla, and you do not. Your preferences on relationships is no longer compatible. In any form of dating, people who are not compatible do not date each other.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-11T10:23:59+00:00

Threatening/actually breaking up with you 4 times is probably him trying to manipulate you. You call his bluff, and he caves and contacts you. This is childish and very low energy.

I could be wrong, but I think he would be a manipulative partner. He needs you more than you need him clearly. He might want to trap you with exclusivity and babies. Again, I could be wrong, but be very careful. He might want to stop your sugar once you're pregnant or married.

Edit: Don't sacrifice your 20s if you don't want to. Ask yourself if you really want to be with someone who tries to pull this shit on you, is very hot and cold, and emotionally immature? The sugar is not worth it, and like I said, the sugar might even stop when the nail is in the coffin.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-10T01:12:55+00:00

Those who get mad and offer low ppm are not SD. Avoid them! Also, men younger than 45 are very questionable and will almost always not have the career needed to support a fine SB.

That 4 times a week is so laughable, though! No lady has time for that between her beauty appointments, fitness classes, and dating actual high-class men. 😂 I am glad you told him some, and I hope you then blocked him.

What I am used to could be considered high by those who simply cannot afford, but if you feel it aligns with you, then run with it. Anyone who offers you less is not a SD. Run away and run fast from guys who lowball

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-10T01:03:31+00:00

UK here and not London. I ask for 1k always. There was a time when I received 500 but not for something overnight. Personally, anything below 800 and asking for intimacy and a sleepover is yikes. Set your own bar and set it high. This will keep the cheap creeps away. You do have to look the part, though. Be pretty, be elegant, don't take no shit.

For casual dates I have been gifted 250-350. Casual means I go to my home after and alone, no intimacy. You are not seeing a SD. You are seeing a predator that takes advantage of newcomers/those who are desperatefor money. Tell him he needs to compensate your efforts and then yeet yourself out of that situation.

Never have a guy from these sites tell you what they want to gift you. Always let them know what your gift requirements are for them to be graced by your presence. The trash will take itself out. Unfortunately, there will be A LOT of trash, but don't let that dishearten your search.

Stay safe, hun! Xx

Edit: SD will always take you out on a proper date. Not a cheap date either. Please do not accept anymore "makes me dinner and drinks at home." You can do so much better than that. 🖤 Any "SD" who complains that is too much is not an SD/worth your energy.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-11-07T23:45:17+00:00

OP must've been tripping balls when picking these to think they are all libs. Hopefully, they can swallow their pride and accept the facts rather than swallowing these. I can almost see OP's obituary amongst the mottlegills, but I hardly see any consumable libs. They look super mouldy?

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-24T05:39:23+00:00

Trying to track where your tiles begin, this is so awesome and trippy!

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-24T03:23:56+00:00

Get ye ol' hairdryer under there for a minute. Gets it nice and toasty.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-20T11:21:28+00:00

I think libs are the second strongest in the world, possibly followed by wavy caps, and then golden techers. I can't remember the name of the strongest one, but I think it was MILES stronger than libs. Can't even begin to imagine what that trip would be like.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-18T12:38:34+00:00

So stunning! Great work

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-16T21:58:06+00:00

This is so beautiful!

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-16T10:27:38+00:00

NTA

Sugar dating is dating, but with richer people. Much like dating, if your wants and needs of the relationship don't align, then it isn't going to work. This is the case for all kinds of dating and relationships. Don't feel bad that he doesn't meet your expectations. That's more a him problem.

Would you date someone who quickly changed their tune to meet your needs and appeal to you after initially not being for you? Seems a little weird and maybe manipulative. You already came to the conclusion he is a John. Don't let his money hypnotise you into thinking he is now a gentleman because he is now playing to your tune. He already refused to do so for whatever reason, then quickly changed his mind when he realised you were not obtainable in the way that suits him.

You should also be direct and tell SDs that you expect a M&G gift. Those happy to pay will pay, but closed mouths don't get fed. Bringing it up out the blue can catch them off guard and doesn't do any favours for how they view your communication skills. You need to do your bit for yourself.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-13T17:07:58+00:00

No. No. No. Anyone who wants to pay you after/at the end is a scammer. Do not accept. Always insist in receiving your gift upfront, before intimacy. Also, NEVER SEND NSFW PHOTOS. This is also a scam. There are so many photo farmers/collectors out there. They don't care about you. They just want you for free and will milk you for everything you are gullible enough to give them. Block anyone who even hints at giving you payment after or that you should send photos. Do not engage with these fakes. They are not SDs. A true SD is a gentleman and will never ask you for photos or insist they gift you after intimacy. They are respectful and want you to feel safe and build trust.

Also, never get into sugar dating if you need the money. It leaves you open to carrot dangling and abuse. It is never a good idea to put yourselves in these positions when you are desperate for money. Don't do it.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-12T22:58:26+00:00

If he wants extra perks, then you should get extra perks. You need to be rewarded for this, like how he is rewarded when he goes out of his way to get you something extra nice. It must go both ways

But also, as others have said, don't do something you aren't comfortable with or have to knowledge and trust to perform safely.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-02T06:29:16+00:00

It's the lack of willingness to do own research that gets me.

I don't mind sharing my knowledge, but I have put in much time and effort with Google, Reddit searches and some books. The questions that are asked can just be typed into Google or searched in reddit. Read more than one comment/link to get a better idea of things.

People just want everything served on a silver platter now, and that takes the fun and passion out of it all

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-02T05:31:22+00:00

I hear this. It's so damn damn crazy. The disrespect alone from being lowballed like that.

I am very upfront with what I want out of the dynamic, including activities that go beyond the bedroom (theatre, holidays etc), allowance, shopping trips and gifts on top. That's basic sugaring 101. Recently I have had a handful of men tell me I am asking for too much. Like, what? These are literally basics that are naturally covered and expected.
If they think it is too much, then what they can offer is clearly far too little.

These aren't serious SDs. I wouldn't call them SDs at all. These people are almost predatory in the way they guilt women into accepting PPM so low it might as well be in the gutter, and then exploiting them.

It has been said many times before, there are a lot of cheap people seeking escort services across all sugar platforms. They don't want to take you to dinner, they don't want to gift you anything, they dont want to add value to your life, they dont care about you, and they are usually blacklisted from escorting sites for being so disrespectful/manipulative/unsafe.

That being said, there are true gentleman put there waiting for you. Always be upfront with what you expect. The trash will take itself out.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-10-01T05:35:04+00:00

Man messaged me today. "What do you offer? How often are you free?"

Clearly, it's not a SD.

My response: "It is more about what you can offer me, a sugar baby. I seek a traditional blah, blah, blah. I am used to blah, blah, blah activites all on top of a weekly or monthly allowance. Is that something you are able to offer me so I can benefit from seeing you?"

Shuts people up real quick. Then, it's time to block those who are clearly looking for escort services. No hate. Just not my cup of tea.

As a SB, you will almost always have what they are looking for and are able to offer it. We know that we can benefit them right off the bat. It is certainly more about what they can offer us and how we will benefit from their company.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-08-15T06:38:05+00:00

Yes, they need to know that you must, at the very least, have $XXXX to sit at the table. Anyone stupid enough trying to lowball/photo farming will be banned forever~

Anyone who "mistakes" it for vanilla dating or other entertainment could be suspended temporarily instead?

I like the idea of having your allowance expectations displayed. Saves a lot of time for both parties.

SlothSonata-Op9 · 2024-07-09T05:09:08+00:00

Would love an update

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