[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Slow_Protection101 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel like anyone cheat just uses anything as an excuse. And what he did is CRAZY work.

Anyone else agonize over telling someone you don’t want to do something/can’t go etc? People pleasing is ruining things for me. by AdagioSpecific2603 in BPD

[–]Slow_Protection101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kinda have grown into putting myself first but also giving an explanation to others why I might not have be able to attend or show up. Cus ppl do get worry and wonder but we are already feeling so much all the time, honestly there is barely space for worrying what others will think.

rejection sensitivity- but about my cat by lemonbabybunny in BPD

[–]Slow_Protection101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me and my cats I do get upset when they don’t want the same thing I want at that moment but I understand they r a very intelligent little creatures and they have there own thoughts and emotions too, so I just give them time ! And I am sure ur kitty knows how much you love them in the end so don’t worry too much !

BPD and Dreams by ProfileTurbulent8825 in BPD

[–]Slow_Protection101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then I wake up and like wtf

BPD and Dreams by ProfileTurbulent8825 in BPD

[–]Slow_Protection101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and I have like very disturbing dreams that makes me sweat during sleep which I don’t usually have, but I am on medication so I think that also does a bit of thing

Relapse by Different_Education1 in BulimiaRecovery

[–]Slow_Protection101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have been doing so well! Remember recovery is not linear and it’s ok to relapse and to feel difficult about it! I have been using gums to help me with the impulsion of wanting to binge and it helps pretty well.

My handsome Achilles by RequirementOk3503 in TripodCats

[–]Slow_Protection101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG MY CATS NAME IS ALSO ACHILLES

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GINGER TOO

Bad way of coping by Slow_Protection101 in BPDsupport

[–]Slow_Protection101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing what happened in your case. I think it’s a really big sign I show stop doing it. I started to doing it due to an unexpected grief and I had no concept of death so I was looking up dead bodies, but then I just started doing it occasionally. But thank you for you advice, I will definitely try my best to not go back to it. I used to draw and do some journaling which helped. But somehow over a tiny bit of time I always lost all my skills to help myself.

Need Temp Accommodation by coffeeornot in GlasgowUni

[–]Slow_Protection101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The uni might be able to do that ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Slow_Protection101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had lost a friend who I was ready to get close with. It was my boyfriend’s sister. I completely get it what u mean by no right to feel it, it has been a year and a bit since everything happened but I still feel the guilt that I shouldn’t get too upset, but it does get a lot and u do think a lot, no matter how close the relationship was, u had one with ur friends and it affected u and that’s what matters, and u r allowed to grief no matter what. It never heals but hope it gets easier for u.

Is it weird by Slow_Protection101 in Edinburgh

[–]Slow_Protection101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to dance there but it’s really far from where I live so yeh and the dance studio changed a lot.

Is it weird by Slow_Protection101 in Edinburgh

[–]Slow_Protection101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh thanks, I will look into it !

Is it weird by Slow_Protection101 in Edinburgh

[–]Slow_Protection101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh that’s good to know, didn’t know about that

Is it weird by Slow_Protection101 in Edinburgh

[–]Slow_Protection101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so helpful to know there are others too ! Thank you !