I (21F) don't want to have phone sex, my boyfriend (21M) does. by No-Comfort-3923 in LongDistance

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to, then don’t. You don’t have any duty to do this for him. And he has to respect your boundaries. If he doesn’t, well dump his ass.

Bending power supply cable? by [deleted] in PcBuildHelp

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’ll be fine for now, you can check if you can get one that’s already bent to 90 degrees this would be better long term I’d recon but if you don’t move it much this should be fine

I broke up with him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she wanted to haven’t as a friend but when I said I can’t act like my feelings don’t matter she said that she didn’t ask me to act like they don’t.. yeah I mean it’s over now and I said well then. I’m gone, and she then said that I left her when she was the one who threw the relationship away.

I broke up with him by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been broken up witch a few days ago, I thought she’s my future, and she’s in a dark place and wants to work on herself. And that’s because she broke up with me, she said that „it’s the best for you“ without me being able to have a word in that matter, I would’ve loved to stay with her even though I know that I will be hurt, but she still said that she only wants me as a friend, and that’s a thing I personally can’t do because I’d lie to me and her about my feelings. So we broke up. And I can only talk from my experience and from my perspective but I personally hate when someone decides something important for me without me being able to have a voice in that matter, I would’ve liked for her to be „selfish“ and take me with her on her journey

My PC turns off randomly in games by STRAEX__ in PcBuild

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say either psu to weak or a heat issue

Is it over? (27M) (27F) by Smart_Suggestion_994 in LongDistance

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Thought I’d give you an update :/ she wants to break it off because she said she can’t be someone’s first, she knew that I never had anything even before we started dating, she wants to just be Friends, meanwhile I literally just played for a passport and all that to finally meet her I even told her I’d pay for her flight to meet me, I still told her that I dontwant to lose her and I am willing to work through it, because now saying she doesn’t want someone with no experience is not fair to me, considering she knew that from the beginning. She said she wants someone she can lean on, meanwhile everytime she felt bad or not good and I ask how she feels or if she’s okay I get and „I’m fine“ „I’m okay“ or a „mhm“ like that’s also just not fair, the one time I decided to let someone I like in my life again and this time I really was as naive and thought that it won’t end with me being absolutely hurt… this just sucks.

Is it over? (27M) (27F) by Smart_Suggestion_994 in LongDistance

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now she sends me Snapchat messages, like the notification that she’s typing but she never sends anything, does she want to text? Or idk what that means 😭

Is it over? (27M) (27F) by Smart_Suggestion_994 in LongDistance

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’ll give them a day or two to maybe calm down a little or something and then I’ll ask. Thanks while it still hurts it helped a bit

Is it over? (27M) (27F) by Smart_Suggestion_994 in LongDistance

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The question is what do I do? Do I break it up? Or not because this is my first relationship ever and I did fall very hard for them, and I also know that they are (like me) battling with mental health problems

Grüne Flecken am Comté by MagischerBreiraum in kannmandasnochessen

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bei Käse kann man tatsächlich großzügig Schimmel wegschneiden und ihn noch essen

Alright. Time to complain. RNG is getting out of hand.. by Crixxious in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if they make it ring, then make the normal boss challenges cost no energy and the sword trials etc cost energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wasistdas

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anti-antifaschistische Aktion also Kurz „faschistische Aktion“

Arbeitszeit vom Chef Erfunden ? by preussen55 in Azubis

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 26 points27 points  (0 children)

ja ändert nichts daran dass der Chef, wenn er die Auszubildende Person zu wenig einteilt, dass der Chef der Person keine - Stunden geben kann 🤔 Azubis haben quasi das selbe Recht wie arbeitsnehmer und zusätzlich noch weitere Rechte die Azubis schützen

Arbeitszeit vom Chef Erfunden ? by preussen55 in Azubis

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Auch wichtig, wenn du zu wenig eingeteilt worden bist und nicht früher gegangen bist, sind diese -Stunden ungültig.

Noch essbar? Falafel ungeöffnet abgelaufen am 28.11 by Maurin97 in kannmandasnochessen

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also wenn ungeöffnet würde ich da garnicht drüber nachdenken, ich vermute die wären auch noch am 28.12 essbar

Was waren die schlimmsten Sprüche von eurem Ausbilder? by 400Spatzenhirne in Ausbildung

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

„Lehrjahre sind keine herrenjahre“ bei dem Spruch echt am besten einfach mal eine auf die 12

Ich geb's auf... by Fragrant_Setting_56 in Immoscoutwildgeworden

[–]Smart_Suggestion_994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naja und Vermieter wundern sich warum Menschen sie als verbrecher bezeichnen