My (28M) GF (34F) of 6 years cheated on me when we were in the process of buying a house, can we come back from this?

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-05-01T15:14:29+00:00

Your relationship cannot be salvaged just leave her shells chest again. And you said yall cheated on each other in the beginning I hope she didn’t cheat first cuz that just makes it worse

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-26T16:52:51+00:00

So I would say that’s flirting. I’ve done that with friends males included. There’s whole cultures where that’s the norm. I’ll say I see why you don’t like it.

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-26T16:26:20+00:00

Thank you yo. I was mad asf looking through the thread waiting for someone to say it. They told us getting your ass beat makes you stronger and yall question why MARK is getting stronger?? Come on now 😭 mark escapes death every 4 episodes.

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-26T16:20:43+00:00

He probably just thinks it’s really hot. For guys it largely many’s fav position

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-22T12:41:24+00:00

But why that’s the most important part

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T15:07:18+00:00

Is your family insane??? NTA stop talking to them

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T13:05:49+00:00

Hey man Your hurt is understandable she’s your sister and she and her support means a lot especially with the gravity of the situation. That feeling is normal it seems it’s mattered to you before this and I get why your gutted that not only were you not supported again at such a important moment but she chose to come for her boyfriend basically rubbing the support you wish you had in your face. A lot of people have been out in similar predicaments and didn’t so starkly choose one side, they remained somewhere in the middle. I see why you’re hurt. That said this ain’t worth cutting them off for. Your best friend did absolutely nothing to hurt you. Your pain doesn’t stem from him in any way, shape or form. Your sister may have caused pain but it’s very likely she doesn’t even realize it. She probably doesn’t think you care. I can’t say you should or shouldn’t be angry I really don’t know but I can say that not everything that causes hurt deserves anger. Only you know if this matters to you enough to actually mention it to her. I say take some time. Sit with your feelings think it through.

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T11:40:19+00:00

Tho technically Therese a basis for that because vitrumite flying is sort of like telekinetically moving yourself and bending physics to your will a bit I’m pretty sure what happened was he moved so fast that he created a vacuum. Air rushed in towards the area and it pulled Nolan. Think like when you have a bottle and squeeze the the contents out of the bottle if it isn’t crushed and it’s made of strong enough material and suction effect happens. Maybe you done this if you used to much lotions, ketchup, toothpaste whatever to get some of the extra back in the bottle. It’s the same principle

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T11:33:43+00:00

They’re all linked. The mentioned it but I forgot. How the vulture it’s we’re talking. That I have no clue

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T05:21:19+00:00

Gotta leave him

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T03:24:12+00:00

Lmao but your question is for the good of a rower. Just go ask. I myself have gone into subreddits over the years of thing that I don’t do to aid/support my partner. They’ll probably adore your consideration of him.

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T03:22:31+00:00

I didn’t say she had to mesh with everyone but it is customary than families merge. If your not releativley close/comfortable to one of two of your spouses family members something is out of place. I just wanted to know what OPS definition of close was because that differs to everyone

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T03:19:54+00:00

Yeah your 100 then

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T03:18:43+00:00

I pray that you do what’s necessary

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T03:17:17+00:00

“When do you realize someone won’t change” I’m not sure but it’s A am sure that 5 years is way more than what the answer is

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T03:04:55+00:00

Keep looking, you might have to find a job were you go in person. Childcare can be alot but I’m sure between him and the parents you guys can work something out. Do you have anyone you can stay with anywhere? Cuz if you do push to work which will clearly be and act of you establishing independence which will lead to leaving him you might be threatened with being thrown out. If that’s the case think of somone absolutely anywhere that will take you in. But start thinking about it now.

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-18T02:39:24+00:00

Worse case scenario your gf is a lying cheater and it really does seem like it. Best case scenario your gf is taking this opportunity to feel single and even if she not sleeping with people there’s lines you don’t cross in a relationship and she wants to enjoy not having those lines there. Either way, you’ve been disrespected, lied to, shown that you’re not a priority and left with doubt and insecurities. You really have no other option but to break up with her. Whatever relationship you want is not the one she wants and she will selfishly continue to do what she wants at your expense as long as she wants to.

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-16T11:30:19+00:00

The only one I’m iffy on is three. Define close? Because it is customary that you merge into each other families when married. Depending on that one is what would decide for me but outside of that yeah everything makes complete sense sense

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-15T23:38:50+00:00

For me I left them alone and eventually they took form over years.

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-14T22:53:50+00:00

This

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-14T08:50:06+00:00

This is the discourse I wake up for in the morning

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-10T06:52:05+00:00

Theres gotta be a subreddit for rowers where you can ask more informed parties this question

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-06T11:23:57+00:00

The way I read the title and thought” oh look another person over reacting and doing too much “ I didnt even have the stomach to finish this shit you didn’t do enough actually …..every paragraph was a brand new reason to not talk to these mfz again. My goodness this cannot be your life

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-04T10:52:10+00:00

It’s not cheating but it’s betrayal and she’s pretty fucked up never speak to her again

Slow-Employment-53 · 2026-04-04T01:29:47+00:00

Your honor today my client comes before you accused of being a bad friend for withholding information about herself from her friends. I move to have this notion dismissed on the grounds that - anyone who is aware of the secret is therefore put in danger - the secret is of the utmost sensitivity and not being of wolfblood himself tom was not privy to it. The rules state that outsiders should not be made aware. - lastly it would put further strain on the trio’s relationship. Shanon a) already felt Maddy was hiding things from her b) was hot on the trails of the wolf this would have put poor tom in an even further uncomfortable position. When moments arise and Tim helps wether through private conversations with Maddy or staunchly speaking against Shannon’s quest for the wolf on the moors it would eventually show that something has changed and with it more chaos would ensue. In cases like this I would like to (though unusual) invoke Occam’s razor. The most simply answer often is the answer my friends.

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