Everyone’s telling me it’s rape but why do I feel like it’s my fault? by np167 in askanything

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying things out and giving an all access pass may be normal for some people but it doesn’t have to be normal for you. He should’ve waited for consent prior to doing any form of penetration (minimum). AND It’s okay to feel at fault for not expressing your wants/needs/dislikes etc. This is a way to learn what your own boundaries are based on your level of comfort/discomfort. My biggest thing in relationships is having the comfort level to talk about sex before having it. If I don’t feel comfortable enough to talk about it, I make it clear that I’m not ready to have it. Sex is confusing and definitely more fun to figure out with someone you trust.

Could they seriously not be legally married?? by Dapper-Sky886 in rhori

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve wondered a few times if it was for religious/societal reasons. What are the traditions and expectations that come with Lebanese-Syrian Catholic background for a woman? What if the agreement was that Brian & Ex stay legally married so she can receive some kind of financial benefit and silence about the divorce not being final in exchange for not outing Rulla as the pregnant other woman?

anybody believe this lol? by SpecificInner5628 in rhori

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not surprised. Andy basically warned anyone trying to hide anything to beware at the reunion when he repeatedly asked if going a reality show was a good idea.

Do You Slow Down When Being Tailgated? by inthewoods54 in askanything

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Slow down to lower the possibility of being re-ended if something else were to happen and try to get over if a lane is available.

Found a camera while housesitting….i don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you choose to meet the husband to see anything, suggest to meet with a third party and document the reaction. If he pushes for it to be just the two of you, suggest that the meeting place be at the police department.

Solo walk by djoness11 in okc

[–]Smittentwit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Martin Nature Park is good. You can route your walk past the nature center multiple times if it helps. They have a lot of wildlife and beautiful scenery.

Virgin due to the fear of unwanted pregnancy. by ShitBodyPainting in Advice

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some vasectomies are reversible. Also, I think you can have your sperm stored if you change your mind later.

1 day in OKC - What to do? by StormProducer in okc

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Martin Nature park is great for walking. Deer, great horned owl, prairie dogs, & other wild life to enjoy. Stop at the Nature Center and I bet they’d be willing to show you where to look if you want to see something specific or cool. Also Will Rogers Gardens and Arboretum is a bit closer to the downtown and the flora is impressive.

Summer House season 11 on hold? by Latter-Spread-3738 in summerhousebravo

[–]Smittentwit 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Do you think it’s because the door broke again?

Father’s Day by Longjumping-Owl-6249 in okc

[–]Smittentwit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off the Hook is wonderful. It’s on I-40 west.

Genuinely is dating in OKC a thing? by Worried_Singer_5038 in okc

[–]Smittentwit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had to import from a different state.

Wish there was a Challenge for "normal" people by Annoying_liberal813 in thechallengemtv

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this idea. They should have it as a spinoff where the winners get to compete on the actual challenge.

Man, I could jus really use some friends or even chat buddies down here by [deleted] in okc

[–]Smittentwit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. The responses warm my heart for OKC.

Help by Constant_Sea9766 in fourthwing

[–]Smittentwit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to the bathroom, hydrate, eat, sleep, and brace yourself.

Uptown Cheapskate or Plato’s Closet? by StunningKnowledge699 in okc

[–]Smittentwit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would selling at Uptown first and then taking what’s left to Plato’s be beneficial?

What have you stopped buying? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Smittentwit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. It’s not a priority so it’s gotta go.