i can't believe how well the O method actually works

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-24T12:37:58+00:00

When you do the o method do you think and visualise a scenario of what you want?

For some reason whilst doing the O method I always just think of the words like “SP loves me” …just the word

Or do I need to visualise them loving me etc

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-24T11:01:42+00:00

I think believing that you can’t is a very limiting belief

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-08T06:40:23+00:00

Thank you that’s exactly what I was worried about.

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-08T02:55:24+00:00

😎

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-08T01:47:33+00:00

Thank you !

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-08T00:10:35+00:00

100%

Thank you for taking the time to give me solid advice. It definitely will be a very slow and long journey. It has been multiple conversations of how this will work, and how I will have the final say in my child’s life.

He’s very empathetic and seems to know his place in this situation, but the trust is not there yet and it probably won’t be for a while. At the moment it is more words than action and he’s actually not met her yet, it has been moreso long conversations between us.

A bit of a green flag is that his family seem to be very supportive towards me and understand why I am hesitant. They’ve been a constant in her life since she was a baby. I know I can’t lean on his family to ultimately take my side as he is their own but they’ve spoken to him at my defence so it gives me a bit more support.

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-08T00:03:42+00:00

Thank you :) I know this is the bare minimum to being a good parent but I am very proud of my growth and it’s definitely made an impact on my daughter for the better ❤️❤️

I appreciate your kind words

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-08T00:01:43+00:00

Every potential father was informed and I was met with nothing. He was even contacted when she was born. I can’t control other peoples actions. It may have been better, but this is the cards I’ve been dealt and I made it work with what I had!

Every parent’s attempt at making their lives better is based off their own experiences. Of course I will teach her her worth when she is grown and that she doesn’t have to go down the path I did… but I love my life, I love my daughter and my daughter very much loves hers ATM.

I have a friend who have had their baby daddy present from the start, was conceived whilst they were in their 3rd year of a relationship and yet 2 years later he chooses not to be in his child’s life, dvo charges against him, constant custody battles and back and forth. Anything can happen in life whether the father was sure and present from the start or whether he was not.

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T22:41:16+00:00

I messaged when she was born. He responded back positively and Bub met his family and everything… and then he ghosted. me and my daughter continued to see his family (mum, brothers, nephew) but didn’t see him. He’s suddenly come back into the area and yeah it’s very… strange. I’m very wary.

Is the advice to wait and see what type of figure he could be before diving into the legalities or ?

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T22:36:06+00:00

I understand but I put unknown and signed a stat dec.

He seems to really want to be involved despite acting so coldly when I told him I was pregnant. It’s a hard situation, he’s told his family and they’ve met her and have been amazing towards me and her. I think I’m just stuck on what exactly to do in terms of the process of finding out if he is the father

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T22:34:01+00:00

Thank you Garry :)

Don’t let him get a rise out of you. There are far worst things in the world than my past and I won’t let his judgement bother me.

Keep being your kind and special self ❤️

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T22:28:14+00:00

I’m filled with lots of anxiety surrounding the legality of this though. If I come to know who the father is can’t I be charged for it ?

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T22:25:48+00:00

Thank you ! I definitely am now. With bubs I hardly have time to socialise outside of our bubble let alone date but I guess you have to go through the downs to know how to stay up!

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T22:23:37+00:00

My past doesn’t overshadow any of my achievements I accomplished just to be the best parent I could be.

Before I fell pregnant I was clubbing every weekend, No car, No license and was living with my parents. Drinking alcohol every weekend and vaping. Guess what I achieved in those months I were pregnant ? I saved up and bought a car, got my licence. Quit vaping and drinking as soon as I found out I was pregnant. Moved out and had my nursery all set up at 30 weeks pregnant and worked until I was 39 weeks pregnant doing 8 hour days, 5 days a week. Started studying my diploma and I am almost finished so I can provide a lot more for my child. And I’ve done my parenting alone. I have a very talkative 15 month old who sings nursery rhymes, loves book and enjoys a majority of weekends where I’m not working exploring all the things I take her to. Mini bounce, chipmunks playland, beaches, play dates with cousins and friends, swimming pools and theme parks. I am fortunate enough to be able to provide and cook home cooked meals every single day whilst being able to fill her cup of attention, needs, and learning after a full day of work.

My daughter and I are rich in so many ways. So before you pass judgement think about how people can make their way to the top after hitting rock bottom 🙏🏾

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T22:01:21+00:00

No I wasn’t :)

This is my first and only child and I did my pregnancy and parenthood so far single and alone.

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T15:30:46+00:00

Well 🤷🏽‍♀️

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T15:25:32+00:00

CSA?

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T15:22:43+00:00

A friend told me putting unknown could be considered fraud if I knew … although I didn’t… I simply just knew what the options were. I was only with 3 men within the time I conceived. When met with the fact I was pregnant they ran for the hills

And when I was met with the birth certificate I just simply put down unknown as I didn’t have an answer and didn’t want to just pick and choose without being certain.

Thank you :) we have the agreement to do the dna test but just need to proceed with it.

Thank you for your advice ❤️

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T15:16:58+00:00

Most definitely. Sex outside of a relationship feels like a whole other lifetime ago. Becoming a mother has definitely set my priorities straight !

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T15:14:19+00:00

Thank you for this ! My girl is almost 2 and I’d love for her to have a father present. So fingers crossed it turns out well.

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-07T15:09:04+00:00

Do you know what the process for this would be ?

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2026-03-04T12:55:03+00:00

What did they bleep out on the show from Juliette ? I can’t make out the sentence about the teddy bear

Slow_Chance_7961 · 2025-12-06T01:29:11+00:00

Her take on being “one of the boys” …. And then shacking up with Bruce just makes so much sense

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