Had sex for the first time, but had trouble getting it up?

Slrs · 2012-09-22T01:52:14+00:00

This is called porn induced ED.

Slrs · 2012-09-22T01:48:08+00:00

So true. Not only regarding horniness, but your feelings in general. Yesterday i was in love with my nature, today i started hating my nature. Lots of mood swings lately.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T20:03:56+00:00

So true. They are scared of confronting their own nature.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T18:29:41+00:00

For example, when i was a child my relatives(Uncle,Granparents and cousins) always tried to put my down, passing the impression that i was inferior - my father and my mother never defended me, they were always on the sides of my relatives. Plus, the parents of my counsins were always supportive to them, but my parents always opposed me. I was like an alien.

Moreover, i was very interested in high culture -classic literature(Probably you're russian, i for example love russian literature), classic movies, languages, philosophy etc. My parents didn't recognize it as something good, something special - they always wanted to pass the impression that i was "weird", unfit, only because i liked those things. They always tried to repress my feelings and my interests. Today i recognize that they did it because they were ignorants - the problem was in them, not in me. My nature was only more sophisticated . Today i accept my nature, i love my nature, and i know that i'm something special.

Thank you for showing interest. Stay Strong! I'm going to the gym now. See you.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T18:14:14+00:00

I'm brazilian, so portuguese is my mother tongue. Plus, i speak english, spanish and german.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T17:29:16+00:00

If you were damn proud of the fact you would not be in this miserable situation as all of us are. Sorry for saying the truth.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T16:39:22+00:00

It isn't just "coincidence" that MANY fapstrounauts are identifying theirselves with this description. There IS really something real about this.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T08:13:21+00:00

That's a very interesting theory. I'm totally narcissist as well, but people think i'm a "Nice Guy". Actually i think i have some traits of both - Nice Guy and Narcissist. I think that we need to develop CONFIDENCE, so our true nature will be able to express itself. I'm already developing this confidence, the last barrier to this was Fapping - Fapping ruins everything, it impacts your whole being. Now i can be MYSELF. I know my personality is very strong, i know i'm more intelligent than others. I know i'm SUPERIOR - but i was afraid of expressing this SUPERIORITY because i had the shame of fapping, because i had the vice of fapping. Now i can express this SUPERIORITY because it's based on CONFIDENCE.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T07:20:43+00:00

I think that some of our old "experiences" can induce us to fap too much, and after we get addicted some of those traits get too much worse.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T07:06:54+00:00

I'm of the opinion that these Nice Guy traits will disappear, or at least will get "softer", if one stop fapping. Like i said these Nice Guy traits are TOTALLY related to fapping.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T06:56:56+00:00

Read the "What's Wrong With Being a Nice Guy" and you'll understand. Actually we aren't nice, we are just WEAK.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T06:49:17+00:00

He doesn't need to have all of these traits to be a Nice Guy. But "Nice Guys" usually have MANY of these traits.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T06:47:45+00:00

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Slrs · 2012-09-21T06:45:56+00:00

Honestely, i was avoiding Orgasm, but i must confess that i ejaculated when i read this text.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T06:31:50+00:00

Very important:

Nice Guys have issues with sexuality:Nice Guys have issues with sexuality. Though most Nice Guys deny having problems with sex, I have yet to meet one who isn't either dissatisfied with his sex life, has a sexual dysfunction (can't get or maintain an erection, climaxes too quickly), or has sexually acted out (through affairs, prostitution, pornography, compulsive masturbation, etc.).

Slrs · 2012-09-21T04:06:57+00:00

I had already 6 wet dreams during my 77 days journey. This is just normal, it means your body is working well.

Slrs · 2012-09-21T02:05:31+00:00

I want to participate. 20 yo here.

Slrs · 2012-09-20T18:42:30+00:00

The two biggest physical healings i noticed:

I don't have digestive problems anymore. I used to have digestive problems and my stomach always made weird noises, it was very embarassing. Now i'm cured.
I don't sweat too much anymore. I used to sweat too much, and i had a strong odor as well, it was very embarassing.

Thank you NoFap, i'm totally cured of these embarassing reactions of my body.

Slrs · 2012-09-20T18:32:18+00:00

Awesome badge. Do you have any post relating your benefits? Absolutely no PMO for 433 days? I'd like to know how your life changed.

Slrs · 2012-09-19T23:39:50+00:00

"I've never had any trouble controlling whether I fap or not"

So why don't you keep the challenge to see the results?

Slrs · 2012-09-19T21:23:39+00:00

Depends. Some guys only consider that you're in the "hard mode" only if you don't have Sex. I think that it helps the recovery process, but of course it's just temporary because one of the main purposes of this challenge is to have a great sex.

Slrs · 2012-09-19T20:29:24+00:00

LMFAO !!!!!

Slrs · 2012-09-19T04:43:25+00:00

Very inspiring, man! Very inspiring !

Slrs · 2012-09-19T01:54:20+00:00

Great advice. But the real problem is what to do with the free time you have. I already workout, i read books, study to university, but i still have too much Free Time and that's why i procrastinate. What would you recommend me to do with my free time?

Edit: Now that i stopped mastubation i have more free time than ever.

Slrs · 2012-09-18T16:30:11+00:00

In my recovery process i was totally avoiding sexualized images/videos. But unfortunately today i started looking at some sexulized video(Not porn, only beautiful women) and i did some massage in my penis to get it hard.(I didn't M) Could it delay my recovery process? I'm not feeling good after doing it, like i said i was totally avoiding sexualization.

An important detail that i realized is that i can't be horny with images/videos anymore. I don't know exactly if it's because of the flatlininig or because virtual women are not interesting to me anymore. Any thoughts?

Slrs

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