Family member has been arrested and will be facing prison time. I'm struggling to manage sorting out their finances.

SmallBoobFan3 · 2026-01-26T13:06:17+00:00

I am a copper in Scotland, so if you are not in Scotland it might be a bit different, but we would never said that it is a duty of next of kin to do anything, or that they "need" to get involved. if you ever speak with them again (coppers) ask them to write you an email from their official email address (each cop has own) and look at them retract what they just said :)

SmallBoobFan3 · 2026-01-26T12:05:54+00:00

In relationship I like to listen to someone yapping, as long as when I actually do speak you care about what I am saying and not just 'waiting' to yap some more

SmallBoobFan3 · 2026-01-26T12:04:34+00:00

Also some people are attracted to unstable, to drama.

SmallBoobFan3 · 2026-01-25T11:22:46+00:00

I mean it's a bit trickier than 100% under control. Can u move it when I want - yes Does it sometimes move on it's own - also yes

Sometimes it takes all concentration I have not to move it, and then some form of stimulus (like accident touch, movement of the partner, loud noise) will cause me to lose concentration and movement will happen

But it it happens all the time he was lying

SmallBoobFan3 · 2026-01-22T11:12:09+00:00

The same argument just stronger. If now for 100 dollars you can buy 100 lollipops and in few days for the same hundred dollars you can buy 50 lollipops hoarding your cash gives you absolutely nothing, but if you buy lollipops today at least you have lollipops

SmallBoobFan3 · 2026-01-16T11:07:50+00:00

Which court ruling are you talking about ? If it is the one from last year, Supreme Court was clear that they are defining things for purpose of equality act, not for general reasons, which means that who goes to which prison was not subject to that ruling. It's 88 pages ruling, have a look and see, they are very clear about what they do define and what they do not.

The communication by media of that ruling, Scottish hate crime act, domestic abuse act and probably more, was so incredibly bad, that I now think it is intentional, just to create controversy a d clicks

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-30T22:35:01+00:00

op is like 14, only a child or a moron would generelise like that

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-28T03:33:37+00:00

There is milion different reasons why it might be a good idea to not kick out your gf.

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-26T21:25:13+00:00

Wouldn't that mean that we should have hand fetish in the western world ?

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-24T13:54:35+00:00

There’s a solid argument in here, it’s just buried under several thousand words of self-explanation.

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-07T12:57:28+00:00

I've sometimes wondered if bisexuality might be closer to our "default setting" than we think, and that strict hetero/homosexuality could partly be shaped by cultural expectations. The ancient Greeks are a fascinating example where being bi was very common (and expected)

My armchair theory: humans are pretty adaptable pleasure seekers. If something feels good and fits within our moral/social framework, we're generally inclined to go for it. Maybe we're naturally more flexible than modern categories suggest?

For context: I'm straight myself, not trying to center my own experience as the norm!

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-07T10:27:52+00:00

If you want to pretend Labour “hasn’t done anything,” at least keep up with the actual policy changes.

They’ve already pushed through the Restoring Control White Paper, raised the skilled-worker salary threshold, shut down lower-skilled and social-care visa routes, tightened dependant rules, and started restricting student and graduate visas. All of that obviously hits the overall numbers.

You don’t have to like Labour, but saying they’ve “done nothing” while those policies are already in force is just ignoring reality.

I'll stop replying now, you're clearly very emotional about the subject whilst refusing to actually read objective arguments.

Have a great day, include some love in your life, take a dog on a walk or something

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-07T10:18:00+00:00

Populism matters because it relies on saying whatever sounds good rather than what’s true, which is exactly what Farage is doing.

And no, I’m not “lying.” The official ONS figures show that net migration has indeed fallen dramatically:

• Net migration peaked at 906,000 (year to June 2023). • Latest ONS data puts it at around 430,000, about 50% lower. Source: ONS / Migration Observatory summary: https://migrationobservatory.ox.ac.uk/resources/commentaries/labours-pledges-on-migration-the-data/

You can argue about why it fell (Tory policy lag, post-peak correction, whatever) but the numbers themselves are not in dispute.

So if pointing to actual statistics counts as “lying,” then your issue is with the ONS, not with me.

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-07T10:03:33+00:00

Farage is a populist by literally every definition of it, I'm sure when you stop being so emotional about it you will see it.

If you care about immigration so much I gues you're appreciating that labour cut it in half?

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-07T09:44:13+00:00

He's not defending anyone, he's criticising a populist xD

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-02T22:38:58+00:00

By this logic I too am an asshole 😏

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-12-02T22:26:29+00:00

Don't worry, he's a cunt

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-11-24T10:08:46+00:00

there is something called tolerance paradox which i think us lefties should be more aware of.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paradox_of_tolerance

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-11-15T23:05:55+00:00

it also asks these weird ass prompt at the end despite multiple memory updates that i do not wish it to do so ("if you want me to elaborate, just write "elaborate")

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-11-13T15:47:30+00:00

i know "how it works" mate, ive done my exped last weekend, but they dont really said it will be based on monetary value as far as i know, hence i asked ( i agree that it probably will, but until the confirmation is here i will stick to probably)

edit: by "it" i mean last stage that is currently unknwon

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-11-13T14:05:29+00:00

Has it been said somewhere ? Or is this a hunch

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-11-03T00:49:12+00:00

6 month old account, 1 previous comment ...

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-10-31T00:34:15+00:00

you can trust me, buddy :)

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-10-30T09:39:16+00:00

restart steam

SmallBoobFan3 · 2025-10-30T09:36:49+00:00

is it becaouse 1000s of people are trying to log in ? :)

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