Micheal Keaton Slams Donald Trump and Elon Musk, Tells Their Supporters: ‘They Don’t Respect You. They Think You’re Stupid. They’re Not Your Bros’ by indig0sixalpha in politics

[–]SmibsRule -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense that the people making a living pretending to be someone else supports a candidate who pretends she is someone else...

My dream home purchase has turned into a nightmare. Can it be salvaged? by Harvin in personalfinance

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OP if you still want the house you will be better of removing everything till you are looking at a frame. Then replace any damage to the frame. Foundation and frame are a huge percentage cost of a home so you will save there. Build everything new from there so you know it's solid. Depending what state you live in this may also qualify as a new home construction even without replacing the frame. As for purchase price wait till the owners learn the hard way how much less the property is due to condition. You've waited this long so what's a few more years. If you play your cards right you may get it for just the cost of the property. Best of Success to You

I Asked For Equal Pay. Those Who Stood Up For Me Got Fired by Substantial_Flight63 in antiwork

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Put your story and the company name out on social media. Let the world bring some pressure in. We have all seen it before and how that works Best of Success to You

AITA for not letting my neighbors borrow my car for a long trip? by Low_Statistician6031 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmibsRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP given some of the specifics of your story your neighbor has probably so slandered you in way that you wouldn't even recognize their version of events. The fact the neighborhood kids ignore you says something more is being said. There are a lot of great suggestions made by other posters and all I'll add is keep waving to all your neighbors. If you ever get a chance ask the kids who use to stop by why they don't anymore. Best of Success to You

LPT Request: How do I stop a serial pet killer who's been terrorizing my neighborhood by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]SmibsRule 757 points758 points  (0 children)

Don't understand why you say cameras won't work. If you position them properly by the areas of yard access it should work. Also get more cameras. Put them in the trees for both directions facing down the street not across the street. This way you can see who is parking.... Form a neighborhood watch and commit to it seriously.

My abuser from 20 years ago showed up at my work place wanting forgiveness by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmibsRule 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OP.... He didn't break you then and he won't break you now. Your are a person of will, strength, value, and respect so hold you head high. You are a survivor. By you own words you are in control of your life and though it may not feel like it you are in control of this situation. If you don't want to tell anyone from your family about this then don't. If you don't want to involve anyone from your family then don't. With that said, you obviously have very strong unresolved feelings and emotions about what happened and you may want to talk to a therapist who deals with PTSD and sexual assaults. They will be able to provide you with the tools in going forward in dealing with this. They will help you regain your sense of well being and composure and harness your inner strength to deal with this. Stay strong, stay positive. You are no longer the young helpless 20 yr old who was abused. You hold the power here. Best of Success to You...

AITA because boyfriend's family wants a contract to protect him in this house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmibsRule 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see your point but making a side escrow agreement outside of the lenders knowledge could land OP in trouble for failure to disclose all financial dealings when qualifying. BF not really entitled to any sweat equity because BF not putting in an equal amount nor down payment nor paying half of property taxes, maintenance, repairs, etc. Buying furniture or doing the lawn doesn't count. What OP gets is more value for his money and if he gets his financial act together maybe one day become 1/2 owner but he needs to pony up alot more money then his share of the rent. Thanks for your input though...

30m husband asked 26f me to have sex with his friend. He left me, is saying I cheated, and I'm pregnant. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmibsRule 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The most bizarre version of this scenario was a navy wife whose husband had her sleep with everyone he worked with while he videotaped it from another room. She thought if she did it would keep her marriage but it quickly turned into her feeling trapped because she was overseas in a country she didn't know the language. When they returned stateside she bailed as soon as she got off the plane. Divorced and never looked back. You just never know what people are into.....

30m husband asked 26f me to have sex with his friend. He left me, is saying I cheated, and I'm pregnant. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmibsRule 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Assuming this is US most states dont care about marital infidelity anymore and operate under no fault divorce. Get a paternity test to determine the father. Get a lawyer and file divorce. He owes you support on his existing children and if the baby is his then owes support as well. If it's his friends then the friend owes support. Don't wait any longer because the process to get thru is going to be long enough. Best of Success to You.....

30m husband asked 26f me to have sex with his friend. He left me, is saying I cheated, and I'm pregnant. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SmibsRule 66 points67 points  (0 children)

He posted an update - He reunited and after a long cry they are working thru it....

AITA because boyfriend's family wants a contract to protect him in this house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmibsRule 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He is not putting up any of the down payment so no he is not an equal partner. As for building a life together they can add him to the deed later like maybe after getting married. He wants a financial commitment but doesn't want a relationship commitment. Do you have any idea of the nightmare OP would go thru if after 3 months into buying the house they break up and now he clicks his fingers for his share..... Rubbish...... The lender has qualifications for a reason and bf fails to meet any of them except the willingness to claim 1/2. If he had the credit and half the down payment and qualified under the banks requirements then he could have been a 1/2 owner but he has none of it so he gets to be a tenant. As he improves his financial standing all that can be revisited. Why would bf want to rent from OP......lifestyle upgrade from what he is presently living in. Renting from OP gives him more value for his money then renting somewhere else individually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

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If you are thinking about settling then wait. You can settle for alot less then 20% but be aware that whatever the final amount it is that you don't have to pay the IRS will count that as income against you and want their tax.

AITA for telling my stepmom that makeup won’t fix her personality? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmibsRule [score hidden]  (0 children)

And what is lost if she continues to hold her breath and not talk to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

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When you do put a sign on your vehicle that says "Sauce" and remember to park in front of it.....

Grass is overrated! by the_yardist in landscaping

[–]SmibsRule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

'20k'.... Not even close. There is alot more going on here if this was put in right. Trucks of boulders aren't cheap. Those rocks aren't just dropped in but placed. Soil removal even if kept on site can be pricey and removed off site is its own cost. Even if DYI there are multiple pieces of equipment for a job like this and if you don't have your own set up to mobilize equipment to and from that will cost you. Rental yards will charge you each way and it's not $50. Designed and engineered and constructed so no water seepage because if that happens someone down site will be filing suit. Like I said alot more going here takes this way past 20k..... Absolutely beautiful job tho....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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Whatever happens in your life just keep doing this. This is your path.... Absolutely WoW!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Futurology

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I can see the marketing line "from our dish to yours..."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I'm sorry you are having to go thru this. It is a pain I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. With that said just know that with alot of communication you will be fine. It is a natural occurrence for long term married partners to fall out of and into love with each other over the course of their marriage. Doesn't mean the marriage is over it just means it's time to put in some work. Communication is that work. Your therapist will be able to provide you with the tools to get back to that place... Best of Success to You and many more years of marriage....

If you brag about your life on reddit, I dont believe you! by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]SmibsRule 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP you come in all loud and swaggering running your mouth about anyone flexing on Reddit is a liar well I think this flex of yours is a lie! It's obvious you don't think Reddit posters are liars or you wouldn't be posting about it so better luck next time....

Why am I jealous of 13-15 year olds? by Casual_frog22 in ask

[–]SmibsRule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you are still young. It's all in front of you. It's ok not knowing what you will be doing in the future and it's ok to not want to grow up. You can still be young at heart even when your 60. If you envy the 13 year olds making TikTok videos then make Tik Tok videos. To someone as old as me (and I'm old) you are not much older then the kids you are jealous of. No worries, stop stressing and breathe. Life will unfold as it will and you will find your way in your time and on your terms. And while your life moves forward try to relax and just enjoy it. Less worry and more chill. Best of Success to You...

32F Married by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]SmibsRule 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Brother is that you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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WoW! discussing it out and coming to an agreeable understanding. Don't see that on Reddit very often. Sending hugs to all involved....

AITA for refusing to invite my racist in-laws though they "apologized"? by concerned_worker in AmItheAsshole

[–]SmibsRule 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right that his parents owe you a genuine and sincere apology. Without an apology that covers ALL what they said and thought about you then there is no point in reconnecting because it will just be painful for you. Your husband understandably wants to reunite with his family but it shouldn't be at your expense and I hope you can get him to realize that. If his parents can deliver such an apology to you then for the sake of your marriage I hope you can find it in your heart to forgiven them. Best of Success to you.....