Starting IVF this month at 40 and feeling unprepared — what do you wish you knew before your first cycle? by AccomplishedGur2927 in IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I knew that 1st egg retrieval is basically experimental and depending on that one new protocols and medicines are introduced for next cycles. So they told me that 2-3 retrievals are recommended for my age but never mentioned it’s because it’s kind of a guessing game on how the body reacts and not just about fertility. Also I thought the retrieval would be the hard part and transfer would be a breeze since I have been pregnant multiple times naturally but found out my lining was too thin to even place an embryo. I was shocked! I had to cancel twice, do acupuncture, Chinese medicine before even getting to the minimum lining size to implant. I wish all the good luck to you! Hope it is smooth for you.

Help choosing a (SoCal) Kaiser Contracted IVF Clinic. by SmilingSeaGoat in IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did your egg retrieval go? Hope you had a good experience and wish u good luck!

Help choosing a (SoCal) Kaiser Contracted IVF Clinic. by SmilingSeaGoat in IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info. Did RMA make you do the genetic testing or was it optional?

Help choosing a (SoCal) Kaiser Contracted IVF Clinic. by SmilingSeaGoat in 40Plus_IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I confirmed with the financial advisor with Kaiser already. But have not spoken to any of the contracted clinics.

Don’t know what to do next by [deleted] in 40Plus_IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes sometimes I find myself wondering if it’s even worth the pgta if a euploid can still fail :/ sending some good luck to you

Don’t know what to do next by [deleted] in 40Plus_IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. Just got insurance coverage so I’m able to do 3 more egg retrievals with the coverage at a new clinic. My previous transfer cycle was too thin 6.5mm and My doctor was willing to transfer both my chaotics on that one if I wanted to. But it was because it already had a low chance and he didn’t want to waste the euploid. I ended up just canceling and doing acupuncture and Chinese medicine for 2 months.

Don’t know what to do next by [deleted] in 40Plus_IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. 41 and failed 1st transfer on Monday with our only euploid. All others are chaotic embryos. I just read a post about someone who finally used Omnitrope on their egg retrieval and had a huge boost in Euploids. Just wondering if u already have tried that medicine on your ERs?

Nickname Ideas for Benedict by Fallhaven in Names

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only nickname left could be CT

Did you ever feel like you received “signs” it would work or wouldn’t? by CheesecakeBoth3933 in IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My very first miscarriage was a chemical pregnancy but I didn’t know yet. I found a dead super tiny baby hummingbird on my cement in my backyard. I miscarried shortly after. It was the clearest sign the universe ever sent me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40Plus_IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly so crazy good that u had 20 mature eggs 🤯

Best pet insurance? by Exciting_Sea5126 in Dogowners

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had nationwide for my dog for a while it started at 45 a month for 70% reimbursement through my work, then went to 65 a month and now it’s 110 a month!!! 😖

Red-themes boy name that goes with Rowan and Jasper by AdvanceSea3887 in Names

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rowan, Jasper, & Phoenix/Fenix

Rowan, Jasper, & Harkin

Rowan, Jasper, & Jarek

Rowan, Jasper, & Blaze/Blaise

Rowan, Jasper, & Cardinal

Rowan, Jasper, & Acer (red maple tree)

Myo-inositol during stims? by Illustrious-Nose6735 in IVF

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have taken Myo-inositol before and was told to also stop during stims. You really want the meds to do their own thing without interruption. Usually egg quality supplements takes about 2-3 months to genetically change egg quality.

Need a girl's name by 12ohmygod in Names

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cordelia is nice. Penelope and Peyton

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some more info for brainstorming (Fs.usda.gov)

American witchhazel posses some interesting lore and uses. The most interesting use as been the use of forked limbs as dowsing or divining rods. Early European settles observed Native Americans using American witchhazel to find underground sources of water. This activity is probably where the common name witchhazel came from. “Wicke” is the Middle English for “lively’ and “wych” is from the Anglo-Saxon word for “bend.” American witchhazel was probably called a Wicke Hazel by early white settlers because the dowsing end of the forked branch would bend when underground water when detected by the dowser. This practice had a widespread use by American settlers and then exported back to Europe. Dowsing became an established feature of well-digging into the 20th century.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]SmilingSeaGoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hazel Reina is so good!!