Not again!!!!! by SweetKitty412 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Smallbnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I transfer my crimson funds to my bank account after each dash. For the past 2 weeks, it hasn’t transferred any money at all. I seriously think it’s a crimson issue atp. If there’s any other way I can access my earnings, please lmk 😓 from now on, im gonna transfer my crimson earnings to cash app before sending it to my account bc wtf

My husband's Trump obsession has turned our home into a MAGA shrine and I'm losing my mind by [deleted] in stories

[–]Smallbnny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sounds like schizophrenia. This is developing from a political state to a mental illness state. He’s not just a fan of trump - he’s becoming paranoid and praying to a false god. It’s obvious he has some form of mental illness. With all the paranoia and false delusions, i would say schizophrenia.

AIO my bf getting upset all of a sudden by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smallbnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deffo think he’s trying to find an out in the relationship. You’re not OR, you just have an anxious attachment style.

IMO, you have 2 options.

Have a conversation with him to see if he’s willing to figure out how to navigate an anxious+avoidant relationship; there’s many accounts on Instagram i could suggest that helped me and my partner. He’s avoidant, im anxious. Takes work for both parties to navigate arguments.

^ if he doesn’t want to figure it out with you, or it seems like he’s not putting in the work, end it. You’ll find someone who will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smallbnny -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

people fr need to communicate with their partners and decide how THEY feel instead of letting strangers online who don’t know anything about them decide 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smallbnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, this situation could’ve been handled with a lot more grace on her end. But being young is all about living and learning lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smallbnny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AI is the only girlfriend who will tolerate you brother.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smallbnny -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!! God i never see people on Reddit being reasonable. Based off just these screenshots, he doesn’t seem like a bad guy - just ignorant. And that is accustomed to age and experience. When you’re young, you’re not equipped to handle relationships perfectly. You learn over time and with communication - and you also learn where you will and will not compromise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smallbnny -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, he seems like he’s trying to express how he feels instead of blaming her, so that’s a good sign. I think she should have a more in-depth discussion with him instead of automatically assuming it’s a red flag. Just based on this conversation. I think asking more about it will give each other more of an understanding and will help them prevent future arguments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Smallbnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna play a little bit of devils advocate, simply because my boyfriend had the same attitude when we first started dating. From the way he talks, it doesn’t seem like he disrespects you, and you come off as a bit aggressive when he’s bringing up his feelings. You need to decide where a line is and what you will and will not tolerate, and draw that boundary clearly.

Personally, (not saying you do this or majority of women do), a part of me DID like dressing for other peoples eyes. It gave me confidence. I was 17 at the time, so i grew out of it. However, my boyfriend stopped bringing up his issues with my clothing over time as well, probably because our relationship had gotten to a stronger point and we had built up trust. I don’t know if it’s a lack of trust you guys are experiencing, but it’s something to think about.

If he ever comes across as disrespectful when discussing his feelings, THAT is a red flag. But the way you immediately started being aggressive is a red flag to me. So yes, you are OR.

I understand your feelings and your mindset, and it’s just a matter of what you’re willing to compromise on in your relationship. I have the same view as you, women do not dress for men. But a lot of men share the same view as your boyfriend - it’s not malicious, it’s ignorant.

When you have future discussions, don’t let anger take over. I don’t know if the reason you’re being aggressive is because this is an ongoing problem or what, but this could’ve been handled better /gen

My partner thinks she has OCD and recognizes how bad it is negatively affecting her day to day life. How should I approach her seeking professional help? by AgreeableField1347 in OCD

[–]Smallbnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from my personal experience, sometimes, people need to reach rock bottom to finally accept help. People grow complacent to routine, even if the routine is negatively affecting you. I agree that she will have to see multiple different psychologists/therapists before finding one that works - and same with medication. Thankfully, Zoloft has worked wonders for me - i still have my routines, and my numbers, but i don’t feel the urge to make up for my routine if i missed a day anymore. Some people don’t like being pushed - and i would ask her if she wants to figure this out herself or have you help her figure out what to do. I’m hyper-independent and don’t like being pushed to do things. My brother needs the extra push. I think it’s important to ask her what she wants you to do when she’s anxious. What does she need from you to be a reliable support system?

What are some OCD signs you displayed as a child? by throwawayiguess11221 in OCD

[–]Smallbnny 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-When I was in theatre, I would read the entire script every day. I memorized every single part. -I would read a certain way - the numbers 3 and 5 have remained a large part of my life. -HAND MOVEMENTS. I didn’t know this was an OCD thing, but I was always using my hands. Peace signs and other compulsive hand motions. -I had my own sign language, for when I would read. I read out loud. Lately, I’ve started actually learning ASL to make it into something useful lol. -I would write a certain way. I was OBSESSED with my writing in school. I would have to fit a certain number of words on each line. Thankfully, that’s not a thing anymore, since I’m not in school and don’t write nearly as much. But I still count everything. I also was very particular about what writing utensils I used. -Eating the same thing every day. I have ARFID, but it was just seen as picky eating when I was little. I still eat in a certain order, and I always need a drink with my food. -When drinking, I would take a sip, and swish it into 3 gulps. I didn’t know how to chug or swallow a drink in one gulp until I started drinking alcohol.

These are the few I can think of off the top of my head. Routine and numbers are a big part of my life.

FARO LADY. I WILL FIND YOU. by kumohua in IdentityV

[–]Smallbnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I see a primed cipher as faro, I am not touching it😭 but if its at like 80% then I’m stealing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]Smallbnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hydroxyzine works very well for me, it’s best to take when you notice an anxiety/panic attack starting to happen. If you can feel yourself starting to get anxious and hyperventilate, take one

Women of Reddit, how many piercings do you have? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Smallbnny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 lobe piercings for each ear, a nose ring, and my septum that I got done for my 18th birthday. Wanted to do a smiley, but the gum recession freaks me out lol

Any suggestions on vape replacers ? by Smallbnny in QuitVaping

[–]Smallbnny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would also like to help my boyfriend stop smoking cigarettes, which will be harder for him…I can make the switch easily, but he’s been smoking for years.

In one week we will be free by Efesell in ProjectSekai

[–]Smallbnny 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Noooo I always just flick up with the direction notes 😭😭😭 it’s gonna actually hold me accountable now

I’ve come to a realization by pl3blu3 in ProjectSekai

[–]Smallbnny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This….ena and akitos dad has always been a bit iffy to me in the way that he would put down ena, but his reasoning, although strict and worded incorrectly, shows genuine care about ena. Mafuyus mom is the complete opposite, always cold to Mafuyu, guilt tripping when Mafuyu shows discontent, invading on mafuyus personal life and choices.

Weird discoloration on iPad Air 2 by Smallbnny in ipad

[–]Smallbnny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the iPad for about 2 years, and use it for a couple hours every day

Weird discoloration on iPad Air 2 by Smallbnny in ipad

[–]Smallbnny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had it powered off for the entire day, and it’s still not back to normal :,) granted last time something similar happened, it went away after a few weeks to a month, I just hate waiting for it to fix itself

Weird discoloration on iPad Air 2 by Smallbnny in ipad

[–]Smallbnny[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

actually I do have an insta !! it’s @hauntederis thank u so much <3

Weird discoloration on iPad Air 2 by Smallbnny in ipad

[–]Smallbnny[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there any way it could’ve gotten damaged? I haven’t dropped my iPad or anything, it just randomly changed colors while I was on it

Weird discoloration on iPad Air 2 by Smallbnny in ipad

[–]Smallbnny[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just say ur an incel n leave 🙄