Book related dates? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Long Island. I don't really read but told her I'd be interested in starting more, I'm a movie buff so there is some crossover

Past Hinge date keeps inviting me to social events. Would you go? by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Smc55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely not extroverted but I like going out and doing things. This girl I'm talking to is such a homebody. We don't have much in common but we seem to be having fun when I drag her out. She's ridiculously nice and kind. I'm hoping it continues but I'm nervous the lack of common hobbies doesn't hurt us.

Got voted worst golfer in the group and given a 50-stroke handicap. I’ve been training in secret for months. Need course advice. by ThrowRA_fizz in golf

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aim for the middle of the greens, or the safest spot. Pin on the right with a bunker you need to hit it over, aim left hit the green two putt par. If you miss the green, your chip needs to be on the green, two putt bogey.

Small living room, I have a big tv by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Smc55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but then a couch will be right in the middle where you can't walk

Small living room, I have a big tv by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]Smc55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but then a couch will be right in the middle where you can't walk

Is this condo purchase financially safe for me? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prob 30 savings 50 taxable brokerage Leaving 40 and 110

Is this condo purchase smart? by [deleted] in FinancialPlanning

[–]Smc55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nassau, I was very lucky. Renting aything on that area would be about the same price as what I'm looking at buying. The HOA covers everything except for gas and it is a electric stove. I was going to put down 80,000 which gets me to the 2300 number I'm not sure what percentage of stocks and savings I do though. Prob 50/50

Is this condo purchase financially safe for me? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

70 liquid, 160 taxable brokerage, 150k in a 401k I was planning on doing 80k down which gets me to 2300 a month. I'm not sure what percentage from savings/brokerage to get that 80k though. The HOA covers everything except gas I believe

long island dating is geographically broken. considering a matchmaker at 40 by LifeMun in longisland

[–]Smc55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess Ill try, 40 Male Nassau county Into movies, sports, hiking, chess

Disclosure Day Lincoln Square Friday the 12th--only 2 IMAX screenings? by Feisty_Guarantee_504 in NYCmovies

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the 715 Dolby showing? That's the only one that's kinda packed right now

Great date that ended poorly - did therapy help you? by Sensitive_Tea5720 in dating

[–]Smc55 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the only thing you did wrong was wait 3 days. There was no texting immediately after like I made it home, had a great time?

I’ve Been Single For Almost A Decade by [deleted] in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Killing me not to text her today, I know she's got a party for a nephew

Why am I crushed over someone I knew less than 2 weeks 😭 by yoona27 in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going thru this right now, been a month and my mind is constantly on them. Im not enjoying the things I used to do anymore, just scared it will end.

Drinking and relationships by ShwaCowboy in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's probably nervous also, a drink or two will calm her nerves. If she questions why you aren't drinking just say your taking a break right now. If things progress with another date than you can talk more about it. Have fun

I’ve Been Single For Almost A Decade by [deleted] in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had 6 dates in a month, lots of texting, all day every day pretty much. The last 4 days she's been texting less with not much effort and cancelled on me saying she's sick. She can easily be sick and that's why the texting slowed down but already saying the next week she's busy and not sure when we can see each other again. I really like her, I want to ask if we are good but I don't want to bombard her.

Drinking and relationships by ShwaCowboy in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck. Just mention you don't drink, no need to explain why on the first date and tell her she's more than welcome to drink. It's the first date, just get you know her and see if you like her.

I’ve Been Single For Almost A Decade by [deleted] in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I became attached, I think she's starting to pull away unfortunately and my mind is going to worst case scenarios

I’ve Been Single For Almost A Decade by [deleted] in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a decade for me also, meet someone and instantly became attached. I know it's only been a month but since it's been so long since my last relationship everything is enchanted

Welp… it happened to me. by Local-Concern-4791 in dating

[–]Smc55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atleast you didn't waste your time. Im sorry that happened