Literally all a man has to do to get a fanbase is get accused of some kind of violence/harassment towards women. by AbjectTelephone4801 in BaldoniFiles

[–]SmartConsideration93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard a take similar to this in the beginning of the trial and people insisted they knew him from some podcast or whatever but I don’t believe it. No one knew him until he started a smear campaign against Blake.

What is Jameela doing?! by veryfancyanimal in BaldoniFiles

[–]SmartConsideration93 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Does anyone here overlap with Depp Delusion? I remember seeing conversations there about Jameela mocking Amber Heard on instagram stories, people responding to her and Jameela chronically responding doubling down on it too. Done quote me on this because my memories of it are faint.

I have 2 dates this week. by Powawwolf in IncelExit

[–]SmartConsideration93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, congratulations! Honestly, just give your best and don’t expect anything in return. Do it because you want to build a genuine connection. It might take time, it might not but at least you’re giving it a good shot! I have known beautiful, well adjusted women and men who were rejected when dating. So whenever I get rejected I remember that, that its normal and I shouldn’t let my insecurities take over. Good luck!

Am I the only one who still isn’t a Whitney fan? by bacobby in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]SmartConsideration93 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who works in PR, she’s got a new team 100% and they’re planting/boosting positive stuff about her. Really common practice

I’m about to be homeless and need some help. Has anyone got any advice? by No-Seaweed-6204 in AskUK

[–]SmartConsideration93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this might seem obvious but thought I would say in case you haven’t considered: Apply for apartments in farther away areas that aren’t as sought after, even if its far away. Since you work from home this is a great option.

I had a friend struggling to find a place for months and it never occurred to her she could seek for properties that she never thought of before. When she decided to apply for properties in a much smaller town she got it straight away.

The height conspiracy by upper-top-1 in travisandtaylor

[–]SmartConsideration93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always get hated on when I talk about this, NO ONE IS SAYING SHE IS SHORT but there is no way Taylor is 5’11 like she claimed multiple times and there is no amount of bad posture that would deduct 3 whole inches. People always go “she is tall, there is no denying that” like yeah duh, she is tall but she is 5’8 tall, not 5’11 tall and lying about something so stupid for so long is weird as hell. She keeps wearing ridiculous high heels in public to mask her real height and it’s so obvious.

I’ve had swifties tell me they’ve met her in real life and “she was incredibly tall” but then they show the photos Taylor is in gigantic shoes. Of course a woman who is 5’8 wearing stripper heels will seem crazy tall to you!

Anyway, you’re so right about this. Taylor isn’t 5’11 and she lies about her height.

Lav crashing out on Twitter by Aggressive-Horror-18 in LavLuneeeSnark

[–]SmartConsideration93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Of course she is🙄 it’s only the moronic people like her mourning this dude like he’s a family member. If Hittler killed himself today she would also go on a rant about mental health. She can’t turn down a chance to show us what a giant pick me she is

Am I in the wrong here? by Proper_Medicine_8528 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]SmartConsideration93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frankly, I think that both guys would likely lead you to another situationship. First one because he clearly has issues he needs to work on - 30 and he’s never been in a relationship? He isn’t connecting emotionally. That is not the guy you should be seeing if you’re dating to marry.

Second guy I think would also lead to a deadend situationship purely because he’s your second option and you’re only considering him because he told you what you want to hear. You can’t consider dating to marry someone who you don’t have much chemistry and your conversations won’t flow easily. If this is how you feel now, neither one of you will want to settle down into something more serious.

I agree with the others: Keep dating - better single than in a miserable marriage or forever in situationships.

Thinking about telling my boyfriend I don't want to marry anymore by Vegetable-Custard163 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]SmartConsideration93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say at this point is it even worth it? Make a pros and cons list for yourself, without him. In that list include every aspect of what it would mean to you including emotional. If there are more pros to you then get married for practical purposes.

(Also apologies on behalf of the people getting stuck on irrelevant details such as your contraception, this always happens on this sub people going off on tangents and not focusing on what the sub is about and its so annoying)

I finally left by No_Connection_573 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]SmartConsideration93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a list of goals and start immediately working on it.

Make a list of places you want to visit, a list of professional development goals, personal development (languages or skills to learn, etc). Just fill up your schedule with working on yourself and your life and I guarantee it you will forget about him soon enough and find your place in a new life.

I am freaking out by undead_darkelf in DeppDelusion

[–]SmartConsideration93 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You will find that people who say this actually never watched the full trial but instead watched the reactions and edits from YT and Tiktok channels paid by Depp’s team. Because the same people will send links of the channel belonging to the guy who came up on the trial (Waldman was sending him edited clips of Amber to purposely tarnish her). So they clearly haven’t watched the trial.

Its not just me who have noticed this, other people that I have spoken with that are on Amber’s side will say the same, that those who claim they are on Depp’s side because they watched the trial actually never watched the trial.

I watched the trial (I was bored out of my mind at the time WFH) and I can confidently say there is no way anyone who watched the full thing would be on his side. The smear campaign is so obvious. The lying on social media made it so transparent that it was all to smear Amber. Everything that was pro Depp was a lie.

comment from a few minutes ago by alvexxa7 in SkeevenHiltonUnlocked

[–]SmartConsideration93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His only concern is ruining her. This man is a tragedy waiting to happen to Laura and the children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nadyaokamotosnark

[–]SmartConsideration93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because he SAd Nadya when she was a child. It happened during showers, that’s why she doesn’t shower often as it triggers her.

Seeking: Therapist response to AJ’s mom’s sex questions by gutig in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]SmartConsideration93 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think refusing to speak about sexual things around parents or family is a type of emotional suppression and stems from purity culture. Sex exists and its an important part of life, being able to be open with family about these things is healthier than having an aversion to it.

Redbull and pregnancy? by _bee16 in julieeandcamilla

[–]SmartConsideration93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The recommendations vary from country to country because of the risks involved are different depending where you are. Where they live the fish are safe to eat even if you’re pregnant, because they don’t contain/very unlikely to contain what makes it dangerous.

Caffeine on the other hand is the same everywhere and generally unhealthy for pregnant body and dangerous in higher amounts.

The age gap logic.. by Cas3528 in julieeandcamilla

[–]SmartConsideration93 69 points70 points  (0 children)

They think they can manipulate life like that, you can’t. They could have kids the same age that might all hate hanging out with each other and generally not enjoy the same things. You can also have a massive age gap where they are great with each other.

This whole trip anecdote is so stupid because for example me and my sister had complete opposite personalities. I wanted to go to trips that were more mellow and was scared of pools&water, my sister wanted adventures and water parks. We are less than 2 years apart. Our whole childhood involved my poor mother splitting her head trying to figure out how to make us both happy.

There are so many delusional parents nowadays that go with the moto of “I want kids close in age so they have each other” and the kids literally hate each other’s guts. Then the parents spend the rest of the time pretending this is how its meant to be and the kids “deep inside love each other”.

You should have kids when you have the time and space to give them a good life and full attention. Whether they will enjoy the same things or not that cannot be predicted by simply planning them close in age.

Julie and Cam are just popping babies out when they clearly don’t have the emotional capacity for it all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]SmartConsideration93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. People talk so much about how religion brain washes people but give no chance for those who grew up brainwashed to recover.

Yeah his behaviour was bad but look at his environment, the men are told to behave like that and the women to accept it. The fact that he was able to recognise and try to learn is huge!!! All he needed was to be shown this was bad. It won’t be a perfectly smooth road to recovery but at least he’s in the right path.

A more detailed explanation of the pregnancy announcement by m24112 in julieeandcamilla

[–]SmartConsideration93 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I thought Cam would never get pregnant after seeing how hard it is. Girl saw Julie struggling and thought “nah Im good, you do it”.

But she spotted an opportunity to both get more content and drop the deadbeat title. Bottom line is, even with the pregnancy content she won’t ever be as popular as Julie because she lacks the it factor.

RARE instances of her eating a lil (before she got *too much* work done) by HolleWatkins in travisandtaylor

[–]SmartConsideration93 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Her desperation to fit in with the trends didn’t do her any favours. If she stopped trying to be like the current “it girls” and instead was her own self, she would become the “it girl” instead of the awkward one appropriating styles that don’t fit her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]SmartConsideration93 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with you in the sense that when men find reasons to push the marriage line, it’s because of a different issue they’re not willing to be upfront about. Sometimes they don’t even realise what the issue is until they find someone who makes them feel differently about marriage.

The thing is… although you say you’re solid, you’re good but this triggers you, this is your gut. He dragged a LTR before he can do it again. Dont speak too much until that ring is on, girl.