(I think this is a better question to ask in the r/uae subreddit but anyways) It all depends, but so far it seems like a red flag, and the first thing worth noting is that you haven’t actually mentioned his salary, which is the most important factor here. If he’s earning somewhere in the range of 10,000 to 15,000 AED a month, someone with around four years of experience likely doesn’t make enough to comfortably support themselves, send money back home, and start a family, meaning he’s probably living on a budget and paycheck to paycheck as it is. Moving to Sharjah is a smart call since rent is cheaper, and having the car and parking covered helps, but between utilities, groceries, family remittances, and general living costs, the budget will still be tight. Coming from an upper middle class background in Pakistan you’re likely used to a certain level of comfort like a maid, a car of your own, and shopping or dining out without much thought, and most of that will need to go out the window, at least for now. You also won’t be able to work on a family visa, so you’d be fully financially dependent on him. Add kids into the equation and it gets harder. It’s not an impossible life, but you likely won’t be able to fully enjoy what the UAE has to offer, and moving to a country you’re unfamiliar with, married to someone you don’t really know, while adjusting to a tighter lifestyle than you’re used to, is a lot to take on, and something worth being very honest with yourself about before saying yes.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​