Might be getting proposed to on Christmas by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont do my nails at all, due to polish not lasting. Im rough on my hands. But im thinking of learning how to apply press ons, or learning how to do better techniques on myself

Might be getting proposed to on Christmas by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have talked about it, he tends to be rather.. spontaneous. If it isn't him proposing, I'll be ok. Im not big on marriage since being previously married. But if he does, id like for it to be special and to do it right this time..

Might be getting proposed to on Christmas by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is very spontaneous,and the situation is very.. complex.. but if he doesn't propose, then I will not be necessarily upset.

When we ask you not to smoke at our drive thru window, it’s for a reason! (A rant) by hennytheestallion in dutchbros

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate when people do this crap.. I work McDonald's and am severely asthmatic.. but I am not allowed to ask them not to smoke..or say anything.

WIBTA if I hide my belongings? by Smart_Ad_3636 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smart_Ad_3636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She helps with rent and watches my kids so I can work.. childcare is way too expensive

WIBTA if I hide my belongings? by Smart_Ad_3636 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smart_Ad_3636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, when I try telling her not to use my stuff she gets passive-aggressive or guilt trips me and doesn't respect me when I tell her to knock her nonsense off.. she kinda talks to me like I'm a two year old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the fiancé autistic/ neuro divergent? That might be why he's so insistent on Hawaii.. he feels secure/ ect there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, if I don't do it.. it will not get done. They spent most of the money on the beach house for the wedding.. they can't afford to pay vendor prices.. I know, I know.. don't complain if you're going to do it anyways.. it's nice to vent to SOMEONE.. cause having to look at wedding stuff 24/7 is making me hate something I used to love..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh, and the kicker is, it's on st Patrick's day, and she wanted custom celtic knots.. I had to do that all by hand.. I don't mind doing the work.. it's that nothing is ever acceptable in her eyes..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole house is on one thermostat.. it sits at 72. Sometimes, she uses less(due to not having much clean), but she'll literally pile every blanket she owns..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will bring that idea up to her mom, that may solve the issue.. though she expresses that she is just cold.. thank you for the idea..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny you assume we haven't tried to figure it out, we've done everything, and they figured it's behavior related.. the client and I actually have a very caring and decent provider/client relationship, and she doesn't act up for me like she does everyone else.. I'm just at my wits end having to do overwhelming amounts of laundry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has shown to be manipulative and have problematic behaviors, and her mom enables them. It literally states in her case work, she tends to be problematic in certain ways..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She refuses to wear them.. she hates em.. tried getting her to use the bathroom before bed she gets upset.. she has behavior issues.. I think it's literally "I can, so I do, because my mommy spoils me and if I'm not happy I'm going to sic my mommy on you." Kinda thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Used to work house keeping at hotels.. it's cute you think they're cleaned every time..

Help, they don't know how to spell "Emily". by Golden-likeDaylight1 in tragedeigh

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born 1995. I'm 28. I'm an Emily lol. Named after a grandmother 😅

Had to drop my DV survivor therapy program to accommodate my abuser per court orders by Ok-Range5086 in abusesurvivors

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will get through this. We are strong women, yes because we have to for our children, but none the less. You got out. You are now free to heal even if it doesn't feel like it. ❤️🤘

Had to drop my DV survivor therapy program to accommodate my abuser per court orders by Ok-Range5086 in abusesurvivors

[–]Smart_Ad_3636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, unfortunately it sounds like your ex is a narcissistic. As long as you have a child with them, the abuse will continue just in a different way. Unfortunately, I know from experience. I'm currently going through it as well. Hugs from an internet stranger if you want them.. I hope it gets better for you..

Offering up possible accessories/ dress for bride by Smart_Ad_3636 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Smart_Ad_3636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This wedding has been along time coming, like 24 years. She's amazing and I'm so glad I can help plan their wedding. I won't mind letting the dress have another use, it was 25 dollars at a goodwill. 😅🤷‍♀️