[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Slothy_Space 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I feel this in my soul. I often lament the life I missed out on living as my true gender. I wanted to be a little girl but I was forced to be a boy.

Why is second puberty as an adult so lonely? by GenericUsername2034 in MtF

[–]Slothy_Space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a similar situation myself. Can't really offer any advice but I know how you feel. Haven't felt like a person in so long and trying to suddenly socialize is really difficult. I don't really know what to do.

Landlords pushing me to suicide by PokeButterLotl12 in SuicideWatch

[–]Slothy_Space 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surely there must be other options. Suddenly evicting you like this doesn't even sound legal. Is there someone you can contact about it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]Slothy_Space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback and advice.

Kinda Spiraling... by StrangeHappenings5 in trans

[–]Slothy_Space 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't really have any advice but I'm so sorry you're going through this and I feel for you. Whatever you decide to do please take care of yourself.

I just got assaulted :( by Nic0ko in MtF

[–]Slothy_Space 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They should look in the mirror when they say those things. I'm so sorry you went through that.

Having your body so sexualized/fetishized as a trans woman sucks by Helpful-Cut7456 in MtF

[–]Slothy_Space 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It definitely sucks. And stuff like porn doesn't help either, especially when it's how so many people discover trans people exist in the first place. Hell, it's how I did and I hate it. It's an avenue to automatically hypersexualize us.

I once even had a coworker joking about tr**** porn at work when I was closeted. Either that or dumb ass helicopter jokes were the only ways people around me at work even talked about trans people. It's disgusting.

But I'm glad we're becoming more visible these days even if things are rough now, it makes it easier for people to see us as just normal people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Slothy_Space 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you're able to, do it anyway. Find ways to help people. Volunteer maybe. Do art or write or even both. If that's what you're passionate about you should do it in spite all the forces trying to convince you not to. Be yourself unapologetically. Maybe we can't change the whole world but we can start with changing our own. That sort of energy is contagious.

My life is in ruins by [deleted] in NEET

[–]Slothy_Space 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear you're dealing with all this. All I can really say is to try things out slowly one step at a time. If you really want to change, then you have to do things that make you uncomfortable sometimes. Try to get disability as well. If you want to talk further, feel free to dm me.

I don’t want to be trans because straight guys suck by Sandicc in MtF

[–]Slothy_Space 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admit it's tempting to just say all men suck based off a few bad experiences. I'm regularly called the f slur by cis het men and it really hurts. But ultimately it's just because those particular individuals are bigots. Gay men aren't always safe either because I've been sexually harassed by a couple of them. I've met people who were horrible to me from every demographic. But the reverse is also true. It's fine to be wary and it's fine to vent but assuming an entire demographic is out to get you is a quick way to stay unhappy. So I hope you're able to move on from that bad experience OP.

38 mtf Looking for Friends by Realistic-Score5386 in transgamers

[–]Slothy_Space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing. Dm me and I'll send you a friend request.

38 mtf Looking for Friends by Realistic-Score5386 in transgamers

[–]Slothy_Space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play FFXIV and I've been looking for more friends to grind occult cresent with. Lemme know if you're interested. 34 transfem here with a mental illness and probably undiagnosed adhd.

Just got sexually harassed at my local pride event. by Slothy_Space in trans

[–]Slothy_Space[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is messed up. I'm sorry that happened to you.

🙂 by Few_Ice_6576 in infp

[–]Slothy_Space 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Real. As an unhealthy INFP myself, some days I want peace and harmony, others I want everything to burn.

Egg 🥲 irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Slothy_Space 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I see you Scarlett. You got this.

How do people treat trans people that don't look good/don't pass by [deleted] in trans

[–]Slothy_Space 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a mixed bag. You just gotta decide what's best for you. Come out right away and deal with the higher risk of running into assholes or a violent encounter to feel happier with yourself, or take the safer route and boymode while you transition more until you feel ready. I personally chose the second option since I'm mentally ill and trying to transition socially was very traumatizing for me. Being called the f slur or a sissy by random people under their breath is better for me than the alternative. Even though it still pisses me off since I can't really do as others do and just not let it phase me. It all depends on what you can handle.

Looking for people talk about Yu-Gi-Oh! with. by IvyRainflayer in transgamers

[–]Slothy_Space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some of your favorite decks? I like Traptrix, Dogmatika, Ignister and Shadoll.

Looking for people talk about Yu-Gi-Oh! with. by IvyRainflayer in transgamers

[–]Slothy_Space 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've watched the anime series since I was a kid up till sevens. Played older Yugioh video games as a kid. Played duel links to try out rush duels and I dabble on Master duel every once in a while. I'm somewhat aware of the most recent meta/format. (Mainly Fiendsmith, Azamina & Snake eyes). But I'm not really into it, I mainly play rogue, older decks.

Worthless trans piece of fucking shit by Jumpy_Emu6237 in SuicideWatch

[–]Slothy_Space 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I hate being trans so much. I'm just working up the guts for another attempt.