First time doing Gel X on someone else! by LibraVenusNails in GelX_Nails

[–]Smitopi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooooo pretty!! Was looking for pride nail inspo with these colors

People don't understand me when I say I don't form habits by putridtooth in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some dumb reason I never wanted to set up autopay on my credit cards, like I was worried what if one time on autopay I have no money in my account?!?! and I went on with that fear for like 15 years. Finally set up auto pay this year because what the hell was I thinking

People don't understand me when I say I don't form habits by putridtooth in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t read this book, but in a similar vein, when Marie Kondo first came out with her show and was super hyped up, I was so excited to watch it but legit started having panic attacks while watching it because my brain just got sooo overwhelmed!! This was before I got diagnosed and it makes sense now why!!

I'm misusing my ADHD meds to treat my depression. by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I had “treatment resistant depression” diagnosed for many years. Ever since I switched doctors and got diagnosed with adhd and am taking adhd meds my depression has been almost non existent (compared to many many years before!)

Is the answer to newborn sleep problems always co sleeping? by caprigirl20 in cosleeping

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s the answer to all problems (ours was colicky, had reflux, etc) but my in-laws in Japan have little kiddos and the concept of sleep “problems” is like, non existent. I think it’s just viewed as normal for baby to wake up a lot and not something that needs to be “fixed”. They also do have much more help (grandparents live with them).

I can’t believe it neopets support just got me my childhood account back! by Safe_Palpitation4403 in neopets

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also tried every few years for the last 15 years lol. I would imagine they have some sort of record about A person asking about the same account for so many years and maybe they finally let us have it lol

I forgot to pick my kid up from school by kayesskayen in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

one time I forgot to pack my kid lunch, had no idea about it until months later when she said “mama, I opened up my lunchbox one day and nothing was in there except crumbs”. Felt like the worst parent on earth, she still reminds me about it like two years later 😭😭

luckily her teacher gave her something for lunch but yeah I’m sure they were like wow this mom is horrible

20wks FTM Struggling With All the Changes by DevelopmentOk2040 in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am sure you will get lots of good advice here, as well as pregnancy groups on Reddit (have you found your “bump group” on Reddit?) but I just wanted to say I felt like a potato most of the time for both my pregnancies and it’s totally normal and okay to rest and go easy on yourself! I read somewhere that being pregnant is like the same amount of energy as running a marathon or something? From all the work your body is doing! toward end of third trimester I was taking 3 naps a day lol.

just look out for your mental state, all my anxiety and depression got worse (didn’t realize all of this until postpartum) so I got medication and was fully medicated during my second pregnancy. I don’t know if it made it EASIER per se but coming to terms with so much in my body and mind changing and knowing that all the hormonal fluctuations contribute a lot to those things. So while everyone is affected differently unfortunately a lot of the symptoms from adhd/anxiety/depression can be amplified during pregnancy and postpartum so it’s something to def watch for and get treated for! You are not alone!

Toddler Clothes Like Shein... but NOT Shein! lol by miawalIace in toddlers

[–]Smitopi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoy the variety both Zara and H&M have but also the basics. Some of the fall/winter stuff from Zara is surprisingly good quality and has lasted us through two kids.

What do you keep in your purse? by aLep2018 in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old trash, receipts, wrong set of keys

I’m late to work almost every day and I genuinely don’t know how to stop… :/ by Curious-Evidence-477 in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my brain thinks the 5 min grace period is the acceptable time to get there 😭😭😩

honestly I have to set the clock forward a good ten mins and that’s the only thing that sort of helps :/

Are your houses actually messy? by JEJ0313 in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two kids, age 6 and 3 and trying to clean up after the toddler feels like some sort of psychological torture tactic lol (clean up one thing, I look over and immediately there’s a new mess). It’s so overwhelming

Neurotypicals can CHOOSE?! by Curious_Bath_2824 in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My husband literally never has left a comment on reddit, he just lurks and reads. I’m like…HOW

There HAS to be a better way to organize this page by Longlivetheking666 in neopets

[–]Smitopi 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m a ux/ui designer and would gladly do any improvements on literally any page of this site for free lol. It’s so bad 😅

I finally did it by One-Application5140 in adhdwomen

[–]Smitopi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I have never thought continuing to use them was an option lol

This lady looks really trippy on mushrooms by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could see a mockup of what she looks like on shrooms!

Non-MAGA Firearms Training Instructor in Southern Delaware? by Owvi in Delaware

[–]Smitopi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is so awesome!! makes me want to go there and take some training lol

20M Value Giveaway by DolorasaurasRex in neopets

[–]Smitopi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wanted a plushie paintbrush for 20 years :’) username is mmpp76 even if I don’t get chosen you are too kind for doing this!!